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After the baby is born, at a certain stage, there may be such a performance:
No matter what you get in your hand, you like to throw it out, and you often throw your things around.
They seem to have a lot of fun and are enjoying it;
But parents are different, to follow the baby's ass and constantly clean up, at this time may feel that the child is too naughty, and even worry:
The little one was so naughty at such a young age, and he got it later!
Therefore, some impatient parents will start to get angry, scold and even spank their children's butts.
In the eyes of parents, they may feel that some of the child's behavior is deliberate and bad;
But in fact, for very young children, they do not think too much about those behaviors.
Take the behavior of a baby throwing something:
He may be excited because he is able to control his hands, or he thinks he has mastered a great skill, so he constantly repeats this behavior, but also hopes to get the attention of others.
In the face of such an act as a baby throwing things, how should parents treat and deal with it?
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First of all, treat your baby gently and encourage them more.
Children are very innocent and have a gentle attitude towards children.
If parents often criticize and rebuke loudly, it is likely to cause psychological shadows to their children.
Therefore, even if the baby brings trouble to the parents at this time, the parents must also control their emotions and encourage them from the good side, such as:
Great strength, etc.
Allowing them to gain self-confidence is good for the development of their child's mental health.
Of course, it should be noted that the encouragement of care should be appropriate, if it is found that the baby begins to vent emotions by throwing things when angry, the criticism must also be properly criticized, can not be coddled, doting will also be detrimental to the healthy development of the child.
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Secondly, parents should properly deal with and deal with the problem of babies throwing things.
After finding that the baby has the habit of throwing things, it is necessary to pack up the valuables at home to avoid economic losses caused by being broken, and to transfer some fragile items to places that the baby cannot reach, so as not to hurt the child after falling.
Parents can prepare some plush dolls and plastic toys for their children, which can reduce the occurrence of some bad situations.
In addition, the baby throws things, the parents go to pick up things, the baby may naturally think that the parents are playing games with themselves, so it is easy to have fun.
At this time, parents can ignore the baby first, let him continue to throw things, and when he throws it for a while, he will stop when he is tired of playing.
Of course, if parents have enough time, it is also recommended to participate in the baby's game.
When he shows his "skill", he must hope that parents can also experience play with him, if at this time parents can do "throw things" games with them, the baby will be very happy.
This can not only exercise the child's ability to control his body, but also promote the parent-child relationship.
It is hoped that parents will treat and deal with the "abnormal" or "destructive" behavior of children correctly, and once it is not handled properly, it will cause harm to the baby's fragile mind.
This also requires parents to learn more about parenting and understand their children's psychology, so that they can look at their children's behavior more reasonably.
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