Introduction: In Guangxi, there is a husband and wife in a village. After they got married, they had 10 children. The wife is 30 years old, but she looks like an old mother. Everyone thinks that their family has so many children, it should be a good family condition. In fact, however, this is not the case.
The young couple after the 90s have 10 children, obviously very young, but they look like they are old!
This family still lives on government subsidies. However, even under such difficult conditions, they still gave birth to ten children. So what is the reason for this?
The two couples, the man's name is Wei Guoze, and the woman's name is Meng Xiuping. Both were from the 90s, and the two of them were only born a year apart. Listen to them, they used to work in Guangzhou, and then by chance, they met each other. At that time, Meng Xiuping, because mandarin was not standard, she did not dare to talk to other people, afraid of being laughed at. Wei Guoze was also like her, after the two people met, due to the experiences of the two people, they were particularly similar. So in the slow contact, they developed feelings for each other.
After the two fell in love, they got married not long after. Because the couple's relationship was particularly good, Meng Xiuping soon became pregnant with her first child. Because of her pregnancy, there was no way to work, so the economic burden of the family fell on Wei Guoze. Fortunately, he is a very responsible man, although the family conditions are very poor, the pressure to bear is also particularly large, but he has never complained about his wife. At the same time, after the birth of the child, he also took care of the child together with his wife.
A 30-year-old woman, who gives birth to a child every year, looks like a very old mother
Wei Guoze's family also has a mother. After the wife finished confinement, she went to do some field work to subsidize the family. At the same time, you can also take care of the children at the same time. However, with the mother-in-law's body, a situation suddenly appeared. Meng Xiuping had to put down the work in her hand and stay at home all day, taking care of the children while taking care of the mother-in-law.
In this way, the days are getting tighter and tighter. After Wei Guo saw this, he decided to go home and work. In this way, you can take care of your family better. At the same time, he also went to the government and applied for poverty subsidies. In addition, he also works part-time and grows corn at home, which is how he struggles to maintain his family's life.
It is particularly difficult for everyone to understand why the two of them have to have ten children in such a difficult economic environment. They gave their own answer to the question. The couple feels that the family is more lively. At the same time, they have not learned about contraception, and when they want to stop having children, there is still no way to stop.
Meng Xiuping also said that her body is actually not so strong, so she can't go for sterilization. At the same time, many people said that if she was sterilized, it would affect her later life. As a result, the result of today's "vicious circle" has been created.
Due to the cultural level of the couple, they are relatively low. For a lot of fertility knowledge, in fact, do not understand. So the first six children, they all gave birth at home.
When others learned of this, they told the couple that it was very dangerous to do so, and that they must go to a regular hospital to give birth. Otherwise, after the child is born, it will become a black household. When they learned about it, they decided to go to a regular hospital from the birth of their seventh child.
Because Meng Xiuping has been giving birth to children, at the same time, she has not eaten nutritious things, and she often stays up late to take care of the children, her health has become worse and worse. Usually a little heavy things, she will feel very difficult, plus, daily will not pay attention to skin care, so her appearance, like a very big mother.
Probably because everyone's ordeal is limited. Although the couple lived a very hard life, and the wife's health was particularly bad, the children of the two couples were particularly obedient and well-behaved, which also made the couple feel relieved.
When it came time for the children to go to school, because the distance between the school and home was relatively far, Wei Guo decided to ask relatives to take care of his four children, and every Friday, let the children return home. Whenever the children return home, they will automatically and consciously help their parents to do some housework and reduce some of the pressure on their parents.
In this village, there are many families, similar to their families. They have always hoped that the roads in the village can be repaired better, so that when the children go to school, they can walk smoothly. It costs a lot of money to build roads, so they can only put forward their ideas to the village cadres.
Just in 2019, the village chief suggested that Wei Guoze could move with his family to a poverty alleviation house in the village. Wei Guo did not agree, because he had to take care of the crops in the field every day, and if he lived in a poverty alleviation house, it would be particularly inconvenient to go home and work. However, with the fact that he "gave birth to ten children" was spread on the Internet, which attracted the attention of many people, and they also became small Internet celebrities, Wei Guo decided to move into the poverty alleviation house with his family, but he would still go home to take care of the crops in the field.
Because Wei Guoze became a celebrity in the village, many local media and reporters wanted to interview him, but Wei Guoze, in front of the camera, could not say one or two. Some people even saw that Wei Guoze's family was so hard and put forward the idea of being willing to adopt a child, but Wei Guo directly refused. Because he felt that these were his own children, he must grow up by his side.
Conclusion: Most of the family conditions in rural areas are relatively poor. Young people in rural areas must carefully think about whether they can give their children enough economic security before giving birth.
Because after the child is born, not only the daily life expenditure will become very large, but at the same time, the child's education expenditure is also very large. And in order for children to get out of the mountains, the best way is to encourage them to read more.