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Coordinates Nanjing, home has a high demand baby, children enrolled in school, the most difficult to be a mother is the most reassuring, because it is difficult for us to ask teachers to take care of children like parents.
My baby is a high-demand baby, with many ideas, and it is difficult to be persuaded, and only after fully understanding her can we try to convince her.
When misunderstood, she would cry to express her dissatisfaction.
Let's say she hates black, if she insists on making her wear black clothes, she will have an emotional outburst, let's say she doesn't want to sit on the bench, if you force her to sit on the bench, she will also have an emotional outburst, she hates being forced.
Only by communicating with her and accepting her can she act accordingly.
But when I got to know her enough, I felt that in fact, this baby was not difficult to carry and was very sensible.
Of course, the cultivation of the personality of every high-demand baby is related to the family guidance and education behind it.
It is because she has always paid more attention to the baby and has always respected her personal choices that she has her current personality.
What I want is that the child will be able to stay self-sufficient and unrestricted within a certain range of rules.
However, it must be admitted that such a character is not conducive to integration into a new group until the child is mature enough.
So, going to school is a difficult thing.
Teachers vary from person to person, scientifically guided, and very grateful
My baby was lucky to meet the current homeroom teacher, Mr. Ge.
It is precisely considering the baby's personality characteristics, worried that she will be difficult to adapt to the environment, trying to send the child to the small nursery, so that the child can adapt to the group life in advance, hoping that she can understand the new social skills in the group life.
Baby was lucky to meet a teacher who was very good at toddler psychology.
The teacher's educational philosophy is very clear: do not stifle the child's personality, maintain the child's personality to the greatest extent, and let the child feel at ease under the premise of abiding by the rules.
The baby quickly develops an attachment to the teacher, and will express the idea of not wanting to go to school before going to school, but it is not too resistant, and when he follows the teacher into the school, he is quiet.
The baby does not like to sit on the small bench, the teacher communicates with the baby, tells the baby: the teacher wants to give a lecture to the children, each child must sit on the small bench, after communication, found a solution, the baby said that he is willing to sit on the small bench, but to sit next to the teacher, the teacher allows the baby to sit next to it.
When she was in English class, the baby did not like to watch English short films, and the teacher found that she did not really dislike it, but just refused with her mouth, so he told her: Then you can read picture books.
When everyone didn't pay attention to her, she secretly watched short videos in English and said a few words casually when she got home.
When eating, the teacher wants to leave to serve soup to the children, the baby will come out of tears, the teacher told her: the children want to drink soup, the teacher must help the children to serve soup.
After communication, the baby has no emotions and sits there waiting for the teacher.
At noon, the baby did not want to sleep and wanted to accompany the teacher, so the teacher moved a small bench and let her sit next to her.
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There are many situations like this, the teacher is patient to guide and communicate, which makes me very grateful, because I also do this, I have been worried that the child is forced to do something in school, from the teacher and the child's communication style, the teacher is really very professional and patient.
When the baby comes home, she will also communicate with me about the school, and you can see that she likes her teachers very much.
It is with this attachment and like that the baby can smoothly pass through the semester.
If possible, choose a good school for your child
After the children enter school, many mothers in the community have paid attention to the situation of their children's enrollment, because they are also considering whether to spend several times more money to let their children enter the school.
After the epidemic, the children took a holiday, and some mothers told me: small nursery classes are redundant, there is really no need to go, don't go behind, you can also refund the money.
I insist on sending my children to school because I see progress in my children.
The baby did not allow other children to touch her before, now can play with children, before did not like to call people, every time she saw familiar people, she is also a face of arrogance, now always take the initiative to greet people, cheerful a lot.
After school, we can always surprise us, after the resumption of classes yesterday, I came home at night to find "Teddy Bear" singing and dancing, and asked us to dance with her, before she refused to dance.
In addition, she always imitates the tone of the teacher: the children are seated, we are going to class, the class is not allowed to move, the class can not speak Oh... Occasionally I would think about doing a small craft.
This is actually the benefit of going to school, and seeing that children have made these progresses, they feel that the tuition is worth it.
In fact, we can't always see high tuition, these high-level teachers are worthy of high salaries, with these teachers to guide the education of the baby, parents can rest assured.
I don't expect my child to be good in the future, I just want my child to have a sound personality and be able to be an ordinary person happily.
Look, in addition to writing the manuscript, I now have time to chase the drama, and I don't have to worry about the child not learning anything, don't worry that the child will not improve, the teacher's level is much higher than myself, the mood is much better, and it is much more relaxed in an instant.