People are emotional animals, how can they not be angry?
Moody, sad, sad, frightened. Happy to laugh, don't think about crying, angry up and scold two sentences, Chinese medicine said very clearly: angry on the liver, happy and sad, sad lungs, thinking about hurting the spleen, fear of hurting the kidneys, all diseases are born of anger.
To tell the truth, many people are not old and dead, not sick, but angry.
If you can't be an official, you die of anger; you can't mention the professor, you die of anger; you can't make money, you die of anger; many old people die of anger for very small things. Therefore, people cannot be angry, but they must not be prisoners of emotions, they must be the masters of emotions, they must control emotions, do not let emotions control you, and remember that emotions are the baton that people are angry with, which is crucial.
70% of people's diseases come from the family, do you say that family harmony is important or not?
Don't make a small quarrel every day at home, make a big quarrel, and don't become a stagnant family, don't quarrel, don't talk, don't talk for half a month, that's not suffocated. There have been reports that divorced people and widows have a short life expectancy. Loneliness is more terrible than poverty, husband and wife love to live a long life, husband and wife to live a long life, loneliness is easy to have problems, easy to short life, this is the universal law.
Home and everything, you go to seek wealth all day long with complaints and anger, and if you can ask for wealth, the ghosts are scared away by you, and the fortune dares to follow you.
It's the same with others, a person whose family is not harmonious, who dares to cooperate with you, it is too late to hide from you. If you look at the family around you, the fortunes of family harmony must be prosperous.
But how to make families harmonious is a science. Four issues must be addressed:
01. The first thing is to respect the elderly. The old man is the root of a family, and the members of the family do not cherish their roots, and if they are not good for the roots, the branches and leaves will not flourish.
02. The second is to educate children well. Children are the future of the family, branches and leaves, inherit the family style, everything depends on the results of our children's education.
03. It is necessary to deal with the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law. Two women surrounding a man can be double love or they can crush the man into a sandwich cookie.
04. The core is that husband and wife should love each other. Husband and wife respect and love each other, not only to reassure the elderly, but also to set an example for children, the family is naturally warm and warm.
The love of husband and wife should achieve the eight principles of mutual respect: mutual respect, mutual love, mutual trust, mutual help, mutual comfort, mutual encouragement, mutual accommodation, and mutual understanding.
People have personalities, they have problems, and we must always remind ourselves: Forget it, let her, she just needs to be happy.
Therefore, we must remember to our lovers that not only love her when she is young, but also love her when she is old; not only love her when she is healthy, but also love her when she is sick; not only love her advantages, but also love her shortcomings.