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People's Daily: 9 scientific methods of punishment
Punishing the child is not to fight with the child for power, but to stand with the child and guide him to do the right thing.
What is the right way to punish?
Add a consequence after the child's behavior to match the extent of his behavior and make him aware of the consequences of making mistakes.
For example, if the child spills the milk, he does not need to shout, but only tells the child to clean it up and pour it again.
The child is not concentrated, small movements are more, let him sit quietly.
Impatient, careless, training beans.
Lazy, sleepy as soon as he studied, and ran with him for half an hour.
Dragging his feet and teaching him to set an alarm clock.
Scribble and scribble, throw things around, teach him to clean.
What looks like punishment is actually positive guidance.
Moreover, children are very different, and it is necessary to find a punishment method suitable for children according to their personality.
For example, for timid children who are afraid to speak, they can be guided to read aloud.
People's Daily summarized 9 scientific methods of punishing children, and believed that children would become better and better by doing so:
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Education is not to win children, but to win children.
Making mistakes is never a problem, all children will make mistakes, and making mistakes is precisely the opportunity for children to grow.
Improper punishment, even if the child wins, but the child is not convinced, will only push them farther.
Only proper punishment can teach children to admit punishment, admit mistakes, and harvest growth.