It is normal for the elderly to get sick in their old age, and are usually taken care of by their children, but some patriarchal families feel very scary.
In order to let his son live a peaceful life, he chose to let his daughter bear most of the costs. Fan Shengmei at that time was an example of a living escape, the son did not fight, all rely on the daughter to raise.
In real life, a similar situation will occur, there was once a 70-year-old man, kneeling on the ground to beg his daughter, the reason is because his wife is sick and must raise money to see a doctor.
The old mother's practice is to force her daughter to sell the house, in fact, if there is such a child in the family, this practice is slightly understandable.
But there is another son in the family, but this son is more than 40 years old, has no money, and still manages the family to ask for money every day, the boy is very uncompetitive, and all the pressure is on the daughter.
This girl also separated from her family after graduating from high school, basically did not ask for a penny, she also suffered a lot of grievances in this family, and all the money was given to her brother.
But her mother went to her, "Save your father." The mother knelt on the floor, but the daughter felt that her heart was dripping blood, and she turned back to the mother: Why don't you let your son sell the house?
But I didn't come to enjoy the blessing, every time I saw such a thing, I felt particularly angry in my heart, why my own children were so eccentric, and most importantly, since I was born, why couldn't I be responsible for my own children?
The most terrible thing is that such parents will not realize their mistakes, but will cause more pressure on their children, and if there is no way to communicate for a long time, it will increase the contradiction between children and parents
Under normal circumstances, if you pay more attention to the boy, then the parents at home should be very spoiled by him, and they should bear the wrong time, but let him study well and indulge him.
After a long time, when the wrong behavior is forgiven, they will not feel that they have done anything wrong, and there are parents who bear it anyway. On the contrary, the daughter is not valued by the family.
Then when she grows up, she will become unusually strong and independent, but her purpose is to get out of the family and live the life she wants from now on.
Some girls may be strong enough to live a good life, but some girls may not be so strong and have not changed much in their lifetime, all in all, this practice will definitely delay the development and future of the child.
If the daughter does not get help and does the wrong behavior again and again, then for a long time, she will feel that there is no need to communicate with her parents.
Every baby wants to be recognized and supported by their parents, even if the original family is very poor, it doesn't matter, what the child needs is care and support.
If you don't get these things, you will lack love in your heart, and you may grow up to be a righteous person, but when you grow up, you will become a child with extreme inferiority in your heart.
Parents have been with their children since they were born, and their daily lives are basically living with their parents, and some parents' educational views are very interesting.
Even now has not been influenced by modern society, has been adhering to the original old concepts, but this kind of education method for children at this stage, in fact, does not have so much effect, want to let children grow better, need to make them continue to become stronger.
Parents need to be responsible for their children, or they also need to support their parents, but if each child does not receive enough respect and love, perhaps you are not willing to return to the original family that makes them have bad memories when they are old.
These 4 words are simple to say, but it is not particularly easy to deal with, the family can have no knowledge, no knowledge, but must not be too ignorant. Do not have too much disagreement with the child, and each other should become relatives, so that they can better accompany each other.
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Take the words of the world-famous physicist Yang Zhenning:
If you want your child to learn mathematics well, the first step is to first understand the basic concepts of mathematics; secondly, the origin of its basic concepts, which requires parents to accompany their children to read more mathematical books and play some mathematical games in the process of tutoring their children's mathematical problems.
However, climbing the pinnacle of mathematics is not an easy task. Yang Zhenning, a world-famous physicist, said: "I also think mathematics is very boring, but when I saw Liu Xuanyu's math book, I was very surprised. Can you still learn math like this? ”
Yang Zhenning was the greatest physicist after Newton and Einstein. The math teacher he can recognize, Liu Xuanyu, can't be wrong.
Who is Liu Xuanyu?
Compared with mathematicians such as Hua Luogeng and Chen Jingrun, Liu Xuanyu is not well-known, because his energy is mainly in mathematics teaching and the preparation of primary and secondary school textbooks.
Liu Xuanyu wrote many mathematical books in his lifetime, the most famous of which are these three:
The first book is "Mr. Ma Talks About Mathematics", which mainly talks about how to use the graphical method to solve some of the four problems of arithmetic.
The second book is "Mathematical Fun", which mainly talks about the mathematical problems encountered in daily life, we say that all things are mathematics, and learning mathematics through all things is the fastest.
The third book is The Garden of Mathematics, which is a bit more difficult, and it talks about the concepts of functions, continuums, induced functions, differentiation, integrals, and sums, as well as the basic principles of their operations. Although it is a little deep, the method of explanation is very good, and the sixth grade baby can still understand part of the content.
At the same time, take this book to the child, usually the child also tutors mathematics, sometimes feel that going to cram school is a bit boring. But when the child read this book, he found it very interesting, and he could also apply what he learned in the cram school.
I didn't feel tired after watching it for an hour! Parents: It's a rare good book!
For this set of classic mathematical science books compiled by Mr. Liu Xuanyu, parents also gave a high evaluation, parents said that "this series of books in general has a kind of follow-through temptation, from shallow to deep feeling, the language is particularly convincing"
It can be said that after reading this set of books, there is no need to worry about mathematics in elementary and junior high schools.
This set of classic mathematics series, the biggest benefit is to stimulate students' hidden enthusiasm and desire to learn, so that students love to learn mathematics, many parents said that "Mathematics Three Books" is a rare good book, can not be missed! After seeing the child will come to thank you!