Ge Weilong is a girl in Zhang Ailing's "First Burning Incense" work, because of her family's economic problems, in order to continue her studies, she came from Shanghai to hong Kong to join her aunt.
But when she really lived with her aunt, Ge Weilong fell into the mud one step deeper and one step shallower and could not extricate herself. Especially when she fell in love with the playboy Georgie, she was also doomed to accelerate her depravity. At first it was an aunt's bait, and later it became a long-term meal ticket for men.
Money, love, those illusory dreams and expectations for the future made Ge Weilong willing to sell his dignity and soul.
Women who have just opened their hearts are most likely to be deceived by "love", but they are more likely to hear the influence of the environment
Georgie tells Ge Weilong that he will not marry or marry her, but that he can bring her happiness, and climbs into the girl's bed at night, and when she surrenders her virginity and offers to let the man marry her, she gets a direct denial.
And when the man was ready to leave, he entered the little girl's room, and the dirty and chaotic life relationship was not because these girls were born with no self-esteem, but in the big environment, since they were all like this, since they were moved, why not?
The environment really affects a person, don't test your concentration, or feel how different.
Some roads, one wrong step, can never go back.
When she stepped on the boat back to Shanghai, was carried by the passers-by on the child's wet skirt corner, down the stairs was knocked out of the luggage, on the boat was robbed by the big mother, the piles and piles have already made her unbearable, at this moment coupled with the unwillingness of feelings makes her even more addicted.
Just as the so-called "from frugality to luxury, from luxury to frugality", when you adapt to such a living atmosphere, more accustomed to such a quality of days, how many people can continue to live a poor life.
There are some things that shouldn't be touched in the first place
Her aunt left her with her own selfish intentions, and when she patiently taught her niece step by step, she accidentally fell in love with a man she shouldn't love, in other words, the girl and Georgie were also deliberate masterpieces of her aunt.
The aunt thought about Ge Weilong's male classmate and young student Lu Zhaolin, so she deliberately used this love field master to distract her niece's attention.
Ge Weilong had lived in her aunt's house for so long, it was impossible that she had not heard the rumors of this veteran of the love scene, and it was not that no one had advised her to stay away from her brother, and such a bet was a girl's delusion, and there was also an overestimation of herself.
Ge Weilong, who had made up his mind to go, went back and asked his aunt that the man was worried about the economy if he did not marry, so as long as he made enough money, he could do it.
Wilde said, "I can resist everything except temptation." ”
People really don't overestimate self-control, in the face of desire, we are all weak. In the face of human nature, no matter how much you give, you can't do anything.
Georgie's sister comforts Ge Weilong not to blame his brother, he just doesn't know what loyalty is, not that he doesn't love, but the way of love is different. Some people don't change from the beginning, and some people, from the beginning, shouldn't let themselves fall.
Ge Weilong offers his beloved man by betraying himself, and the only New Year's gift he asks for at the finale is a lie. to make up for their emotional trauma and regrets.
If you want to be happy and want a better life, don't hope for shortcuts
There is no problem in pursuing life, but don't get it through shortcuts, any shortcut will make you pay a corresponding or more price in a new way.
The people in "The First Incense", blinded by reality and desire, continue to move forward in the direction of their own goals, but ignore human nature.
A person's life is like a Tang monk learning the scriptures, the path that should be taken, the bitterness that should be eaten, the bitterness that should be eaten, the bittersweet and the bittersweet, the
Lu Zhaolin betrayed himself to study abroad by his aunt because of his family's financial deficiency, and Ge Weilong betrayed himself to obtain the man he wanted and a superficially decent marriage.
When a person, for various reasons, thinks that he is different from others, when he enters an environment full of desire, he is actually doomed to no longer be controlled by himself on a certain day or at a certain time, it is difficult for people to be alone in the face of reality, money and their own needs, once contaminated, want to use morality, the principle adheres to how difficult it is to "get out of the mud and not stain", close to Zhu is close to ink and black, and people must not underestimate the power of assimilation.
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Text/Relief Emotional Station
(Author: Xiao Yu, psychological counselor, focusing on the emotional field), good at the restoration of romantic relationships, marital contradictions and differences, and the healing of psychological trauma caused by the original ecological family. The lonely journey of life, listening to your grievances and pressures, helping visitors improve their skills in getting along with the sexes, saving their lovers, managing their feelings, and striving to become happier people.