As the saying goes, the baby's growth law is three flips, six sittings, seven rolls and eight climbs.
When scientific parenting is not so common, there will be a lot of parenting experience in the market, which is mostly passed on by the elders, and if they have to compare what is true, they are also vague.
But we have to admit that the wisdom of the people is endless, and some of their unreasonable parenting experiences are not nonsense, and have been verified by many scientists.
Why does my baby not turn over in 4 months?
Li Li anxiously asked in the mother and baby group, why my baby is now four years old and still can't turn over? Don't you all say that you should learn to turn over in three months? If he can't do it now, won't the growth and development in the future be left behind more?
Whenever we talk about this topic, moms will cause a lot of unnecessary anxiety, on the one hand, because of the inward behavior caused by comparing with other children, on the other hand, the mother is worried that the future development of the child will be seriously affected.
After all, everything must start from the doll, and any step cannot be carried out in accordance with the conventional law of development, and one step will fall step by step. This kind of helplessness of one link and one link is simply unacceptable to Bao Ma.
But what can the other mothers in the group say except comfort? Even if these comforts seem perfunctory, they still need to be so flattered in the face of unsympathetic conversations.
However, those mothers who are sick and chaotic in the medical treatment often cannot correctly guide their children to catch up in the end, because their mentality is not flattened, the more anxious they are, the more anxious they are, the more anxious they are, so vicious.
How many babies are there in the "three flips, six sittings, eight climbs" pit? The law of growth is not so simple
The law of child growth that we talk about is actually only a general law, because each child's physical fitness is different, and the educational environment in which they are located is different, which will lead to differences in growth rate.
Just as there are no two identical leaves in the world, no two children's development laws are exactly the same, and it is impossible to make every step of growth and change synchronous.
But why are there so many parents who are so paranoid that these laws of growth are correct? It is not because of the novices, the mothers lack experience, are very sensitive to any problems related to the child, and are afraid of causing irreversible harm to the child because of their own negligence.
In fact, the traditional meaning of three-turn six sitting is not as simple as literally, and in three months, you will learn to turn over immediately, and you can't delay for a moment. According to relevant expert surveys, there are only a few children who can learn to turn over strictly according to the three-month deadline.
Time limit: It is normal to master it within 2 months before and after
During the critical period when the so-called transition sex occurs, there will be a buffer period of two months before and after. That is to say, as long as the child learns to turn over in 3 to 5 months, it is normal, and there is no difference between the three-month child learning to turn over and the three-and-a-half-month child learning to turn over.
And it is very likely that children who learn to turn over at three and a half months can learn to sit earlier, directly breaking the saying that one step falls step by step. There are also many possibilities and opportunities to turn the tables.
At this time, parents are required to maintain a peaceful attitude, and do not interfere with their emotions because they see other children learn a certain skill early, which seriously affects the normal growth law of the child and the situation of pulling up seedlings.
After all, the growth and development of children is a natural thing, if his physical fitness has relevant abilities, even if parents do not guide, they will have the courage to try, just to prove that they have grown up.
Acquiring skills too early is not a good thing
Even if they know the time frame of growth and development, many parents will still feel that the sooner they master the skills, the better the development of their children, and even consciously cultivate their children's desire to behave in advance.
In this way, it is not a good thing for the growth of children. If children can successfully learn skills with the requirements of their parents, it is very stressful for their body structure, and it is likely that because their physical development is not very mature, they will have to complete super-powered behaviors, and the possibility of problems is very high.
Today's summary:
How old did your child learn to turn over? How did you guide him before that? Feel free to share your thoughts with us!