In today's society, children are not necessarily good now, only children are not necessarily bad, modern society does not pay attention to quantity, but quality, and cultivate personal quality education
Many people do not want to have a second child, because the emergency material conditions do not allow, but also because of the road they have traveled before, do not want to let the child walk again, we are not gods and righteous people, we just want to be quiet for a good time
01. Mother-in-law who prefers sons to daughters
Since getting married, Li Li has understood, why do women get married? The mother's family will cry, and the in-laws will laugh, because the man is the beneficiary of the marriage. Since the ten months of marriage and pregnancy, the in-laws have not seen once, nor have they called to greet once, as if the child she is pregnant with no one cares at all, Li Li, there are really words of suffering.
Finally arrived at the day of childbirth, after the pain of pregnancy in October, the pain of childbirth, stomach pain for a day and a night, because it has not been able to make strength, and finally turned around and dissected, suffered two stubble sins. Li Li's husband Wang Zhengdu looked in the eyes, the pain was in his heart, the anxious delivery room door hovered, when the doctor pushed Li Li out of the delivery room, he saw Li Li's face full of sweat and tears, the tears in his eyes could no longer be stopped, and they fell off...
After giving birth to a child, Li Li saw her swaddled daughter, and everything was worth it!
Li Li was lying on the hospital bed with fluids, and her mother-in-law came in and asked with a happy face, "What about my eldest grandson?" ”
The nurse who was feeding the baby formula took the baby to Grandma. Grandma said happily, "My eldest grandson's eyes really look like his father, exactly the same as when I was a child in my family, that is, this nose is not very good-looking, I don't know who I look like?" ”
The nurse said, "Your granddaughter is really beautiful, and today's life is good, and she is a blessed person at first glance."
"Granddaughter? You're wrong! How can it be the granddaughter" said the baby's grandmother to untie the child's quilt and rip it open, the baby's grandmother was dumbfounded" Is the doctor to hug the wrong, I have calculated her life before is the grandson, how not to bring the handle? ”
Then he threw the child on the bed and angrily said to Li Li, "You must have cut your hair when you were pregnant, and only then did you give birth to the girl born to the Wang family."
At this time, Wang Zheng just came in and probably heard what happened, "Mom, what age is this, boys and girls are the same, Li Li is the hero of our family", the mother-in-law threw away her son's hand and slammed the door with a sigh! Li Li, who had just given birth, was dizzy by her mother-in-law's lack of qi and blood, and Wang Zheng quickly explained the apology to her daughter-in-law, saw Wang Zheng's sincere apology, and ensured that her husband did not prefer sons to daughters, and this matter came to an end.
02. "Everyone has a second child" The mother-in-law beats the daughter-in-law and is punched in the face by the 5-year-old granddaughter: everyone has a grandmother
Time flies, in the five years of confinement and the growth of the baby, grandma is absent, neither a penny, nor a contribution, but the New Year will take the child to grandma's house for a Chinese New Year's Eve meal. Grandma often gives birth
"I heard from my next-door neighbor that her daughter-in-law has given birth to three children, and the third child is a son!" Dabao has gone to kindergarten, everyone has given birth to a second child, you can also prepare to have a child now, otherwise what if you are old? What should I do if I am sick? ”
"Do it!" The son is not a medicine primer, Mom, you don't have to worry about it, we both have a different era, we don't want a second child," Li Li's husband Wang Zheng said
"What can't be born, give birth to one is also born, give birth to two is also born, more than a pair of chopsticks thing, you young people now, is a lot of sentimentality, before we gave birth to a child, after giving birth to the ground, come back to cook, serve the in-laws, which is as happy as you are now, now children do not need to pee, are extravagant with diapers, two or three dollars a piece, most of our previous faces were washed with cold water diapers" Grandma said a little dismissively
The difference between the mother-in-law and the mother-in-law is that the mother-in-law has already suffered, and she must let her daughter-in-law eat it again, and the mother's suffering will never let her daughter eat it again
"Raw! Let's have another son," Li Li said calmly, and Wang Zheng was stunned
Grandma patted her thigh ecstatically, "Oh, this is right, children and grandchildren are full of blessings." ”
"The next door neighbor's in-laws, when pregnant, prepared thirty thousand obstetric examination fees and nutrition fees, children without nutrition can not do, white and fat is good, production prepared fifty thousand, milk powder prepared fifty thousand, confinement center, with the baby please raise children sister-in-law, in addition to buy a set of school district room, Mom, I am ready, are you ready" Li Li said, which can ask the mother-in-law to stop.
The mother-in-law put down her chopsticks and said in her heart that I would learn the art of war of my grandson and then fight with my daughter-in-law. This battle must be won, and a son must be born, and you must not be able to do so!
The mother-in-law said, "You are young and tired, you can't be selfish." When you are young, you want to be relaxed, when you are old, you are a child, you are tired of children, you can't be easy, you can't be selfish, what is the use of a bitch's film?"
Li Li said, "I still don't want a second child, I'm afraid of getting fat and ugly again, and that day's contraction pain and, the collapse of the seventh layer of caesarean section, I can't do eugenics, I'm afraid of not being able to bring two children, I just want to give this one daughter unique and grand love, to be honest, the biggest reason why I don't want to have children is that I don't have enough material foundation to raise children is very expensive, I at least want to give him a good educational environment, Meng Mother three moves well, at least his conditions are good, he can take the child to learn everywhere, This means that I must at least have a school district house, or it means that we have to give him enough financial conditions, do you say that the reason for having a second child is that the two children have a companion? There are always some brothers who turn against each other for the sake of the house, and there are always some sisters who are heartbroken by their parents' eccentricity, preferring to cut off their family affection and love a bowl of water to be flat."
03. "Everyone has a grandmother, I don't have a grandmother"
At this time, the granddaughter cried and said, "Grandma, for me, the word grandma is very strange, one day in the composition class, the teacher named us the composition title is "My Grandma"
The grandmothers of the other children are very kind and have written high-scoring essays, but I can't write this topic when I look at it, it's very strange! I handed in the white roll that day, because everyone has a grandmother, I don't have grandma's love, I'm five years old this year, the number of times I see you may be able to count with one hand, you never hugged me, mom and dad are very hard, have been taking care of me, while going to work, everyone has a grandma! Did I cut my hair, I was like a boy, and Grandma would like me? ”
Everyone was told this passage by a simple five-year-old child, and there were many thoughts, grandma was also ashamed to lower her head and blush, relatives at a table were also comforting the child, and grandma was dumbfounded. Unexpectedly, I was not dried by the milk odor, the five-year-old granddaughter snapped her face, and everyone was touched by the granddaughter and also supported Li Li's approach.
Any neglect has the potential to cause harm
Some people use their lives to heal their childhood, and some people use their childhood to heal their whole lives!
I think that parents a bowl of water uneven, it will lead to a gap between the two children, we have been reading holes from a young age, always think that the mother will teach us, you are big and he is small, you want to let her, but we have never asked the child whether he is willing or not!
Raising a child is no longer such a simple thing as passing on from generation to generation, it is not a requirement for quantity and quality, what can you give her on his growth path? Not only love, but also responsibility education, material, because this road is not easy to walk, so we should be eugenics and fertility, and strive to give them a rich life!