"My baby won't play with toys for a while"
"My son's concentration is only one minute"
Are you also looking for ways to develop your child's concentration?
Does this mean that the child's concentration is very poor?
In fact, we often don't think that we are doing it wrong
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Your baby's concentration is innate, not nurtured
It is protected by parents
Many times we don't realize in our daily lives that our baby is focusing on one thing
We thought it would be boring and pitiful to stay by himself
And tease the baby all the time, but this behavior is slowly destroying the baby's concentration
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These bad behaviors of ours are stifling the child's concentration and quickly correcting it
1. The child will be taken away directly after waking up
After the child wakes up, he directly shouts "Baby, you woke up", and can't bear to let the child stay by himself, so he directly picks it up
As long as the child wakes up and does not cry, do not disturb him, and when he consciously calls his mother, go over and hug him
(The child can play by herself for a while, and the mother can also relax a little)
2. Feed while playing with toys
Many grandparents and grandparents like to feed their children, and some even hand him toys to keep him sitting, playing with them while feeding.
From the beginning of eating complementary food, strictly insist on sitting on the dining chair, not feeding, not playing with toys, not teasing him, in order to develop good eating habits and protect his concentration.
3, give too many toys at a time
Only one toy is too pitiful, giving a bunch of toys at a time can not only let him play freely, but also free his parents for a while
Many things in life are baby's toys, give fun things slowly, only give one toy at a time, play tired and then change one, even if it is a pack of tissues or a water bottle, you can play for half an hour.
4, when playing with toys, always worry about children hungry and thirsty
Always worried that the child will be hungry, from time to time to ask him "are you thirsty, drink water, come to eat some fruit and play again"
When your child is playing with toys, it is a good way to protect your concentration, remember to interrupt him, and you should go and talk to your child when he needs you to call you.
5, when playing with blocks, always deny the child's play
I always feel that the child will not play with this toy, and interrupt him from time to time" "No, it is not played this way, it should be like this"
Children are naturally creative and imaginative, and parents always deny their children's ideas, which will make him lose confidence that he is doing something wrong, and his concentration is destroyed. Children should be allowed to develop, play at will, and help their children when they encounter difficulties.
In short, do not disturb, do not interrupt, do not correct, do not block
It is the protection of the child's concentration.
The focus of the child is protected from the moment he is born
When you grow up, you will save a lot of heart on the road to learning!
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