Hello parents, I'm Star Hero!
Today, when the little man was surfing the Internet, he saw such a bizarre question:
Xiaoxia first gives you a popular science here, what is INFP.
INFP (Mediator Personality) refers to a personality type in a personality psychological test, in which I stands for introversion, N stands for intuition, F stands for emotion, and P stands for dependence.
Mediator personalities tend to be quiet, open-minded, and imaginative, caring and creative in everything they do, and empathetic and idealistic.
At first glance, do you think that such a personality is not bad? Such a person will be obedient, sensible, imaginative, and thoughtful.
But if I tell you that this kind of personality requires a bad childhood and a very controlling parent to develop, are you still willing to let your children become such people?
Sensible children
Tend to have a more poignant childhood
Infp personality people, the heart is full of unrealistic hope idealism, then correspondingly, their childhood must have experienced an exclusive education.
Imagine a child who, when proposing any personal opinion, is denied and is suppressed by parents on the grounds that "you are just a child, what do you know?".
Even if the test results come out, parents say that "it is not good to study well" and "I don't expect you to be the first in the test anyway".
At the same time, it will also be preached from time to time: "To care for the weak, to have love, even if you don't like the other person, you must consider his feelings."
In this way, a child with no personality, no self-confidence, ideas but no argumentative, and always misunderstood INFP personality is born.
Such children, often with a flame in their hearts, could have developed their ambitions with more passionate creative desires, but because of sensitive emotions and the shackles of taking care of the feelings of others, they constantly shake their ambitions, thus curbing a bright future.
They are the well-behaved children of the common population, but they are consuming their emotions with "understanding", and what parents get is the praise of others and the destruction of a child.
Such children tend to be more favored by enterprises when they grow up, because they will be obedient, compromise, and have the enthusiasm to create, but they will often give up because of the feelings of others.
Do you really want your child to be such a person?
Support children's personality diversity
in order to get the perfect child
In addition to the so-called INFP personality, there are also a dozen kinds of personalities such as the so-called debater personality and the protagonist personality, and the capitalists use dozens of questions to divide people's personalities into various types.
These personalities may be eloquent, may be introverted and shy, and parents want their children to become better people, so they want to cultivate their children's personality at an early age.
But in fact, human personalities are diverse, and they cannot be distinguished by dozens of test questions.
If you want your child to become better, you may wish to know more about your child:
Your child is introverted, have you ever asked if he is afraid of communicating with people or simply does not like to contact people?
The child is grumpy, have you ever explored what makes him grumpy? Is it because of over-pampering or is there any psychological trauma?
Secondly, you want to have an extroverted child, but your baby is not cheerful no matter how to guide, have you seen other advantages of children?
Maybe this introvert actually enjoys reading on his own or concentrating on crafts?
You want your child to be brave, but he just does things carefully.
Do you see, then, that this child may be born with the advantage of prudence and carefulness?
The world is made up of different species, different elements, different ideas, when your child is not as cheerful and brave as others, but maybe they are more intelligent, when your child is irritable and irritable, maybe he is more mature than others, hoping to fight for his rights from others.
3Q Kids Business School's original intention that every child can receive child business education is like this:
We hope to explore the so-called "character shortcomings" of each child, and then guide children to use their "character strengths" to cope with various problems, so that children can grow happily with better character and quality.
As a parent, accept the innate characteristics of your child, let your child have your own unique personality, and give your child a complete and happy childhood, so that you can harvest a perfect child!
The child's personality is related to his future development, and also determines the child's future happiness index.
As a parent, you must not copy the "personality template" of other people's children. You know, either obedient are good children, not creative and smart, and not only brave to have a future.
Discover your child's strong personality and let your child live a unique self!
Scientific parenting
Accompanied by 3Q Kids Business School
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