Introduction:
A previous parenting blogger wrote for her daughter: Love her as she is, not as I wish.
We are always afraid of children taking detours, afraid of their suffering, and always use the experience of our so-called "people who come over" to arrange their lives.
In fact, the child is an independent individual, their life needs to be their own decision, the more restrained he is, the more rebellious he is.
In the two lessons of "What Happens to Adolescent Children" and "Reading "Rebellion", Treating Adolescent Children Appropriately", Ms. Mo Wei helped parents understand their children and know how to treat their children from the physical and psychological development characteristics of adolescent children.
Parent Sharing:
"God, please give me peace to accept what I cannot change;
Give me the courage to change what I can change;
Give me the wisdom to discern the difference between the two. "
Yeah, it's really hard to be calm and not anxious, to fully accept what I can't change;
Wanting to change what I can change – self-healing and self-growth, it really hurts and requires courage;
To discern the difference between the two—clear boundaries, independent differentiation—really requires wisdom.
Why is it so difficult and painful, we still have to face it and forge ahead?
I guess the answer to this question is – "Love." "
I hope I can start by loving myself and accepting myself, and continue to walk step by step.
What to do with your children?
1. Expand your cognitive scope;
2, and the child to establish a clear sense of boundaries, to be a 60-point mother, the child needs to help as much as possible, when not needed help, to silently pay attention to the child.
You can be reminded, don't ask for help. The process of the child's growth is the process of the mother's gradual retreat;
3. Change the mode of communication;
4. Improve your personality state.
Why do so many parents and children have a huge conflict?
Why do so many children hate school and don't want to learn?
Why do so many children have psychological problems?
Why do parents fall into unresolvable parenting dilemmas?
Based on the scientific research of psychology, this book absorbs the ideas of a large number of local educators, focuses on the local parenting style of China, and combines a large number of cases of actual consultation, from 0 to 18 years old, to guide the current parenting of parents in an all-round way, which is more suitable for Chinese parents to learn.
Love is a self-education, and your willingness to open the book in itself confirms that you are probably already a good enough parent, at least a parent who has love in his heart and wants to make himself better.
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