"My brother is a graduate student, who do I not help him to help?" Husband: Fu Di Devil still wants to talk about diplomas?

■ Author: Uncle Nanshan

■ Original works, plagiarism must be investigated

01, preface.

Regarding marriage, some people jokingly call it: marrying a person Mo marrying a mother baonan, marrying a wife Mo marrying a brother and a demon. Although this sentence is a bit one-sided, it still more or less reflects the consequences of marrying people and marrying wives improperly. Some people say: "Fu Di Devil is a big pit that men need to avoid when choosing a mate." "As a man, we often bear the heavy responsibility of supporting our families, as the pillar of the family, we have to pay more for our families, and we must work hard for the education of our children, which is a very normal thing." However, we must also know that a man who bears the heavy responsibility of the family, even if he earns a lot of money, but this money is also his own hard-earned money, for his own family to make reserves.

If there are outsiders who want to take this money, then we will never agree. However, as brother-in-law, that is, the younger brother of his wife, when this role comes to ask for money, we often have difficulty refusing. Especially in her eyes, she often only has her own family and her own brother, so once her brother has needs, she will take out all the money to support her brother regardless of his disregard. And such behavior is bound to bring great impact and contradictions to one's own family. For example, the story of netizen Ma Daqun is a family conflict accident that is typically caused by the help of the brother demon.

02, the man reached thirty, and only married an elderly young woman.

Ma Daqun is a young man from the countryside, and this year he has reached thirty. Ma Daqun relied on his own efforts to have his own career in Jiangcheng. When he first started a business, he was very hard, every day he came out early and returned late, he was very busy, although he made a lot of money, but he also missed his best love and marriage period. In the blink of an eye, Ma Daqun reached the age of thirty. Although men are not too old when they reach thirty, they are still a little older after all.

Later, under the introduction of a friend, he met Song Xiaolian, who was also an elderly youth. Song Xiaolian's home is also in the countryside, and by her own efforts, she has become an employee of a public institution. However, she was about thirty years old like Ma Daqun. Thirty women, is already a woman who missed the flowering period, for this reason, Song Xiaolian is no longer eye-catching and low-handed, and sees that the ma group looks ok, and there is a certain career foundation. After a few meetings, they established a relationship, and then, after half a year of love, they entered the palace of marriage and became husband and wife.

03, the husband and wife sang with the woman, and the life was still good.

After getting married, the couple sang with the husband and wife, and life was still good. Every day when she comes home from work, Song Xiaolian will buy some vegetables to go home, then cook rice and cook dishes, waiting for Ma Daqun to come home for dinner. After Ma Daqun returned, he often brought home some snacks that Song Xiaolian liked. During the meal, the two people talked to each other about their work content, talked about their future plans, and life seemed to be interesting. Because Song Xiaolian works in a public institution, the content of her work is still relatively relaxed. On work nights, she often envisions a better future for her family.

Song Xiaolian hopes that she can have a child as soon as possible, so that she can educate her children with Ma Daqun and enjoy her own human fireworks. However, although she was married to Ma Daqun, Song Xiaolian's heart was still in her mother's family, because there was a younger brother in the family who was studying in college and needed to provide tuition by herself. The younger brother is the pride of his family, as an older sister, Song Xiaolian has always taken care of and supported his brother's studies.

04, the husband makes money and the wife manages the money, and the division of labor between the two is very clear.

Ma Daqun is a very hard-working person, in order to be able to make his family more and more rich, after marriage, he spent all his energy on entrepreneurship. In order to concentrate on entrepreneurship, he and Song Xiaolian have a division of labor, that is, to work their own, while Song Xiaolian is responsible for managing the family's finances. Ma Daqun believes that as long as he relies on the unity of husband and wife, then his family will surely get better and better and become richer and richer. In order to be able to run the family well and manage the family's finances, Song Xiaolian also bought several account books to record the family's expenses.

She often said to Ma Daqun: "Husband, our marriage is actually a matter of two families, and in the future, I will manage our family well and take good care of our family's affairs." Ma Daqun listened and nodded: "The wife is right, marriage is a matter of two families, the family's economic power is in your hands, you have to run it well." "The husband makes money and the wife manages the money, the division of labor between the two is very clear, and the couple has confidence in the bright future of the family."

05, the brother-in-law studied in college, and the couple often helped his brother.

Song Xiaolian's younger brother is named Song Yingjun. Song Yingjun is a child who studies very hard, and he has been admitted to a good college by relying on his own efforts. Because Song Xiaolian's family had such a college student, Song Yingjun became the pride of his family. Parents often said to Song Xiaolian: "Xiaolian, handsome is the pride of our family, in the future, you may have to help him more." The words of her parents, Song Xiaolian naturally remembered in her heart. Therefore, when Song Yingjun was in college, the couple often helped their younger brothers. The younger brother's food expenses, tuition and miscellaneous expenses, etc., are basically sponsored by Ma Daqun and his wife.

