Richard Vernivale said: Love is a fiery obsession, a fire that cannot be extinguished. When love comes to us, it is a fire that cannot be extinguished, and neither man nor woman can resist this temptation.
But as the saying goes, men chase women across the mountain, which shows that men still have a certain degree of difficulty in chasing women. So exactly how can a man conquer a woman. On this subject, I believe that every man has his own thinking in his heart.
In reality, many men complain about women's hearts, needles under the sea, and they don't know how to capture the hearts of women they like. In fact, conquering women is not as difficult as you think, but you need to do three more, three less.
01. Listen more, talk less
Women are not the same as men, women are emotional, women are soft-hearted, heavy feelings, eager to be cared for and understood, this is the weakness of women. As long as you grasp the weakness of a woman, then sooner or later she will become your woman.
Male thinking and female thinking are not the same, in real life encountered any difficulties or setbacks, men prefer silence, or a person hiding alone digestion.
Women are different, many women even if they just encounter sesame point unhappy things, they like to find someone to talk to. Women are usually more likely to express and speak than men. So when men chase women, listen more and talk less.
If boys do not realize this feature of women, so that when chasing girls, they always find a variety of topics to chat with girls, gushing their ideas, in fact, it will be self-defeating.
This will not only make the girl feel that you just have nothing to talk about, which is very embarrassing, but also may make the girl more disgusted with you, unwilling to communicate with you, close to you.
Boys really want women to be interested in themselves, at least you have to give the right to speak to the girl, become a listener around her, so that the girl can open her heart to you, trust you, this is the first step for you to establish contact with the girl.
02. Do more, less cannon
When a woman is willing to let you approach, it means that she can accept you, the key depends on your later performance, which is also an important period for girls to examine you, and this period determines whether girls are willing to be with you or not.
Now people in this society are more intelligent and selfish, and almost no one is willing to suffer losses.
In fact, boys, you have to understand that when you are pursuing a girl, the girl agrees to your pursuit, then she must want to go on with you.
Most women are weaker than men, and many women will inevitably put a part of their security on men once they are in love with men. There are also many young women who will even ask the boy who is in love with her to be responsible for her for a lifetime.
This shows that women really enter a relationship and have requirements for the sense of responsibility and responsibility of boys.
Of course, maybe you will tell me that some scumbags are sweet-mouthed, and what is it, but there are still women with him?
Yes, but also think about what kind of woman would be willing to follow a scumbag who is just sweet-mouthed and has nothing to do. The answer is that this woman is either stupid or bad.
So what kind of woman do you pursue? Believe that normal men all like smart good women. This kind of woman is impossible to trust the man's rhetoric, in the face of this type of woman, men can only be less mouth cannon, with actions to prove the sincerity and love for girls, girls may be moved.
03. Encourage more, complain less
Many men just pursue a woman or are in a hot relationship with a woman, affected by the psychological moon halo effect, maybe everything in the woman he likes is an advantage, and there are few shortcomings that make him want to be picky.
But as men, you are all on a minus system in your relationship, and usually the later you get to the end of the relationship, the more critical and complaining men are about their women. In fact, men doing this will not only affect their feelings with women, but also make women resist him, after all, no one likes to be denied.
In a relationship, the most important thing for two people is to tolerate each other, encourage more, and complain less, which is also the law that men and women need to remember in the relationship.
Listen more, do more, encourage more, talk less, talk less, complain less, although it seems very simple, but the men who can really do it can be said to be very few.
It is not a simple gender technique or means, and men who can do it are bound to be very sincere with women, so if you can do it, then this woman will be conquered by you sooner or later.