The clock on the wall points to "11", it is late outside the window, there is a man and a woman in the house talking very happily, the woman is dressed very "cool", as if she has just bathed, the man is dressed very decently, the black-rimmed glasses are slightly supported, like a gentle person, the two sit very close, the atmosphere is delicate, at this time, a knock on the door breaks this "beauty":
"Property! Charge a property fee! It may be that they were carried away by the beautiful atmosphere, and someone came to collect the property fee at eleven o'clock in the evening without arousing the suspicion of these two people, and the things of "opening the door to check the water meter" and "repairing the faucet at home" may have been too long ago, and the imitators forgot to be vigilant in the bureau.
The woman twisted her body to open the door, and after opening the door, she was stunned and did not dare to make a sound, and it was her husband, the owner of the house, who "collected the property fee". So who is the man sitting on the couch with glasses on? In order to facilitate the distinction, let's first call him "Lao Wang", Lao Wang suddenly became cramped, he should be like the man who entered the door, also thinking about who he is and why he appeared here at this time.
It happened in Taicang, Jiangsu Province, and the cause was actually like this. The man of the house, Chen Mou (not his real surname), did not marry his wife for too long, but because he was busy with work, he did not have much time to stay at home. Although getting married and having children is a natural process, there are many young people who do not want to have children too early, after all, after having children, there are more entanglements, which also means that they no longer have a two-person world, and Mr. and Mrs. Chen are small couples who do not want to be tied up too early.
The wife is a typical "modern beauty", thin, fair-skinned, cheerful, and relatively open-minded. Chen also spent a lot of energy when pursuing his wife. The days after marriage were originally raised eyebrows and respected each other, but recently Chen found that his wife was obviously not very concerned about himself, and often hid and played with his mobile phone at night, as soon as he approached, his wife would immediately run away as if she had a spring on her body.
It is said that a woman's sixth sense is the most accurate, in fact, this intuition is available to both men and women, and it is not so much intuition as life experience. The wife has reached this point, and Chen Mou is strange not to play the drum in his heart. So on this day he told his wife that he was going to go on a business trip, the time may be three or four days, in fact, he booked a room near his home, waiting for the rabbit, to see if his wife would really do anything to sorry him.
At nearly eleven o'clock in the evening, Chen really saw a strange man walking into his home, and he quickly called his friends and several relatives who lived nearby and asked them to catch the adulteress with him. At eleven o'clock, a friend knocked on Chen's door and said that he had come to collect property fees according to Chen's command, which led to the scene that appeared at the beginning.
After opening the door, Chen immediately rushed over and choked Lao Wang's neck, asking him who he was and why the big night would appear here, Chen Mou's wife was standing on the side and was dumbfounded, she did not know how to explain, this husband had never seen a man who appeared in his home at night, she said" "We are just friends chatting", and the husband's hand holding Lao Wang's neck was tighter.
In a hurry, Chen's wife said to Chen, "We really haven't done anything, if you don't believe it, you can go to the hospital for examination!" The effect of this sentence is not to clarify the facts, but to add fuel to the fire, Chen Mou was simply furious after hearing it, and beat up Lao Wang together with his friends. Then he turned to his wife and said, "It's over!" ”
Friends and relatives present used mobile phones to film the situation on the spot, and after posting it online, it caused a heated discussion among netizens. Whether There was an actual relationship between Chen's wife and Lao Wang is still unclear, but if Chen mou returned home later, it is not known whether he could really catch the adulteress in bed. Out of love for his wife, he did not let his wife expose her more embarrassing side to everyone, and did not have any physical conflict with his wife when his anger was at its peak, which showed that Chen Mou was still good, but the marriage between the two of them was in jeopardy.
The act of "cheating" in marriage violates the duty of fidelity stipulated in the Marriage Law, and the husband and wife should be practical with each other in their common life to maintain the specificity and exclusivity of the marital relationship. The duty of fidelity of husband and wife is to protect the interests of the infringed, and the husband and wife must be single-minded in love, emotionally loyal, and loyal to each other. It emphasizes equality between men and women, i.e. whether the man or the woman is contrary to the law, the punishment is the same.
However, "infidelity" is called "infidelity" in the law, and the law mainly stipulates three kinds of marital infidelity, namely: adultery, cohabitation, and bigamy. Adultery refers to the occasional sexual intercourse with the opposite sex outside of marriage. Cohabitation refers to "a person with a spouse and the opposite sex outside of marriage, not in the name of husband and wife, and live together continuously and stably."
Chen's wife obviously did not have the behavior of bigamy or cohabitation with others, and the "adultery" was not caught with evidence, so she has not yet become the absolute fault party in this marriage relationship.
In the marriage relationship, there are indeed not a few people who cheat, so if the non-fault party wants to use the law to defend its own interests, it must have sufficient evidence, there are many "catching adultery" is actually invalid, its behavior is not legally recognized, and Chen's approach is relatively preferable. Some people go alone when catching adultery for the reason that "the ugliness of the family cannot be publicized", and once this kind of behavior involves litigation, everything seen by the perpetrator can only be counted as a statement, and cannot be used as evidence.
Chen invited several people who were willing to testify in court to go to catch the rape together, and made a video record by taking photos, recordings, videos, etc., and had sufficient video evidence and witnesses at the scene of the rape, which can be recognized in court. In order to further prove his wife's infidelity, Chen can also collect other indirect evidence such as:
QQ or WeChat chat records, phone calls, TEXT message content, electronic or paper letters, intimate photos of the two people in public, group photos of traveling together, rental contracts, property and utility vouchers, house opening records, bills, audio-visual materials, witness testimony, exchange of gifts, etc. It should be noted that some of these evidences cannot be taken out separately to become evidence of the other party's cheating, but if you have a complete set, the evidence of the other party's cheating can be settled.
It should be noted that when taking evidence, we must pay attention to our own way, some actors use surveillance, surveillance and other behaviors are very easy to bear the corresponding civil liability because of infringement of the civil rights of third parties, and may even allow themselves to bear administrative and criminal responsibility, so "catching adultery" should be appropriate, and in the marriage relationship, we must also pay attention to stopping losses in time.