Success is something that everyone wants to pursue.
Thankfully, everyone wants to pursue different things in their hearts, so we don't necessarily need to consume our energy in blind competition.
Different people have different definitions of success.
But the process of pursuing success is similar.
Habit is a very important thing, it means that we can rely on perseverance to persist in some things, into a daily life.
You may also find that some successful people around you often have some common characteristics.
How many of the following habits are common to successful people?
Stay away from people, things, and things that consume you
A person's energy is often limited.
When we focus our attention on some people and things that consume our energy, we tend to slow down our growth.
If we spend our time arguing with others, meaningless entertainment, and worthless socializing, we lose that part of our time to grow.
Many people think that entertainment is a way to relax themselves.
But in fact, most people choose entertainment only by exhausting themselves to numb themselves.
It is important to choose an environment that allows you to grow, so stay away from people and things that will drain your energy.
Always compete with the good guys, not with the fools.
Keep reading
Reading is a habit we often refer to.
Data show that 86% of rich people have the habit of reading. And only 26 percent of the poorer people like to read.
Of course, good reading habits are also related to the books chosen.
Reading some curious and chicken soup books for a long time cannot bring people spiritual growth, but has developed the habit of finding excitement and comfort in words.
Effective reading is related to our reading goals.
For example, some books may improve their professional skills, some books can exercise their thinking, and some books can train their emotional management.
Although the development of electronic devices has brought us more and more fragmented information, reading a complete book can give us a more comprehensive understanding of the formation of ideas, and we can also look at problems from a broader perspective in daily life.
Habits of exercise
Many people will feel that there is no direct relationship between exercise and success.
After all, I am not an athlete, and I can't keep the habit of exercising, and there is no way to bring myself a stable income.
However, regular exercise, in addition to maintaining good health, also helps to form a stable emotional state and cognition and thinking habits.
And people who generally have exercise habits tend to have better performance in the following points.
No procrastination
Execution is an obstacle for many people on the road to success.
Many times, we know what we need to do to grow, and although the head is rational, the body is particularly emotional.
Staying active is a way to effectively change your procrastination habits.
Through exercise, on the one hand, you can release the negative emotions within you, and on the other hand, you can also keep the body's skills in operation continuously.
The reason why we procrastinate is often due to the accumulation of negative emotions, which is a kind of avoidance psychology.
Because once the core problem is reached, it will trigger the negative emotions within oneself, so I use a way of avoidance to temporarily liberate myself.
Purposeful
I don't know if you have found that many successful people look a little indifferent.
They are less emotional and tend to appear more rational.
In fact, this is because their intrinsic motivations are usually clearer and the purpose of doing things is often stronger.
Emotions that have nothing to do with their goals are not what they focus on, but rather, they focus their attention on their goals.
Emotions are a factor that can easily influence decision-making.
Successful people are often more able to pass through this layer of emotional fog to see the problem itself, and what is the key to the real urgent need to solve.
Success is a personal definition.
We can define our lives from our own point of view.
It's just that our thoughts are often determined by our own upbringing.
Success is a beautiful thing, but if you only focus on the goal and ignore the process, you will also let yourself fall into more anxiety.
Schopenhauer said that he would rather be a healthy beggar than be a sick emperor.
There are many definitions of success, but in the process, we need to have good habits and be with ourselves.