This article is original by Xuan Pa Parenting, all rights reserved, infringement must be investigated
In life, for children, the most anticipated day is undoubtedly their birthday, from the birth of the child, the birthday gives us important meaning, it records not only the new birth, but also the mother's Good Friday.
Under normal circumstances, parents will give their children a birthday every year, of which the first and tenth birthdays are the two most favored days by adults, especially when the child is over ten years old, many parents will choose to operate in the hotel.
But you know what? In a child's life, there are actually 4 meaningful birthdays, and smart parents will not miss each.
Each of the 4 golden birthdays in a child's life is meaningful and smart parents will not miss it
☆ 7th birthday: Officially become a primary school student and start your academic career
Generally speaking, children between the ages of 6 and 7 are the best age to attend primary school, so by the age of 7, the vast majority of children have officially started a long academic career.
On this day, parents need to tell their children that this birthday is an important sign of their growth, marking that from today onwards, they have bid farewell to kindergarten and officially have the identity of a student.
In addition, parents can appropriately put forward some requirements for the primary school stage to their children, and send good wishes to their children, through this sense of ceremony to let children experience the joy of growth.
☆ 12th birthday: From childhood to adolescence, beginning to enter puberty
12 years old is the beginning of children into puberty, whether it is a boy or a girl, after entering the age of 12, it means that they are already a small adult, their minds will slowly mature, and they will have more ideas of their own, so 12 years old is also an important node in the child's life.
Parents attach importance to the child's 12th birthday, but also pay attention to the child's physical and mental development, on the day when the child turns 12, parents need to formally tell the child what can be done and what cannot be done after entering puberty.
The parents of girls should teach their daughters how to protect themselves outside, and the parents of boys should also tell their sons how to regulate their behavior and protect girls.
☆ 14th birthday: Regulate your own behavior and punish the age at which the law has to bear legal consequences
In mainland law, when a child has reached the age of 14, he or she will be held criminally liable if he or she breaks the law.
From this point of view, the 14th birthday is also a golden birthday in the child's life that cannot be ignored, because from this day on, the child's intentional harm to others will no longer be forgiven, and the word "child" will no longer be their umbrella.
Therefore, when the child is 14 years old, parents must seriously celebrate a birthday for the child, on the birthday, parents should solemnly tell the child what the true meaning of this birthday is, so that the child can learn to be responsible for every decision they make.
☆ 18th birthday: The symbol of adulthood, from this day on officially grow up
18 is the symbol of each of us's adulthood, so even if we are no longer children, as parents, we still need to celebrate a grand birthday for our children, which is equivalent to a rite of passage to celebrate the true growth of children.
On the day of the 18th birthday, parents can prepare an unforgettable gift for their children, at the same time, parents also need to treat their children as adults after this day, give them their due rights, and give them free personal space.
The child's adulthood also means that they begin to gradually break away from the original family and go to the life that truly belongs to them, so the 18th birthday is of great significance in the child's life journey.
The child's life will experience countless birthdays, in the process of parents accompanying the child, the above 4 birthdays have an extraordinary significance, I hope that in these special days, in addition to the appearance of gorgeous and carnival, children can better understand the parents' love and hope for themselves.
Topics in this issue
What age do you value your child's birthday the most? Welcome to leave a message in the comment area! I am Xiaoxuan's father, actively learning to take a baby "daughter slave", sharing the thoughts and feelings of the parenting process every day, if you like my articles, please pay attention to, forward, comment, your like is the biggest motivation for my writing!
(The pictures in the text come from the Internet, if there is infringement, please contact to delete, thank you)