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Love has always been an incomprehensible subject, it is not directly proportional to effort and harvest, many times rely on a feeling, and feeling is precisely the most illusory thing, we can not change through artificial change.
A man who doesn't feel for you, no matter how much you put your heart and lungs into him, there is no way to make him feel sorry for you, and the feeling of this matter has nothing to do with whether you are good or not. In the past, I always felt that a person did not love himself because he was not good enough, and then he found out that the person who did not love you, even if you became excellent, he still had no feelings for you.
Many women will feel that as long as they give enough to let him see his own good, one day he will change his mind. So constantly increase the chips to pay. But in fact, to impress him by being good to him is the cheapest way, and the least likely to achieve what you want.
There are some people who are not impressed when you stand in front of him and don't look at you at all. Some people are attractive enough to make many men flock to her.
Some people, no matter how much you give, it will not leave any ripples in the hearts of men. Some people stand there doing nothing, and there are many people who are willing to give a lot for her.
Those women who make men flock to them, they all have something in common, and it is also such a woman that makes men most difficult to resist.
A woman with an opinion
There will not be two identical leaves in this world, nor two exactly the same people, each of us is unique, each of us has its own charm, can release the energy of the self.
We all have to find our own place in this world and move forward steadily in the direction we have determined, only in this way can we maximize our self-bloom.
Even though we may not be the best, or the best, we will never find it again. We all need to have such self-confidence, be firm in our own ideas, and not be easily taken away by others.
However, not all women can do this, many people like to follow the clouds, completely have no ideas and opinions of their own, just blindly follow the tide.
Ask her anything, and she says I can do it, I can do whatever. It seems to be a kind of social performance, but if you have such an attitude in everything, over time you will only let others ignore you, and will not ask your thoughts at any time.
Especially in the relationship between the sexes, once many women fall in love with a person, they completely live into a background board, completely have no ideas of their own, everything is to listen to the will of men, your well-behaved and sensible, will only become a chip for men to make progress, and in the end he will resent your blind obedience.
The kind of woman who has the opinion is the most fascinating thing for men, and they have their own ideas no matter what kind of things they face. You can discuss all kinds of things with men, talk about your own opinions sparkling, never follow the wishes of others, and be able to firm up your own ideas, such a woman, men will look up.
A bit cold woman
Extreme enthusiasm is never the key to grasping love, and properly cooling can stimulate men's enthusiasm.
In men's minds, they may not like women who are too active and overly enthusiastic. Of course, women have the right to pursue their love, but they must grasp the proportion of pay. Don't be too enthusiastic about him, that will only make him look down on you.
The more you value him and the better you treat him, the less likely he is to take you seriously. Easy to get is often not cherished, women must remember this.
You can send a little bit of a sign of love to him, a little bit of enthusiasm for him, and then go and watch his reaction. If he responds, then it is not too late for you to continue to be good to him, and if he reacts weakly, don't force it again, this kind of woman is too cheap.
Men enjoy the desire to conquer in love, and the more difficult it is for women to get it, it will stimulate the infinite desire in their hearts, thus constantly increasing the degree of investment. If you always revolve around him, and he tickles his finger slightly, you immediately hook up, and from the bottom of your heart, you have already looked down on you.
Women should be a little colder, even if you love him again, you must pay attention to the degree of giving. Feelings are like playing a seesaw game, you need to give him a certain amount of space to let him feedback to you, if you are alone in this hard work, even if you pay more, there is no way to let this relationship circulate.
The kind of women who are a little colder, they are like a puzzle, can trigger men's unlimited interest and desire, can't help but want to get closer, hard to resist.
The woman who made him hold on
Women should not show a look that must be him, even if you have really deep feelings for him, do not give him such feedback.
When a man can easily hold you, then naturally there will be no attention to you. Because he feels that no matter whether he is good or bad, you will not leave him, and you will always be good to her, so how can he be willing to pay for you?
If you are the only one in the world, always around him, and show a look of fear that he will leave in the process of getting along, men will eat your feelings for him. You always play the side that pays more, always a look of perfection, the original intention is to really love him, willing to be good to him, but this has become a chip for men to hurt you.
Ge Weilong in "The First Incense" just took Georgie Joe too seriously, so that he repeatedly hurt her and did not take her to heart at all.
Although the aunt was full of use of Ge Weilong, she said justice when she advised Ge Weilong. She said: You are too straightforward, he has stabilized that he is the only one in your heart, so he dares to be so casual that he does not treat you as a serious person.
When a man's heart has eaten you thoroughly, pinched to death, naturally will not cherish you, to become a woman he can't hold, don't take him too seriously, let him have no sense of security, give him an uncertainty, and even some sense of crisis, so that men will value you in their hearts.
In fact, the above 3 points have one thing in common, that is, don't take the man too seriously, don't take him as your whole, and don't completely lose yourself with him as the center.
Feelings are something that both parties need to pay, and only by paying for the relationship together can we maintain a balanced state. The more you take him seriously, the less he will take you to heart.
People are a bit of a slut, and what is easy to get will not be cherished, but will focus on those who are not easy to get. The more women who are a little cold, the harder it will be for men to resist.