Recommend the TV series "Dear Child", which is simply a documentary documentary on family ethics!!!
After having children, the relationship between husband and wife, the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, the relationship between sisters-in-law, and the problems of child education are all pulled to the table, so that more people know that this is also a part of real life, not the needs of the plot, but a living fact.
This kind of group portrait is absolutely real, and the people's daily criticized it the day before yesterday that it is creating anxiety, which is by no means a selling anxiety, but just breaks everyone's beautiful imagination of traditional marriage and family.
Married and pregnant, married and childless, married and infertile, unmarried and not pregnant, anxious to get married, with a child is still considering whether to have a second child, girls girlfriends good sisters! Show me all!!! All open the barrage for me to see! Persuade one to understand that one is one!!!!!!
Today's society needs women to be good mothers, good wives, good daughters-in-law, but also to be able to be independent, and even the best can make money to support the family, and to take care of the face of men, to be a housewife who can enter the kitchen in the hall, and need to bring their own children, after the new marriage law comes out, the reality is that if there is no economic foundation, everything is in the mirror.
What surprised me even more was that the director of this TV series was actually a male director, and the TV series did not blindly criticize, but gave the transmission that only by recognizing the truth of life still love life, which is the performance of the brave!
Fortunately, some people have presented the tangible and invisible pressures that women suffer in marriage and childbirth in the form of film and television dramas, and the postpartum objectively speaking, the trauma suffered by the body and the sharp decline in hormone levels, subjectively speaking, the psychological entry into a new role is not yet able to adapt, which can lead to maternal depression and depression.
I have had two children, and watching this drama has a very strong sense of substitution!!! A lot of details overlap very scary like replay, the child is admitted to the hospital incubator, discharged home throat is dumb, too detailed! Tweet was born a week after the incubator weight gained only 2 or two, home throat is dumb, small hands and the back of the hand is black and blue.
It is said that fear comes from the unknown, such as going home to walk a night walk, will you be afraid if you walk often? Only when you know and are clear, you will not be afraid or less afraid. Including the bullet screen can also see that the netizens' cognitive misunderstanding is also very large, some say exaggerated, some say that the performance traces are too heavy and excessive, but, did not experience does not mean that there is no such thing, facing the reality is correct, do not face, do not understand, and really encounter the psychological gap will be greater in the future.
After becoming a mother, watching my daughter grow up day by day, I often wonder, how should I educate her? Life has its truest appearance, and in front of my daughter, I neither want to scandalize it nor beautify it. I just want to tell her not to rely on anyone's love, no matter what happens at any time, no matter what happens, you must love yourself!
Want to tell my daughter also tell myself, dear child, do not be afraid. There are cracks in everything, and that's where the light comes in: @ Daily Potatoes
