Every step of the way we take
It is all about measuring the way for children to go about the world ahead
Since ancient times, most parents have hoped that the daughter will become a phoenix and hope that most children will become an ordinary person, some people say that the dragon gives birth to a dragon and a phoenix, and the parents are not bad for the children; but some parents are the school bully, the child is the scum, and the parents of the school bully talk about their experience on the Internet: "It is really a bitter tear, and the reputation of the four generations of our family will be destroyed in the hands of my son." Sixty students in the class are now required, as long as they are not within the last dozen. ”
"My husband and I are both masters who have never attended a tutoring class, my son is now in the fifth grade, he has not been out of the bottom five since he started school, well, the children are very stable."
"If it didn't look like me, I thought I was holding the wrong one in the hospital!"
Parents are school bullies, does not mean that children are also school bullies, just like "Story China" in "Baby Learns to Swim", someone wants to throw a baby into the river to swim, others are curious to ask him how can a baby swim? He said: The father of the child is a master swimmer, and he can win every competition, how can his son, who is a master, not swim?
All knowledge and skills are to be cultivated, some children really can not become a bully, even if you are the elite of 985, the child born may not be able to be admitted to 985, what parents can do is to teach her to learn to protect herself independently, and when she grows up, she can learn a craft that can support herself.
Parenting first raises themselves, parents can accompany their children to read "Story China", this set of books not only has a bright cover color, the 200 celebrity stories in it come from the classic works "Zuo Chuan", "Mencius", "Zhuangzi", "Lü's Spring and Autumn", "Yan's Spring and Autumn", as well as the "History", "Say Wan", "Search for God", "ShiShu Xinyu" and other classics since the Han Dynasty, as well as ancient famous paintings; attach the original text and use the plain vernacular text for secondary creation, so that children can easily read the stories inside when they contact traditional culture.
In my hand are the two storybooks "The Fables of Mencius and Han Feizi" and "The Story of Yanzi and Lü's Spring and Autumn", which can be said to be ancient character magazines and the sharp edge of speech and words.
For example, the ancient Yanzi, who was not very tall, assisted the three generations of monarchs of the State of Qi, and in the Spring and Autumn Period, he was admired by the princes and ministers of the nations. "Manzi Spring and Autumn" is a notepad of Yanzi's words and deeds, and it also brings together many legends and stories.
The stories selected in the "Spring and Autumn Stories of YanZi and Lü Shi" record some examples of Yanzi advising the monarch, and become an example for future generations to learn.
The Fables of Mencius and Han Feizi selects the eloquent Mencius, a thinker of the Warring States period and a representative of the Confucian school. Mencius liked to tell stories and reason in debates, convincing people at the same time as embarrassing.
His story lets us know that human nature is good, and human goodness comes from talent; moral cultivation is very important, and through long-term moral practice, we can cultivate a kind of "magnificent qi"...
Han Fei had a stuttering problem, but his articles were regarded as the most precious treasure by Qin Shi Huang. He is good at telling us abstract truths with a large number of simple fables.
The stories selected in the whole set of "Story China" are complex and interesting, including Taoist materials, interesting stories of the Fa, Confucians, and Mo families, and anecdotes of famous masters, peasant families, soldiers, and yin and yang families.
Many times the external environment is uncertain, so the most important thing is to be steadfast, because seeking stability in uncertainty needs to rely on stable values, and our history as a mirror is to cultivate children's ability to face life firmly.
The most important thing is that parents accompany their children to read and learn how to become passing parents, allowing children to grow up a little slower, my father often said: I raise you to do my duty, you can't become a material I don't blame you, but you want to become an adult, and when you grow up, you have to be down-to-earth with your own hands to make money.
I know that a mother posted: My child has been bullied at school, should I go to school and beat up my classmates who bullied her?
Some people suggested that she communicate with parents and teachers, and some people suggested that she beat up the bully's child; among the many suggestions, the answer of the answer was highly praised: different stages of life will encounter bullying things, some on the stage, some in private; as parents, what we can do is to give our children enough love, so that they will ask their families for help when they encounter problems outside; in addition, let the children learn self-protection, and having a sense of self-protection is also a key step in independent growth.
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Home is the transmission channel of love and warmth, and also the transmission channel of hatred and harm. Moreover, this kind of hatred and hurt is difficult to heal. Parents addicted to mobile phones failed to find the child's situation in time, the child lacked a role model to learn, encountered things do not know how to deal with, in school bullied into the mobile phone into a vicious circle; want to improve the child's situation needs to put down the mobile phone to give high-quality companionship, such as accompanying the child to read history books, the wisdom contained in the historical story, the shining character of the historical figure, will become the coordinates of the child's growth, let the child do the root of the Chinese.
