How lucky I would be to be able to hold you when I was lonely,...... The rhythm of this song made my heart rise with infinite emotion.
For a man, any time, behind you, is there anyone else? And those warm eyes? And those firm hands supporting you?
At least, there was nothing behind me! Only in loneliness and loneliness do you know how pitiful and pathetic it is to see clearly what originally existed in the world, including man himself.
When all the feelings and passions of life are bypassed and returned to the rough nature of life, who is not compromising with life? How many are not taking from the material? Ordinary people are no exception to you and me, and you and my other half are the same.
If someone can choose a spouse who can live without regard to fame and fortune, regardless of interests, and can be satisfied with the status quo and reality, accompanied by your bits and pieces. This is your luck, this is your greatest happiness, and it is also your greatest wealth.
Well, obviously, I'm envious. When you have gone through a period of sinking and being at the bottom of the valley, or when you need to go through loneliness and ups and downs, you will find that if the marriage is so fragile, what kind of harm will it bring to the heart? The pain of this kind of hurt to the heart is indelible, especially for men who are affectionate and proud.
They believe that they can be worthy of the other half, so they will not ask too much for marriage and family life, especially in terms of material things, and they will not have any luxurious feelings.
But they also have their sorrows! When they choose a person, they have to pay a price for themselves to investigate the problem of the other half's personality and character, in fact, this price is very large, and perhaps they will spend their whole lives paying for their own wrong behavior.
But the unit price of "this list" is very expensive, they have to face the life, what they need is their own courage and fearless pride, can withstand the power of loneliness, do not abandon themselves, in self-discipline and prudence to complete the sublimation of their own life wealth and social status.
I am the same, I can bear the injustices and difficulties of the world, and I can accept any wrong challenge and teasing. My material requirements are very low, because I believe that after survival, there will inevitably be a basic life, and I have this so-called "ordinary" ability.
This is my basic view of marriage, and it has not changed, because I am also the "beneficiary" and the recipient of Confucian and Mencius culture, I will do it, can you do it? No one in this world can really understand the entanglement of grievances; therefore, there is too much tiredness and helplessness, psychological.
Since decisions and choices have been made, they must be recognized. It's just that my original choice has given life some more unfathomable things, and these unfathomable things may make you feel the pressure and shock of a lifetime. This may be life, and this may be a sequelae of not making a decisive decision in the first place.
Who do you blame? Who is it? If you say too much, the people around you will be very annoyed and give you the answer: you have no ability. This kind of answer leaves you speechless, and it also has the power to kill a person fatally. Oh, yes! Who is to blame? Isn't it because of this virtue of oneself?
Therefore, all the sadness, from the beginning, is your own "polish", then, the final outcome must also rely on their own absorption and "digestion".