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The terrible thing is that two-year-olds are very rebellious! Many parents face two-year-old children, do not know what to do, and finally can only beat the child, do not know that hitting the child will not solve the problem, but will make the child feel that the parents do not love themselves, or will lead to the child more and more rebellious.
Smart parents should understand the characteristics of the rebellious period of two-year-olds, rather than blindly scolding
Feature 1: Start saying no
In the morning, the mother took a pair of pants for the child to wear, but the child said I don't want to wear pants, I want to wear a skirt, but on a cold day, the mother can only insist on telling the child, now the weather is too cold, you have to wear pants, the result is that the child is crying, I don't want to wear pants I want to wear a skirt!
When playing with the slide in the community, my mother said that we went home to eat, but the child said that I did not want to go home to eat, I wanted to play with the slide!
Kids seem to want to say "no" to everything!
That's because the child begins to be in a period of self-awareness and enters the first period of rebellion in life.
Children have rebellious and stubborn behavior during the rebellious period, and children are more likely to become people with independent personality, self-confidence and strong will when they grow up! So when your child says no to you, you should sneak a smile, because the child represented will be more independent, smarter and more confident in the future!
The mother can choose for the child, such as whether to wear red pants or blue pants, whether to go home with the mother now or in 5 minutes, so that the child is more receptive.
Feature 2: Pay attention to order
When he went home to take off his shoes and found that his father's shoes were not put away, the child would put the shoes neatly, or when the mother brushed his teeth, the cup was not hung in the place where he usually hung, and he would insist on hanging the cup first and then going back to sleep.
Many parents will think that children are very strange, in fact, children who pay attention to order will be more organized and smarter when they grow up.
Feature 3: Everything is mine
If others want to play with their own toys, he will say that this is mine, not for you to play, but see the child holding a playful toy in his hand, he will not care about three seven twenty-one snatched up and say, when the child asks him for a toy, he will blurt out, this is mine, he will think that take it in my hand, I like it is mine.
When a child is about two years old, he will feel that everything I like should be mine. Concepts he hasn't shared yet, often self-centered!
This is precisely a starting point for children to develop their own property rights, learn to protect their own things, children will have a more sense of self-protection when they become adults, parents learn to guide, tell children that your own toys are yours, other people's toys can not be taken casually, other people's toys are other people's.
Feature 4: Always say I'm messy
When the mother is washing the dishes, the baby will say, Mommy I come, or when the mother is washing clothes, the child will say, Mommy I come. At this time, children especially like to do it themselves, and have a strong ability to imitate and the desire to imitate, what are parents doing? What he wanted to do, too.
This is actually the best period for cultivating children's self-care ability, parents should not be afraid of children delaying time, do not fear children to do well, do not fear children to break things, from an early age to cultivate children to do good habits of housework, this is a very good period, in the child wants to come when the child wants to come by themselves to let the child do it himself, slowly the child from adding chaos to help, so that the child also cultivates the good habit of doing housework, more conducive to the child's independence after adulthood, but also allows children to cultivate their own overall ability when doing housework.
The 5th feature: talking
When the child reaches the age of one and a half to two years old, it is the explosive period of his language, this time the child talks a lot, some children will especially like to chat with others, and some children will ask why. By the time a child is 23 months old, about 50% of children can use 200 to 300 words and can say sentences composed of 3 to 5 words.
This also shows that children's language ability and logical ability are developing rapidly in all aspects, and parents play more games with their children to promote the development of language ability, such as singing nursery rhymes, such as phone games, or reading picture books with their children.
The more obvious the characteristics of the child's 5 rebelliousness at the age of two years old, the smarter the child is, and parents should seize the opportunity to cultivate.
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