Parents know that society is sinister, why do they still teach their children to be kind from an early age?
Because that's the most basic protection for children.
It is precisely because of the sinister society that you have to make your children kind, kind people are reassuring, and people and animals are harmless. If you can't threaten others, you won't provoke those sinister people.
There is a saying that if you are not afraid of thieves stealing, you are afraid of thieves, no matter how shrewd you are, you can still have the power of the old rivers and lakes, not enough experience, not enough means, those superficial shrewdness can only cause jealousy, suspicion, and even frame-up.
It is good for children to be kind, the default rule of this society is justice, justice is protected, if the rules of society are sinister, calculating, and the law of the jungle, then there will be no order and light. Although the truth may be the law of the jungle, the truth wrapped in justice is always like the naked truth.
Although human nature is downward, but people's hearts are upward, you see that even those who are the most evil, when his status is not threatened, his heart also has a yearning for good things, if people have no threat, no fear, no comparison and resource plunder, their hearts are still good. Otherwise, let your heart live in the shadows all day long, and let yourself live in an environment full of garbage mosquitoes, no one can stand it.
So kindness is marketable, and at the same time it is protected, although everyone has their own little Jiujiu in their hearts, they still have to be kind on the big side.
Otherwise, if you don't try to be kind, the bad people will swallow you, and the good people will reject you, do you still have a foothold?
Furthermore, people of great goodness have appeal and leadership. A person who can make everyone in the world obey him and willingly follow him, do you think it will be a selfish person?
Wrong, in this world, it is not who has the ability to have power, but who can benefit others will be endowed with rights. And the premise of seeking benefits for others must also have a good element.
This is Yangmou.
Finally, kindness can brighten people's hearts.
Therefore, parents still have to lay a good background for their children's kindness, one is to protect, the second is to gain influence, and the third is to live where they want.
And now many people feel that they should not teach their children to be kind, for fear of suffering, in fact, it is not that parents are wrong to educate their children to be kind, but that most parents do not know what kindness is.
The so-called kindness that is usually taught to children, what should be honest, duty, not causing trouble, tolerating others and pleasing others, etc., is not kindness, it is cowardice.
True goodness is to change things for the better and obtain the greatest benefit under the premise of not subjectively harming others, for oneself, for others, and for society.
You see, the difference between conspiracy and yang conspiracy is that extremely smart people are plotting things, but good people are called yang conspiracy, and insidious people are called conspiracy.
The strategy has never changed, but the position of the person who uses it is different. Wang Yangming has done so many things, and his methods are not vicious, but when he came, he said to himself: "My heart is bright."
Therefore, if your baby is a mediocre talent, you have to teach him to be kind, that is to protect him. If you are mediocre and not kind, you often die in the first episode.
If your baby is a talent, you have to teach him to be kind, and at the same time learn techniques with a good background, in order to gain support and have the strength to fight evil.
If your baby is a genius, then you must be even kinder, otherwise he will be a demon in the world, much more than Hitler's bull.
