Hello everyone, today let's talk about how to educate children. When it comes to education, our old friend Mr. Zeng Shiqiang has a unique opinion, he said: "The best way to educate children is not cramming teaching, but companionship and communication. This is simple and crude, but it hits the heart, don't you think it makes sense?
Master Tsang Shiqiang often emphasized: "We may not fully understand the world of children, but through chatting, we can enter their hearts." As the old saying goes, "Listening to your words is better than reading a book for ten years", on the way of children's growth, instead of forcing them to accept our views, it is better to listen patiently to their ideas and let them learn to think in a relaxed conversation.
I remember once, Zeng Shiqiang mentioned: "Children's problems are often hidden behind the problems. Yes, when we ask, "Is the homework done?", they may really just want a caring hug or an opportunity to share their learning difficulties. So, don't rush to blame, put down your phone first, sit down, and with your gaze and smile, open the door to their inner world.
Sometimes, all we need is a simple "What happened at school today?" to start a magical parent-child time. This kind of chat not only enhances the relationship, but also makes children feel respected and understood, and invisibly cultivates their self-confidence and communication skills.
Of course, chatting doesn't mean letting things go. The key is to guide and make your suggestions at the right time, but remember to ask questions rather than commands. For example, "Do you think this might have a better outcome?" gives children a chance to express themselves without stressing them out.
Zeng Shiqiang also said: "Educating children is not to change them, but to make them a better version of themselves." So, let's be that patient listener together, with love and understanding, to accompany them through this amazing journey.
Finally, I would like to conclude with a borrowed phrase: "Education is a marathon, not a sprint." "Parents, let us accompany our children to grow up slowly in our daily lives, and let them gain wisdom in laughter, which is the real way of education.
If you agree with Zeng Shiqiang's point of view, then share this concept with your friends! After all, a good educational concept is worth inheriting together. It is expected that every family can find their own rhythm of education, so that children can grow up happily in love and understanding.