Accompanying children to write homework collapses to crying, parents learn this trick, more effective than roaring 1000 times!

If one day you find that your female friends often don't contact you, there may be three situations.

1. She may be sick or suffer some accident;

2. She became a mother;

3. She needs to help her child with homework;

I believe that the last situation is familiar to every mother, since the child went to school, her life state is only "busy" and "busier" two situations.

Send your children to school in the morning, help your children write homework in the evening, send your children to interest classes on weekends, and even give you the task of grading homework in the WeChat group during the break.

Especially in the matter of writing homework, it can be said that nine out of ten children will make the following three mistakes.

Can't sit still: one will play mobile phone, one will want to watch TV, in short, can't sit for ten minutes and want to play;

Delay time: obviously an hour can be done in an hour of homework, have been dragging time to find excuses, do not write for three or four hours without results;

Love to make mistakes: The mistakes just corrected will continue to be made in two days, and the teacher will also criticize the parents for not taking the tutoring homework seriously.

Do not write homework, motherly kindness and filial piety, a writing homework, chicken flying dog jump.

Although writing homework is a child's business, it is the parents who are in pain.

Even a psychologist, Guo Rong once encountered the same problem as everyone else.

Family Emotional Intelligence Coach: Rong Guo

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Hitting is not, scolding is not, education that does not understand the psychology of children will always fail

As a novice mother, Guo Rong's daughter was in the third grade, which was her most devastating time.

As soon as the daughter finished school, she played like a child, urging her, and she was not in a hurry. Usually writing homework is also, every night Guo Rong and his wife accompany their daughter to stay up until twelve o'clock to finish writing.

Hitting is not, scolding is not, when it comes to homework, there is no way to take her, Guo Rong is really going crazy during that time!

As a psychology expert, even your own children are not well educated, what face do you have to transmit psychological knowledge to others?

In order to find out the reason why the child is procrastinating in writing homework, Guo Rong began to reflect on his own educational process.

After dinner, Guo Rong's husband will usually remind her daughter to do her homework, but her daughter's eyes have never left the TV, and her father is still thinking about it: Every time it is like this, when can I be conscious.

After the homework was finished, Guo Rong checked the homework, found that the mistakes of the previous two days had been made again, and immediately reprimanded his daughter: Such a simple question is written wrong, and the brain does not move?

Her daughter began to cry, and Guo Rong suddenly realized that she seemed to be wrong and rushed to comfort her daughter.

Thinking of these experiences, Guo Rong found a serious problem, he always considered the problem from the perspective of his parents, but never thought about learning from the perspective of his daughter's psychology.

First of all, you should not urge the child, the child's psychological endurance is poor, the more you urge her to delay the more obvious;

Secondly, I always like to reprimand my daughter, not sure of her efforts and efforts, but always emphasize her mistakes.

In the next few months, Guo Rong carefully understood the psychology of children in the age group of 3 to 12 years old, and only then did he know what to pay attention to and what not to do when he usually accompanied his children to write homework.

The relationship with my daughter is good, I don't even have to worry about homework, and the scene of chicken flying dog jumping in the past is much less.

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Respect children, resolve conflicts, and say goodbye to rough education.

Since Guo Rong's relationship with her children has become better, her friends around her are very envious of her and have asked her for skills in writing homework with her children.

As a psychology expert, Guo Rong also deeply feels the helplessness and distress of many parents and friends.

So she went through the books on child psychology on the market, reviewed the literature of countless experts and scholars, and found many "difficult and complicated diseases" about children's education before.

For example, children are hyperactive and easy to be distracted, not because they are naughty, because children do not develop well in the frontal lobe of the brain before the age of 14, and the nerve inhibition function is not strong.

For example, children's resistance to writing homework is not that they are lazy, but that human nature instinctively fights and escapes. Guo Rong also "prescribes the right medicine" for these problems.

Children do not love to learn, just start from the game, the homework into a puzzle game, so that children experience the fun of doing problems.

If the child's learning concentration is not concentrated, then study with a small plan, step by step to improve the child's concentration time, do not achieve it overnight.

Parents tutoring homework has large emotional fluctuations, so they use psychological knowledge to self-regulate their emotions and avoid conflicts with their children.

Over the past few years, Guo Rong has her own unique set of methods and ideas for educating children, and she summarizes it into this set - "No Yelling, No Screaming, Improving Children's Grades, Teaching You to Write Homework Scientifically".

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Solve the fundamental problem of difficulty in doing homework

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And once launched, it received a lot of parents likes, in just one year the students exceeded 10,000, many parents who solved the problem of their children's homework were excited to send her thanks.

Ms. Li and her husband used to argue bitterly over education issues, but now after Guo Rong's explanation, the two have benefited a lot and have a new understanding of their children's education.

Ms. Wang used to tutor her daughter there was always a conflict, and the relationship with her daughter was very poor, after learning the course, she finally understood that she had to identify with the child and understand the child.

Even many kindergartens and tutoring institutions have warmly invited Teacher Guo Rong to explain, giving many parents the most practical help.

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Seventeen years of psychological research, the most authoritative tutor guidance, the most professional curriculum

Of course, why is Guo Rong's course so popular? In addition to hands-on practice, parents trust Guo Rong's own authoritative qualifications in psychology.

Teacher Guo Rong has been studying and studying psychology for seventeen years, focusing on professional achievement.

Successively trained: Master of Medical Psychology, Institute of Psychology, Chinese Academy of Sciences, Certified Psychological Evaluator, Psychological Crisis Intervention Training;

Dr. Chuck (a well-known clinical psychology master in the United States) Cognitive Psychology Workshop;

Hellinger (founder of the German family system arrangement) system arrangement tutor class;

Li Zhongying NLP Marriage and Parent-Child Relationship Mentor Class;

Xu Weisu (First Person in Chinese focus technology) Focus Solution Workshop, Central Conservatory of Music Professor Zhang Hongyi Music Therapy Workshop, Dr. Sun Xinlan Image Dialogue Therapy and Soul Psychology Course System, Mind Healing Leader Workshop, Tong Yujuan Art Therapy Workshop, etc.

It can be said that on the road of psychological research, Teacher Guo Rong has never stopped his footsteps.

After becoming famous, Ms. Guo Rong also actively participated in various public welfare activities; launched the Child Sexual Assault Education Girls' Protection Fund in Hangzhou; successively brought child sexual assault prevention education courses to students and parents in more than 50 schools; worked together to provide psychological care for left-behind children in Ya'an and other places in Ganzhou to benefit more families; and launched a monthly public welfare family education lecture in Hangzhou Zhong Shu Ge for two consecutive years. It truly interprets the term "both ability and political integrity".

And Teacher Guo Rong's "Don't Yell, Don't Scream, Improve Your Child's Grades, Teach You to Write Homework Scientifically" course setting is professional, starting from psychology, so that you know what the essence of the child's problem is. From the root cause, it not only solves the homework problem, but also helps you cultivate your child's independent and positive learning habits!

11 effective children's psychological education classes to solve the fundamental problems of difficulty in doing homework;

16 years of practical experience in psychology, master of medical psychology, the most authoritative educational method of child psychology experts;