Sanmao said: The taste of life, whether it is Yangchun white snow or green vegetables and tofu, you must taste it yourself.
The most peaceful happiness in the world is to contemplate the heavens and the earth and the world, and slowly taste its harmony.
Calm and powerful soul, this is the most intuitive first impression of papi sauce.
Life is bitter and happy
Papi Sauce is a magical woman who combines beauty and wisdom.
She has her own unique perspective on love. She believes that love just needs to collide, and can't be hung on a tree.
Only then will you discover what kind of person is right for you and what kind of emotional relationship is making you miserable. In this way, we can find people to spend our lives together.
Old Hu, is the Nth boyfriend of Papi Sauce. This is also the original word of papi sauce. She is still very honest about this.
Sanmao said: If your love, as love does not cause the other party's love, if you as a lover through your life performance, does not make you a loved one. Then your love is powerless, it is unhappy.
Papi Sauce also believes that if the person you love can't love you back with the same love, such love is unreliable.
Near the end of college, Papi Sauce and Lao Hu came together. From falling in love to getting married, they have gone through more than a dozen years.
Lao Hu and Papi Sauce have the same three views, and they are also extremely fond of her. The most intuitive embodiment is in the health of papi sauce.
It turned out that papi sauce had an ovarian cyst when he was 20 years old, and after 10 years of cultivation, it was getting bigger and bigger. At the age of 30, Papi Sauce chose to surgically cut it.
Doctors recommend getting pregnant as soon as possible after papi sauce surgery, because there will be no menstruation after pregnancy, so that the ovaries are not easy to recur and grow.
Unfortunately, Papi Sauce did not get pregnant for a year after the surgery. She asked her husband to go to the hospital for a check-up, and later concluded that it was her physical cause.
Papi Sauce immediately decided not to have children. Fortunately, her husband Lao Hu is very supportive of papi sauce, and he has no special desire for children.
This is Lao Hu's love for papi sauce.
The son is a funny baby
Regarding the child, the papi sauce was misunderstood by everyone before it was revealed. She also felt very aggrieved.
Because of the incident of the child's surname right, she was once controversial. Papi sauce also responded, in fact, everyone misunderstood her meaning. She is not a feminist, and she has always maintained a natural mentality for having children, and has not particularly emphasized not having children.
This may be the annoyance of celebrities.
On March 4, 2020, Papi Sauce gave birth to a son. Now that you are ready to meet your child, you must be a responsible and good mother.
In the parpease words, this is a high-demand baby, with very little sleep time every day, and it needs to be held by an adult to fall asleep.
When I had ovarian surgery for a year, I never got pregnant. Later, the son arrived unexpectedly, and Papi Sauce and her husband struggled for a while, whether they wanted this child or not, and whether they were ready or not.
The reason for the entanglement is not because of the rising period of their careers, but whether they are mentally prepared to become parents.
Papi Sauce later chose to give birth to a son, and worked until she was 8 months pregnant before she took maternity leave. Originally thought that 3 months of maternity leave was enough, but later felt that three months of maternity leave was too little, and then she carried milk while working. She is definitely a good mom.
Now my son is 2 years old and has gone to kindergarten. Papi sauce revealed that the son is a very funny baby, in the nursery, when there are many people holding activities, the son will be shy, the perception of the surroundings is very strong.
When it comes to parenting, Papi Sauce and husband have different views. Lao Hu thinks not to go to the chicken baby, and Papi sauce thinks that it is still necessary to go to the chicken baby appropriately.
When you can't conceive a child, there is no special desire. After having a child, papi sauce also wants to give the child the best, of course, not the best materially.
In Papi Sauce's view, the companionship of parents is the most expensive and priceless.
After giving birth to sons, they still go back to their respective homes
Papi sauce once revealed in a variety show that after 5 years of marriage, the parents of both sides have never met, and during the New Year, she and her husband went back to their respective homes.
In Papi Sauce's view, the in-laws would prefer to see their sons. And their parents will also want to see their daughters more.
Such ideas are very enlightened, but also a little selfish. Many people will say what would happen if they had children?
Papi sauce said a word: in addition to going back to my hometown, my husband and I are staying at home, the study is face to face, each playing with each computer, each watching each OTHER's TV series.
This sentence is informative. That means that after having children, Papi Sauce and Husband Lao Hu still go back to their respective homes.
For each family, they do not seem to have taken the secular path.
In the secular view, if the wife does not follow her back to the in-laws' house after marriage, she will be drowned by spit. After all, there are too many nosy people around, there are seven aunts and eight aunts, and there are also neighbors in the countryside.
Papi sauce and old beard do not have such a problem. Not only because they are in the big city, but also because they are confident, calm, and have a strong and free soul.
They never care what other people think.
Love is not only reflected in the fact that I must follow you back to your home. It is mutual tolerance and understanding that are the most important. Every couple, different families, has a different way of getting along.
Sanmao said: Love is eternal patience, and there is kindness.
The name of the mother-in-law
If papi sauce does not return to her in-laws' house, will her relationship with her mother-in-law be good?
On the issue of mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, papi sauce has long given itself a preventive injection. Papi Sauce believes that a mother-in-law can love her daughter-in-law as a daughter. But as a daughter-in-law, you can't treat your mother-in-law as your mother-in-law, because you can vent your bad emotions to your mother-in-law, but you can't do this to your mother-in-law.
Sense of proportion, this is also where papi sauce grasps well.
From the standpoint of the elderly, if their daughters-in-law cannot go home together in the New Year, they are bound to be unhappy in their hearts. And the elderly definitely want to see their grandchildren too. It's just that there are some reasonable old people who don't show it on their faces.
This can be seen from the papi sauce's name for the mother-in-law. The papi sauce can be said to be very special to the name of the mother-in-law.
Papi Sauce: My husband's mom and I are both tiger moms. Papi sauce was meant to say that the mother-in-law was very strict with her husband's education since childhood, and was a tiger mother.
This sentence accidentally disclosed the papi sauce's name for the mother-in-law, not calling the mother-in-law "mother", but the husband's mother.
The salutation here is full of politeness and alienation. Imagine if the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law relationship is very close, shouldn't it be called "my mother-in-law" in front of the camera?
Papi Sauce is such a real woman.
Let's also compare. Little S's name for his mother-in-law is very intimate, directly called "mother". Even when interviewing, she was called "my mother-in-law" in front of outsiders. Little S never called her mother-in-law "my husband's mother."
Papi Sauce is such a free woman who does not like things and does not feel sorry for herself.
It's like papi sauce written to yourself 10 years later: may you be healthy, happy, and happy. Do not forget the original heart, free and free, do not like things and do not grieve with yourself.
After seeing the sobriety and self-confidence of papi sauce, I understand a woman's greatest confidence: that is, there is money and love, and freedom.
Be a proud and free woman, even in what kind of environment, don't lose yourself, the best and most really happy self.
Be a free and quiet woman, no quarrel with the world, no words, and no one to please anyone.