There will be some "bad habits" before the baby is 3 years old, and some mothers are curious about who taught them to the baby and can't wait to correct the baby. In fact, some of the "bad habits" before the age of 3 are not as "bad" as we think, but the natural manifestation of the healthy growth of the child, which is a necessary stage in the process of children's growth and development. Mr. Understander suggested that it is a good thing that the baby has these "bad" habits, and it is not necessary to care about it, and it is counterproductive to manage it.
First, eat hands
Baby in the first 3 months or so, there will be obvious love to suck small hands behavior habits, many parents not only have to pay attention to whether there is something next to the baby in the mouth at any time, but also worry about the bacteria on the hands, easy to get sick from the mouth, so once you see the baby sucking small hands, you will immediately intervene to stop.
In fact, this is the normal physiological need of the child to enter the "oral period", and whether this demand is met or not will affect the child later. If you interfere too much with the baby, so that the baby's needs are not met, it will encourage the child's behavior, and it will be more serious
Second, crawl around
Mothers who love babies do not like to be afraid of their babies on the floor, because they are worried that breathing in the "dirty" things on the floor will not be beneficial to the baby's health. Mr. Understander suggests that do not let the child climb because you feel dirty, crawling is the first step for the baby to walk, in the crawling process can not only strengthen the coordination of the baby's hands, eyes, waist, legs and other parts of the body, the limbs are more flexible, but also allow the baby to take the initiative to contact and recognize things earlier, and promote the development of brain development and cognitive ability.
Moreover, babies themselves will have a strong curiosity and curiosity, crawling is one of the important ways for them to explore, know and understand the world.
Three, throw things
The baby's performance in the "hand critical period" is that he likes to throw things, often throwing things around in his hands, letting his parents pick them up, throw them out again, pick them up, throw them out again... Having fun, the baby's strange behavior makes parents puzzled.
Throwing things shows that the baby's motor skills have begun to develop, and in addition to exercising his hand-brain cooperation ability by constantly "throwing" with his hands, he can also feel the distance of space by throwing things.
At this time, parents can accompany the baby to play the game of throwing things, guide the baby to recognize the space around them, and grasp the definitions of up and down, left and right, near and far, and how much.
Therefore, the so-called "bad habits" are not necessarily really bad habits, and parents try not to stop the child's ability to explore the world before the baby is 3 years old!