And Song Yingjun also studied very hard, and his academic performance was one of the best in the class. To this end, Song Yingjun often said to his parents and sister Song Xiaolian: "Parents, old sister, I must go to graduate school in the future." Parents and Song Xiaolian are naturally very supportive of Song Yingjun, Song Xiaolian said: "Brother, you study well, study expenses, etc., you don't have to worry." With the support of his family, Song Yingjun has no worries and studies harder.

06, the younger brother was admitted to graduate school, and the father-in-law and mother-in-law held a banquet.

After Ma Daqun and Song Xiaolian got married for two years, they had a beautiful and cute girl, Xiao Mi Jujube. After the couple had children, they worked harder, and Ma Daqun's brother-in-law, Song Xiaolian's younger brother Song Yingjun, was also very competitive and was admitted to a graduate school at a 211 university. At this time, Song Yingjun became the pride of the family. In order to celebrate Song Yingjun's admission to graduate school, Ma Daqun's father-in-law and mother-in-law held ten tables in the countryside to feast on relatives and friends.

Ma Daqun also wrapped a large red envelope of 10,000 yuan for his brother-in-law, congratulating him on his success in his studies and the future. At the banquet, Song Yingjun became the pride of the family, and relatives and friends gave a thumbs up to Song Yingjun, saying that Song Yingjun was the pride of his hometown. The father-in-law and mother-in-law said to Ma Daqun in a serious tone: "Daqun, Song Yingjun has given our parents a face, but now that his children are studying, you still have to help him more." Ma Daqun felt that his father-in-law and mother-in-law were a bit of a big fanfare, after all, it was normal to study for graduate school in the city, but at his father-in-law's mother-in-law's house, it was like a family leader. However, as a junior, he didn't want to say more, just nodded, and then bowed his head and drank.

07, the man failed in business and wanted to take money to make a comeback.

A year later, Ma Daqun invested in a company. However, the company went bankrupt due to the impact of the epidemic and poor management, and the million that Ma Daqun invested in turned into a bubble. However, he knew that he still had more than 300,000 yuan to put in his wife Song Xiaolian, and he wanted to take out some money, open a storefront, do some small business, and then slowly make a comeback.

On the way home, Ma Daqun thought a lot. He knows that there are still epidemics everywhere, and it is difficult to do big business. The imperative is to be able to do some small business and then slowly accumulate experience and wealth. I believe that by relying on my own efforts, I will slowly make my business better.

08, when I asked for money, I found that my wife's money was given to my brother.

Back at home, Ma Daqun told his wife about the failure of his investment and the loss of a million. Song Xiaolian listened, frightened not lightly, but she still comforted her husband and said: "Daqun, since things are like this, we have no way, let's fight slowly in the future." After listening to his wife's words, Ma Daqun let go of his heart, and he smiled and said to Song Xiaolian: "Wife, I still have more than 300,000 yuan to put in your place, you give me 200,000, I will take it out to do some small business, and then slowly make a comeback." ”

Listening to Ma Daqun's words, Song Xiaolian was a little stunned. She stood up and said with some panic: "Husband, to tell the truth, our family does not have much money now, this two hundred thousand, I can't get it." Ma Daqun asked incomprehensibly, "Aren't you in charge of our family's finances?" We don't spend much every month, and this money should be less than three hundred thousand. Song Xiaolian sighed: "Husband, my brother is in graduate school, I give him ten thousand yuan a month to spend, including renting a house, including talking about his girlfriend." At the time of the holidays, I also gave him another money, so that your more than three hundred thousand are now very little. After listening to Song Xiaolian's words, Ma Daqun was completely blinded.

09, the man was angry and rushed to the crown, but the wife was full of words.

Ma Daqun was stunned for a long time, and finally couldn't bear it. He stood up and angrily accused Song Xiaolian: "Song Xiaolian, I gave you money to manage, because I believe in you." If you spend all your money on our family's expenses, I wouldn't say anything about you. However, as long as the cost of your brother's graduate school is still borne by your parents, we also have our own family, and we also have our own life. You can't always contract all your brother's expenses, can you? ”

Hearing her husband's rebuke, Song Xiaolian was also a little anxious, and she defended: "Ma Daqun, my brother is a graduate student!" It is the pride of our family, I don't help him help anyone? Hearing Song Xiaolian's defense, Ma Daqun was completely angry: "Song Xiaolian, we have always supported your brother's study and living expenses, but he is not a member of our family, and we have no reason to pay for everything for him!" Do you still have to talk about diplomas? Now that my business has failed and I have no funds, how can I make a comeback? After saying that, he suddenly collapsed on the sofa and couldn't help but cry.

10. Conclusion.

Seeing her husband like this, Song Xiaolian was also dazed: I was helping my own brother, was I wrong? Friends, what do you think is wrong with this? Welcome to leave a message in the comment area to discuss. Thank you.

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