"Your mother's family is so rich, what's wrong with buying a car for your sister-in-law as a dowry?"

01.

"If you don't pay this money, I won't recognize your son," the mother-in-law dropped this sentence, turned around and left.

Really, if my husband and I had a good relationship, my husband would have been able to carry it clearly, and we would have divorced a long time ago.

My husband and I met at work, my relationship, my parents did not agree at first, because after they went to inquire, they knew that my mother-in-law was biased and unreasonable.

After my husband knew, he also mentioned breaking up, and I hesitated, but in the end we were still reluctant to do so.

Speaking of which, before I got married, I also saw the rogue side of my mother-in-law.

Because I know that my mother-in-law is not easy to get along with, I rarely go to my in-laws' house before marriage to avoid contradictions.

My mother-in-law didn't like me or dislike me, for the simple reason.

She never felt sorry for her son, and naturally did not care who he married in the end. The only thing you want to confirm may be whether the woman's temper is better.

Do you think your mother-in-law is for your son's sake? No, she's just trying to get it right.

At that time, she did not think about it, and no matter how good-tempered people were, after suffering a lot of grievances, they would also change.

In her eyes, even if my temper is very good, I also value feelings.

She didn't read it wrong, so when talking about marriage, we usually have a 50,000 bride price here. My parents naturally said this number, and the in-laws can fully afford it.

But the mother-in-law refused, and all kinds of crying were poor.

02.

I can feel that the mother-in-law means that there is no money, and marriage and love are not knotted.

Without the bride price, my parents naturally refused, and the two were not satisfied with this marriage.

Later, it was the two of us who put together our own savings as a dowry and hid it from the parents of both sides, so that we could be considered married.

In fact, my parents want a bride price is also to have an attitude, and finally make up enough 100,000 to give me a dowry.

At that time, my mother-in-law was a rogue, and I could not forget it for a long time.

Not long after the marriage, we rented a house and moved out, and I really didn't want to share the same roof with my mother-in-law and sister-in-law.

The mother-in-law is biased towards the sister-in-law, and there is no problem for her daughter-in-law to do nothing, but no matter how tired and hard the daughter-in-law is, the housework must be all-inclusive.

I was afraid that if I continued to live together, I would quarrel at both ends for three days, so I discussed with my husband and moved out.

It is also funny to say that after moving out, my husband found that his mother had taken his own salary card.

He went home to ask for a pay card, and his mother-in-law refused to give it, saying that his son's adoptive parents were righteous, and he moved out and did not take care of him, and the money must be left.

In the end, the father-in-law really couldn't look at it, the neighbors were watching it, everyone pointed and pointed, and watched the mother-in-law crying on the ground.

My father-in-law forced my mother-in-law to give us the salary card, and my husband sighed and said: Mom, I will give you living expenses, you don't want to make a fuss.

After we moved out, the days were clean, and although I had to pay rent every month, which increased the burden, I was willing to bear such a burden.

Except for the New Year's Festival, I rarely go back to avoid conflicts, and my husband is also aware of his mother's personality and never forced me.

Although I don't go back often, I see my mother-in-law a lot of times. Because I don't go, she'll come over.

My mother-in-law will come over every once in a while to cry and be poor, and I know in my heart that in addition to living expenses, every time my mother-in-law comes, it means that our wallets are going to shrink again.

I naturally have dissatisfaction in my heart, but after all, it is my mother-in-law, she raised my husband, even if he has not been good to him since he was a child, so I don't have much to say.

I was pregnant to give birth to a child, until now the child is in elementary school, the mother-in-law does not say that she has paid for it, and she has not helped with the handle.

In fact, my mother-in-law did not help me, I was mentally prepared, and I was not very angry, and my complete disappointment in her was that she was cold-blooded to a certain extent.

03.

I started before the due date, my husband had an urgent matter to go out, and after knowing the news, he rushed to the hospital, and happened to be unable to get through to my parents' phone.

So in the end, the mother-in-law closest to the hospital was called countless times by her husband and was reluctantly pulled by her father-in-law to accompany the delivery.

I kept crying because it hurt so much, and then I started humming.

I don't know if it's really loud, after all, it hurts too much, and I don't have the energy to think about it.

My mother-in-law didn't have any comfort at all, and later told me to shut up.

Then, after the doctor's examination, he felt that there was a problem with the fetal position and suggested a caesarean section, but the mother-in-law actually disagreed.

A Jin and the doctor said: Are you trying to make money, or is my daughter-in-law afraid of pain, and you collude with her? Which woman does not have children, how come there are so many things to her.

The doctor patiently explained to her, but it was useless, and the mother-in-law counted me down in various ways.

If my husband hadn't arrived in time and directly said that he would have listened to the doctor, I don't know how long it would have hurt.

I gave birth to a son, and my mother-in-law was not very happy, and my own son was not distressed, and it was unrealistic to expect a heartache grandson.

My confinement mother-in-law naturally did not take care of me, she just came over on the day of childbirth, and then she has been talking about this matter.

When I went to work later, the child was always brought by my mother, and it can be said that this child is not familiar with grandma, because I have never seen a few faces.

A few months ago, my mother's old house was demolished and divided into a commercial house and 300,000 yuan.

Because the house we were assigned was finely decorated, my parents gave it to us at the first time, and we finally ended the day of renting a house.

In the past few years, although we both worked very hard, it was expensive to have children, not to mention that my mother-in-law would always ask for extra money, so I really couldn't save money.

My parents gave me the house, I was really happy, and my husband was also touched.

Just when I felt that life was comfortable, warm and happy, my mother-in-law, who had not given a dime to her grandson, came to the door with children's clothes and snacks.

Watching my mother-in-law talk to my grandson affectionately, my husband and I looked at each other.

I knew that there must be something going on with my mother-in-law coming over, and it was related to my sister-in-law.

04.

I didn't guess wrong, it did have something to do with the sister-in-law, but I didn't guess it would be so outrageous.

The sister-in-law's family conditions are good, and the dowry wedding room is ready, so the mother-in-law is worried that her daughter will marry in the past, the dowry is not enough, and she will be looked down upon, saying: How can not let the daughter be wronged in the in-laws' family.

I sneered in my heart and said: Mother-in-law, the sister-in-law is your daughter, how much dowry you want to give, we have no opinion.

After my mother-in-law listened, she glanced at me and said, "The eldest brother is like a father, and the eldest sister-in-law is like a mother, you must also express it."

The husband was really angry and laughed and said: Mom, we will give more gift money when the time comes.

When the mother-in-law saw that we were not stubble, she finally said that the sister-in-law had already taken a fancy to a car and was waiting for us to pay for it.

The husband was very helpless and said: Where do we have the money to buy a car for my sister as a dowry.

As a result, the mother-in-law said: "Your wife's mother's family has it!"

I was angry that I was worried about my mother's money, and I finally decided that I would no longer agree to give her extra money every month.

I said: Mother-in-law, it doesn't matter how much dowry you want to give to your sister-in-law, but don't worry about my mother's money, I really think too much.

Seeing that her son did not help her speak, she angrily dropped a sentence and did not recognize the son and left.

I know that this is impossible, the mother-in-law will not be unable to live with the money, do not recognize this son, who gives her living expenses.

I am also strange, how can in the eyes of some mothers-in-law, their own daughter is a baby, and someone else's daughter is a grass? As far as my mother-in-law is concerned, I really don't blame me for not paying attention to her in the future.

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