Some people's marriages can be white-headed to old, hand in hand for a lifetime, and when they are old, they will rely on each other, accompany each other, and work together to make the second half of their lives more exciting, while some people will choose a new marriage and new feelings after a relationship failure.
But no matter what age and what kind of remarriage feelings, what it takes two people to do most is to keep enough enthusiasm and keep enough sincerity, so that after being together, we can avoid contradictions and go on better.
The 60-year-old broke up after only three months of remarriage, and the aunt said bluntly: As far as your life requirements are concerned, they cannot be met
55-year-old Aunt Zhou met a five-year-old uncle Liu who was five years older than herself last year, both of them are single, and now their life after retirement is also a bit lonely, so they met when they wandered downstairs, and they also became friends, the two people often went downstairs to dance square dance together, and sometimes they would travel around and visit, which also made the feelings between the two people grow by leaps and bounds.
After Aunt Zhou's age, in fact, most of the time for remarriage, the things that are considered most of the time are only whether they can talk to each other, whether they can get along happily, only when they are together, they feel very happy, they can be each other, that is the best, and in fact, when two people are together, they are also very satisfied, there are no special contradictions, and there is no special quarrel, and it is because of this that the two people start a new life.
Because both sides have children, and it is also very tacit that at this age, there is no need to care too much about those situations, as long as the two people feel that they get along well, so there is no too much publicity, and the two families sit together and eat a meal as a celebration of the new marriage of the two people.
Nevertheless, on the day when the two people were officially together, Uncle Liu sent a 520 red envelope to Aunt Zhou, which was also used as a celebration, but the 520 red envelope was not collected by Aunt Zhou, nor was it accepted, feeling too little, but it was not good to ask for too much.
Just when the life of the two people was about to begin, only three months had passed, so that Aunt Zhou could not stand it, and felt that Uncle Liu's life requirements could not be satisfied.
When the two people were just together, everything was very smooth, Aunt Zhou was also very consciously responsible for the daily meals, the family arrangement was orderly, Uncle Liu was also very happy, but after half a month together, because of the inappropriateness of a lunch, let the two people make a lot of trouble, from that day on, Uncle Liu will make requests every day, what to eat at each meal, what to buy, will tell Aunt Zhou in advance, one will be meat, one will be fish, and porridge, these requirements are indeed somewhat difficult for Aunt Zhou to accept, On the one hand, she would only do some home-cooked dishes, she is not very good at making big fish and meat, even if she makes it, it is not necessarily delicious, and now she has to learn to do it, naturally it is a little difficult, on the other hand, because the living expenses are almost all Aunt Zhou is doing, Uncle Liu only occasionally buys a dish, and other things do not matter, which makes Aunt Zhou feel very dissatisfied.
The two men tried to communicate, but to no avail, and finally there was some quarrel.
The second thing that Aunt Zhou can't accept is that Uncle Liu eats at six o'clock every afternoon, walks at seven o'clock, and goes to bed at eight o'clock, which makes Aunt Zhou a little incomprehensible, because the time is too early, even if it is nine o'clock to sleep, he still wants to watch TV, but no, Uncle Liu said that he sleeps badly, if Aunt Zhou watches TV, or moves in the house, it is easy to disturb him to sleep, but Aunt Zhou can't sleep at eight o'clock, and the two people have had many conflicts because of this.
If the above two living habits let Aunt Zhou endure a can still accept, but for the last habit that makes Aunt Zhou decide to separate is the most reluctant to endure, Uncle Liu does not worry about the situation in this family at all, every day Uncle Liu's basic state is to eat, walk, watch TV, sleep, play chess with friends downstairs, play cards, nothing more, he never interferes in family affairs.
Together for three months, every month to Aunt Liu a thousand yuan of food expenses, the rest of the things are Aunt Liu alone busy work, these three months of cooking are all Done by Aunt Liu, the health of the family is also Aunt Liu alone, Uncle Liu will hardly help, because he feels that the male outside, the female inside, this is a normal thing, the home health and so on These housework should be responsible for Aunt Zhou, so I don't want to ask, but this day down also makes Aunt Zhou a little tired, I feel that the family is paying by herself, Finally couldn't resist proposing separately:
"Let's go our separate ways, your life requirements are too high, I can't satisfy you, the current state of life is that I am responsible for this family alone, you are responsible for a thousand yuan a month for food, that's all, or separate, with you for three months, it is not as comfortable as me living alone." 」
Uncle Liu said:
"This is not a normal thing, we are so old, we must pay attention to health, pay attention to diet, pay attention to rest, every day's meals, rest time are for physical health, and you are younger than me, things at home are naturally taken care of by you."
Uncle Liu's words completely disappointed Aunt Zhou, leaving a sentence:
"Even if you hire a nanny and serve you three meals a day, it will be more than a thousand yuan a month, and I am not the nanny you invited, even if it is, it is not enough to give a salary.
In the end, the two people were separated, Aunt Zhou did not regret it at all, but Uncle Liu told her again and again, so that Aunt Zhou would not be angry, but to no avail, Aunt Zhou said:
"Or live alone, be comfortable, relax, and not be so tired."
Write at the end:
Whether it is true feelings between husband and wife or partnering to live a life, should maintain enough understanding and help, Uncle Liu's behavior only cares about his own feelings, and ignores Aunt Zhou's efforts, ignores Aunt Zhou's feelings, and finally leads to Aunt Zhou's disappointment, so that this feeling goes more stable and long-term, you say?