Introduction: The family is full of awards for children is a familiar affair, especially in childhood, every time they win awards from school, parents are excited, often put these honors in a conspicuous place at home, hoping that people who visit can see the excellence of their children at the first glance.
There is an award that also shows that the child is capable of being recognized by the school.
The child's award certificate is pasted all over the wall, but the parents are embarrassed, netizens: If I were the same
Every parent expects their children to become jackie chan and become capable people in the future. With the development of the times, people's living standards have steadily improved,
Parents have broken their hearts about their children's education problems and added a variety of cram classes to their children in their spare time.
Times are changing, and what is followed by the nature of the awards is followed by changes.
Children plastered awards all over the walls, but parents can't feel happy
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Now the award cannot be expressed as a glory for parents, but rather becomes a booster of encouragement, with a different meaning than in the past.
In the past, when the child received an award, the family would feel extremely satisfied,
It's a sign of recognition for children, but even if the home is full of awards big and small now, it's meaningless. Most of the awards are issued by the child's cram school, similar to the "full attendance award" and so on,
It looks rich, but it doesn't make sense.
The reality is that parents spend a lot of money, with the results of each lesson, essentially do not help the child, for such a situation,
Most netizens said: This is something to be proud of, and it also represents the hearts of most parents.
Parents added many extracurricular classes to their children, and meaningless praise awards gradually increased.
When parents look at the awards, it is inevitable that they will have some thoughts in their hearts.
The award itself is necessary, and parents need to change their mindset
Although for parents the family is full of awards can not feel satisfied
But the child feels that this is the result of his own efforts, there is still a need for existence, and parents need to change their mentality and understand it from a different position.
Although awards are made with money, they also represent that children have invested time and energy and are constantly getting recognition. Awards such as awards can also be used as a measure of children's level and encouragement of learning.
Training institutions give such awards to motivated, excellent children, which in itself is an act of recognition and encouragement,
It can also improve children's motivation to learn.
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This type of award can also effectively improve children's self-confidence and make children understand their strengths
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To further pass on the atmosphere of effective learning to children, it can make children more effective and multi-faceted to explore their own strengths, improve children's literacy, and fully stimulate children's enthusiasm for learning.
The awards issued by training institutions have the advantage of allowing children in general learning to show a way forward.
This kind of award is not available to all children, but also after the child's hard work and investment of time and energy.
Awards can serve as an incentive for the few children who don't get awards to work hard.
It makes sense to have a flaunting, and moving towards the flaunting will promote children's growth and independent learning.
Parents need to learn to guide their children's growth, and the family environment is an indispensable component of their children's growth
Every parent plays an important role in the child's childhood, and feels that if you can give your child the first lesson, the child will subconsciously learn the behavior of the parents.
In this regard, parents should understand the role of the family environment in the growth of their children and play a guiding role
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At present, most children are good at one or two skills, which is recognized by the public, and the desire of parents to make their children into dragons and phoenixes is very normal.
However, children have their own consciousness, and parents should listen to their children's voices and let them choose freely.
Instead of blindly following the advice of parents, lacking the component of self-thinking.
Children can invest time and energy to acquire knowledge for the things they like, and at the same time continue to improve,
Only in this way can parents and children not waste their energy and make meaningless expenditures.
As the child grows,
Parents should combine the actual situation of the child, and effectively improve the child's learning efficiency, and do not overcorrect. Give children more space and self-expression in the form of praise, and exchange the right to speak to children.
This is of great help to children's independent learning ability, and at the same time can improve children's self-confidence.
Parents should become role models and constantly improve their own cultivation, and children will grow up with imitation.
Effectively cultivating children is a grinding problem, parents and teachers should communicate together, work together to make children complete themselves, and the existence of awards is not just as simple as writing,
Parents should also change their mentality, understand how to look at education rationally, and implement the role of the award.