This method predicts whether the child will become a talent, which is very accurate!

Whether a child can become a talent in the future is a concern for all parents. The previous article introduced three methods of prediction, see "See what your child is suitable for in the future (I)". Today, this article recommends a very important method, that is, the environmental speculation method.

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Environment educates people. The environment is an important indicator of whether a child can become a talent. Since ancient times, China has always attached importance to the importance of the environment for a person's growth.

The ancient "Three Migrations of Mengmu" is a well-known classic story, which tells the impact of the environment on children. The environment here is more of a social environment. In today's parlance, Meng Mu moved many times to exchange a better sub-environment (community environment) for Meng Ke. Today, we also have a story of "Peking University Security" and "Fudan Security", telling us the impact of the external environment on people.

At the same time, the family environment has a greater impact on a person, which is related to the perfection of the child's intelligent development.

Because in general, the space in which children live is mainly based on the family, and the social environment is only a little bit of contact.

Mainland psychoeducation researchers have conducted a survey of 31 Peking University leaders and found that their common characteristics, in addition to subjective factors such as active learning and hard work, are inseparable from the influence of family education. Almost all of these families provide the best learning environment for their children.

In foreign countries, there is a classic comparative case of the impact of the family environment on future generations.

Twenty years ago in the United States, there was a man named Janase Edward, a scholar who was a theologian, philosopher, and moralist. He attaches great importance to family education, and good family style is passed on from generation to generation. In the 8th generation of the sun, more than 100 became university professors, more than 80 became literary scholars, more than 20 served as members of the upper and lower houses, 18 became heads of newspapers and magazines, 13 became university presidents, one became vice presidents, and one became ambassadors.

At the same time, more than 200 years ago, the United States also had a family named Max Zucker, and there were 8 generations. Max Zucker was an alcoholic, a gambler, who didn't do his job all day. In this harsh family environment and lack of good education, more than 3,000 children and grandchildren have become beggars and vagrants, 63 have been sentenced for theft and fraud, 7 have been executed for homicide, and many more have died of drinking or become disabled.

It is worth mentioning that the ninth generation of Marx Juck was taken in by the Children's Ambulance Society, sent to a good family foster care, and as a result became a model youth in the local area.

The change of the environment to people can be described as "near Zhu is red, near ink is black". Especially in the family environment, the words and deeds of parents and closest elders have a profound impact on children's growth. Whether a child can become a talent is often contained in the words and deeds of parents.

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Specifically, the family environment includes two aspects: the physical environment and the psychological environment. The physical environment refers to the economic situation, and the psychological environment refers to the spiritual life. In a sense, the psychological environment has a greater impact on people. The growth of a gifted child in particular requires a harmonious, pleasant, loving and enterprising psychological environment.

The psychological environment of the family directly affects the child's mental health, including grades. If the interpersonal relationship between family members is good, and the attitude and emotional communication between parents and children are good, the child's psychological environment is healthier.

In general, there are 3 aspects of the family environment that predict a child's future talent trend.

The emotional state of the family. The emotional world is the basis of a good psychological environment. The quality of the emotional world mainly depends on the emotional stability and harmony of the couple. This is the key to speculating on the potential and development trend of children's talents.

Husband and wife love, family harmony, harmonious atmosphere, full of affectionate love, can enhance the child's intelligence, the child's personality will be healthier, more ideal, and even show the most beautiful and ideal spiritual characteristics.

Couples look at each other and quarrel endlessly, and children cannot enjoy the love of their fathers or mothers, and they are likely to be depressed, lonely, and intellectually impaired.

Parents' interests and hobbies. What kind of interests and hobbies couples have in life often affects the children through subtle and ear-catching ways.

If parents love to read, the home is full of books, then the child will also follow the reading; if the parents love sports, often exercise, then the child will also be influenced, love sports; if the parents often keep learning, amateur life is rich, often listen to lectures, further education, listen to drama opera, visit museums, listen to concerts, dance, then children are likely to grow up interested in these activities or fascinated. If adults bring their children to these activities, the impact is even greater.

The family of art, the family of books, and the family of sports can see the great influence of the previous generation on the next generation in terms of interests and hobbies.

There are also many examples in life that show that parents' interests and hobbies have a subtle impact on children, and more gifted children develop their talents and strengths to create positive conditions and environments.

The personality and character of the parents. Parents are the child's first teachers, and the character or personality of parents often leaves a deep imprint on the child's character or personality.

An American physiological and psychological study on the brain pointed out that the "parental consciousness" recorded in the brain during childhood, that is, the "external experience" provided by "the physical actions and words and deeds of the parents or the equivalent of the parents", will be forever recorded on each person's "personality" tape, and will be "automatically played in the process of life" and "have a powerful impact throughout the beginning and end of life".

This study shows that the influence of parental personality on children's personality is profound and lasting. Specifically from the psychological component, the personality of parents affects children from three levels: the outermost layer is the way of behavior, that is, the performance characteristics of personality; the middle layer is the attitude of people to themselves, that is, the main body of personality; the innermost layer is the three views, which is the subject of personality.

Parents through their own language, expressions, behaviors, with their own attitude and worldview, values, to the child's personality for three-dimensional infiltration, and finally leave such and such traces, produce similar or different inheritance, play or positive or negative impact.

If parents act properly, walk right, have a selfless heart, have a big pattern, and have a broad mind, the child is often "rooted in the red", a righteous temperament, benevolent and loving, and ambitious; if the parents have a perverse personality, distorted three views, narrow-mindedness, short-sightedness, and selfish behavior, then it is often difficult for the child to become a great instrument.

The personality of the parents is also integrated into the current way of education. Some parents are laissez-faire, doting, rough, etc. to their children, and some parents respect, understand and tolerate their children, which are all characteristics of personality. Generally speaking, parents are democratic, equal, respectful, and loving, and children are easy to develop a confident, independent, cooperative, and sociable personality; parents are authoritarian, strict, rough or laissez-faire, and children are more likely to become submissive, passive, dependent, stubborn, cold, cruel and other personalities.

Good character is an important factor in a child's social development, achievement, or success.

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A good environment is a mentor for children to become talents in the future. If parents want their children to become talented, they should provide an excellent sub-environment for their children as much as possible, and they should lead by example and provide a high-quality family environment for their children.

Experts warn parents that in order for their children to become talented, parents cannot be arbitrary and willful. Consciously creating a good environment for children to become a talent is the natural duty of parents.

As far as the family environment is concerned, in order to cultivate a promising and developing child, not only a good material environment is needed, but also a good psychological environment.

Whether in a two-parent family, a single-parent family or a mixed family, the harmonious relationship between members, the democratic style of parents, the efforts and enterprising efforts of adults themselves, and positive and healthy personality strength can help children become talents.

On this basis, the living environment and atmosphere tend to scientific research families, children will grow up to be better than scientific research; living environment tends to music and dance and other arts families, children are more likely to be more prominent in the field of art when they grow up; living environment tends to poetry, songs, literary creation of families, children are more likely to engage in literature, writing field work when they grow up... Parents' hobbies, talents, and strengths often guide the direction of children's talents.

Therefore, the parents of Wangzi Jackie Chan and Wangnu Chengfeng, from the external causes of becoming a talent, you and everything you are doing are influencing and shaping your children, and indicating whether ta can become talented, and in what way.