I am Teacher Xu, about the child watching TV every day, just like parents look at the mobile phone every day is the same truth, from the child's point of view, you can understand why he always likes to watch.
Regardless of the elderly at home, this should be a generation gap or prejudice in the communication between you and the elderly, if you can't solve the educational concept between the elderly and the elderly at home, it is recommended that you send your children to the nursery.
In view of the above problems, I would like to make a few specific and feasible suggestions for you:
1. Put down your mobile phone when you are with your child, and spend more time with effective companionship.
The child has been watching TV non-stop, which must be caused by the lack of in-depth and effective companionship of parents. Do children have to read books and write homework to study all day long?
In this regard, while parents reflected, Teacher Xu believed that the biggest reason was that parents returned home after work and could not control themselves from always holding their mobile phones to play.
For example: some in the process of writing homework with their children, while brushing videos while preaching next to them; even more, they go home holding their mobile phones, roaring at their children, and ignoring homework, let alone checking.
Many times it is not easy for us to take the child with us, that is, we want to spend more time with education and affect the healthy growth of the child, but we do not know that the person next to the pillow is also a stranger, and the so-called companionship is only a utopia-like bubble companionship, which does not play a role.
If you can come home and be able to accompany your children to read, tell stories, draw, write, do science experiments, crafts, play games (building blocks and other games)...
Will children still have time to watch TV?
2. Synchronize with the educational concept of the elderly.
The old man can bring you or your husband up, education is good, in fact, he is already a very experienced person in educating children, even if the times are changing, the old man also witnesses all the changes around him, he can adapt.
Therefore, for the elderly to educate children, we must have a tolerant heart, the elderly do not do right, we must be like educating children to discuss, synchronous thinking.
Children are watching cartoons, the old man can not ignore, unless the old man can not move, whether it is definitely our own communication with the old man there is a problem.
While reflecting, we must also find a pleasant way of communication that can be accepted by each other, so that the elderly can cooperate with the education of children as much as possible.
For example: during this time we work, arrange some activities for the elderly and children, write for half an hour or go out for a while, or tell stories... Let the grandson have something to do, he will not complain, and the child can learn things.
The key is that we young parents know how to communicate.
3. Measure the economic conditions, can not blindly send to the nursery.
Sending a nursery, one is that there is no manpower and time to take care of, and the other is that the child is really naughty, and the family has no patience to take care of it. In this case, if your financial conditions permit, sending a nursery school to education is also considered a good method.
Sending children to nurseries or kindergartens to live a group life, where there are professional teachers to help children with enlightenment education, which is definitely much better than watching TV at home, which was not obvious before.
Because the elderly generation did not have the concept of preschool education at that time, the preschool enlightenment education is now recognized by more and more intelligent people, so children should live a group life earlier and receive formal enlightenment education
But if your family's economic conditions do not allow you to put a nursery, do not let go, otherwise the contradictions caused by economic problems at home will affect the child's education, and the impact will be even worse!
So choose a nursery, unless you have to do it as a last resort!
The above points hope that you can seriously reflect on it, and hope that it will play an effective role in inspiring you to educate your children.