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In this embarrassing family story, the children are undoubtedly the most innocent victims.
No matter how divorced couples deal with their grievances, custody and children's education should always be taken seriously.
Wang Xiaofei is portrayed as a father who endures humiliation and longs to care for his children, and his actions are like a silent cry, trying to find a way to communicate with his children in the double bondage of law and morality.
Every attempt he made seemed so clumsy but so sincere.
And Da S, as the mother of the children, no matter what considerations her decision is based on, her series of extreme behaviors - refusing children to contact their fathers, reprimanding helpful teachers, etc., have caused great dissatisfaction and confusion among the public.
For the sake of children's future, people can't help but ask: Is this kind of education really correct? Is the heart of the children who grow up in this way really healthy?
Children need to be nourished by love, understanding and tolerance for their growth.
Every small weakness of parents may become a strong backing for children's growth.
Education is not only the inculcation of knowledge, but more importantly, the guidance of the soul and the cultivation of feelings.
Allowing children to grow up in a whirlpool of negative emotions is not only unhelpful, but can also be counterproductive.
After the news broke that the father's gifts had been rejected and even asked to be discarded, public sentiment was high, and questions were mercilessly questioned about the mother's approach to education.
The teacher, who teaches the children how to distinguish between right and wrong, is not immune to anger.
Such a scene undoubtedly makes all those who care about this matter feel heartache.
Divorce is not the end, but a new beginning, an opportunity to redefine family relationships and parenting.
If we can discuss each other's rights and responsibilities and future cooperation methods with the children's well-being as the starting point, I believe that any divorced family can find the most suitable solution for the children.
Let's hope that in this sad story, all adults will let go of their personal emotional strife and refocus on the real needs of children.
May they be able to say something like, "For the sake of our children, we are willing to sit down, put aside our grievances, and discuss the future together." ”
Because the happiness of children is their most precious common property.
This is not only the need of two children, but also the expectation of this society.
In the future, I hope that both sides of the dispute can show a more mature attitude and create an environment full of love and understanding for the children to grow up.