What's the most unbearable thing you think you've ever done? For 14-year-old Hao Hao (pseudonym), it is loneliness. In a remote village in Linyi City, Shandong Province, this left-behind teenager, he is not afraid of the dark, nor is he afraid of danger, but when in the empty room, no one chats with him, always cooks, eats, washes dishes, sweeps the floor... When that was when he was really scared.
Haohao's grandmother Liu Yumei is more than 80 years old, in recent years cerebellar atrophy, treatment is ineffective, and later life is almost unable to take care of themselves, even walking is a problem. Before, grandpa was taking good care of grandma, but since grandpa died of coronary heart disease last year, no one can take care of grandma anymore, and can only go to a nursing home to live. Since then, Hao hao has begun to live alone.
"Our family turned out to be very happy, mom and dad and sister were together." Hao Hao sipped his lips and said. However, 10 years ago, Haohao's mother found out that there was a tumor in the abdomen, and she underwent 2 operations before and after, spending 70,000 or 80,000 yuan, and was tormented by the pain and treatment process, and finally failed to save it. At this time, Haohao, who was only 4 years old, had no concept of death, and when he grew up to know the matter of life and death, his impression of his mother was blurred.
My mother died early, and my father worked outside the home for many years and could not see each other often. As the saying goes, the eldest sister is like a mother, and the elder sister Xiaomin (pseudonym) has become the person hao relies on the most, and the two have almost nothing to talk about. The sister has achieved excellent results since childhood, which is the pride of her father Xu Qinshan, and was admitted to Shandong Management College 4 years ago. In school, the person my sister cares about most besides her grandmother in the nursing home is Haohao. Because during the holidays and weekends, there is always only Hao Hao alone in the family, and his sister is worried about his safety, secretly working and studying with his father, using the money earned to give Hao Hao a tutoring class, accompanied by classmates and teachers, and the sister can be slightly relieved.
After graduating from college this year, Xiaomin found a job in Jinan, although the salary is not high, at least it can solve the personal food and clothing, which is to reduce some of the pressure on her father. But Xiao Min, who has been actively working hard in her studies, is not willing to stop here, and she is working while preparing for next year's graduate school exams, which is very hard. In this regard, the father expressed his support. Despite the poor conditions at home, Xu Qinshan believes that as a father, he should respect his children, and parents want their children to live better.
For the sake of the family, Dad went around working outside the home, and on average he could only go home once a month, and the longest time did not come home for 2 months. Whenever my sister or father came back, I took Hao Hao with me to visit my grandmother at the nursing home. This is also the happiest time for Haohao, because finally there is a family with him, chatting and talking with him.
In the 10 years since Haohao's mother died, Haohao's father has desperately earned money, "No matter how difficult it is, you have to live, you have to raise your children." "For Haohao's father, when he goes out to earn money, he can't take care of his children, leaving Haohao alone at home, worrying and not worrying every day; not going out to stay in the small village of his hometown, the money earned is completely insufficient for the entire family to spend." Haohao's father's heart is both entangled and guilty, and all kinds of tastes are intertwined, which is the helplessness of a family pillar. Especially every time he heard Hao Hao tell himself that he missed his family, that he was alone at home and had no one to accompany him, this father was like a knife. What parent would be willing to leave their children at home alone and go out to work by themselves, all of this is like Haohao's father said: "I can't help it!" ”
Although he could not give Haohao sufficient company, the father's love for his son was beyond doubt. In a person's world, Haohao has nothing, even his own birthday, he forgot, he did not expect that his father actually remembered, and specially rushed back to celebrate his birthday. Hao Hao knows that it is not easy for his father to earn money, and when asked what birthday gift he wants, Hao Hao insists on not wanting any gifts.
Up to now, Hao Hao has lived alone for more than 1 year, and has begun to learn to get used to this kind of solitary life, although he is usually accompanied by friends and classmates, but friendship can not replace the feelings brought by family affection.
Haohao is now in the first year of junior high school, with excellent academic performance, and for the future, Haohao's dream is not so grand. He wants to study well, become a teacher in his hometown in the future, take his father and grandmother to his side, and the family will never be separated again. But now, Haohao, his father, sister and grandmother are on their own, and the family's suffering can only be swallowed into their own stomachs. (Author/Lin Xueqing Producer/Inspiration Media)
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