Born without raising, not as good as birds and beasts, raising but not teaching, ashamed of parents.
This era is very strange, people with good family backgrounds, giving birth to a child must be carefully considered, people with bad conditions, are eager to give birth to eight in one go.?
Guizhou Bijie, a rural mother showed her "battle record", married for 13 years, a total of 7 babies, the first 5 are female babies, the 6th is a male baby, the 7th baby is still a female baby.
She dedicated the best 7 years of marriage to her children, and now the children are grown up one by one, lively and cute, and the "big children" help their mothers with housework and become small helpers in the family.
Netizens said that in the future, those who will be affected are all female dolls.
Netizen: No support?
However, looking at the environment in which they live, netizens can't envy them, the poorer they are, the more they live? As the saying goes, the eldest sister is like a mother, the eldest daughter in the family has to worry about the lives of younger siblings, and when she is a child, she has to help her parents with housework. Compared with the only child, she grew up more tired, and the burden of life was on her, forcing her to grow up earlier, more girls, fewer boys, and we can even infer that there is a tendency to favor sons over daughters.
In this regard, netizens are very controversial, and most people's views are not supported, the reason is that the conditions are not good, and the birth of children will suffer.
There was once a very popular topic on the Internet " no money to have children " , most people voted, can not give the best conditions not to bring children into the world.
Author's Opinion:?
Time, energy, money, parents have to do their best, less than one, his growth will be much less than his peers.
Although the three-child policy is open, but ask friends around, willing to have a second child are very few, on the one hand, considering the hardships of bringing a baby, and secondly, afraid of not being able to give the child an ideal life.
Netizens do not envy her 13 years to give birth to 7 babies, but worry that the female baby will be more affected in the future, but the parties do not care, the mother lives in an environment with many sisters and brothers, so she is not aware of the drawbacks behind it.
This generation of parents is different from the past, and decades ago, if there were not many children in the family, they would be pointed out by neighbors and may be bullied. Nowadays, on the contrary, modern parents are responsible for both the physical and mental development of their children and the psychological development of their children, and the more they are born, they cannot guarantee that their energy will be evenly distributed to each child.
It is not that the family can not have children without money, but to be responsible for the growth of each child's life, raising children is never a simple slogan, parents should understand that the family for children is not only a place to live, but also should be a source of inspiration for life, development and growth.
Be cautious when giving birth to a baby?
The author has a college classmate, there are three younger brothers and two younger sisters in the family, as the eldest sister, she often has to perform duties for her parents, spends very little money on herself every month, will save, and then pay tuition to her younger siblings.
Not only that, she also often uses the weekend time to go to the mall to work, every penny can not be squandered, girls of the same age buy bags to buy lipstick, but she often calculates that her money is not enough. She has long been accustomed to such a life, and from a very young age, she must learn to understand things, just because she is the eldest in the family.
It can be said that being her younger sibling is happy, but as a daughter, she is unfortunate, fulfilling her obligations for her parents, and being forced to be helpless in life, not her wishes.
Looking at the rural mother mentioned above, 7 babies in 13 years, it seems that we can see the helplessness of the eldest daughter when she grows up, and we hope that every child can share the same love, quality education, and carefree growth life of the parents, rather than carrying a heavy burden at a young age.
Marriage should be cautious, and the birth of a baby should be more cautious, hoping that every child can be treated gently by life.