Unlike the behavior and thoughts of adults, children will always do something that makes parents feel strange because of their wild thinking, and even develop some "quirks".
In the face of this performance of the child, some parents can't help but feel a little "anxious to catch fire", loudly blame the child's behavior, and sometimes once the emotions cannot be controlled, they can't help but move their hands to give the child a "painful lesson".
But you know what? It may not be necessarily a bad thing that a child has certain quirks, but it may mean that the child's IQ is higher and will be more prominent in the future.
Harvard research found that the "3 quirks" of the baby IQ is not low, the future is most likely to have an appearance
Professors at Harvard University once did a study on children's IQ, and the survey found that although some children are not very intelligent externally, and may even have some "quirks" that ordinary children do not have, their IQ is very high, which is very inconsistent with their external performance.
The first quirk is to be too focused on doing things and turning a deaf ear to all external influences
For example, when some children play with their own toys, parents often get no response when they call him, in fact, at this time, the child does not want to answer the parents or did not hear, but because he is too focused when playing with the toys, ignoring the "interference factor" of the parents' voice.
It is not difficult to think that children who do this focus are naturally more likely to succeed when they grow up, after all, strong concentration ability is often an external manifestation of children's high IQ.
The second quirk is that some children are often in a "daze"
Some parents may interrupt their children when they see him "stunned", but this practice is actually very wrong.
In the eyes of parents, the child may just be "in a daze", and he is likely to be just thinking about a problem that bothers him, if the parent interrupts, it is likely to affect the child's thinking.
So if your child is also in a daze, it is best not to interrupt him often, because the "dazed" child is likely to be smarter and has a higher IQ than the average child.
The third quirk is that it always messes up the room
Some parents may find that their children have messed up the room shortly after they have cleaned up the house, and they can't help but be very mad, in fact, this is likely to be the child's high IQ, parents should be happy.
Because a child messes up the room often means that he has more neurons in his brain, he can get more stimulation in this messy environment, thereby accelerating his brain development. Therefore, if the child often messes up his room, the parents do not have to "get angry".
In order for children to have a better "appearance", what other educational issues should parents pay attention to?
Avoid violence to educate children
Whether it is verbal violence or physical violence against children, it is not an educational method that parents should take, because the problem solving of parental violence, in addition to affecting the parent-child relationship and making children have a sense of fear for their parents, will not play the slightest benefit to the growth of children.
Pay attention to timely guidance
The growth of children is inseparable from the correct guidance of parents, in ordinary life parents need to pay attention to the child's mental state, timely give them correct guidance, help them grow better, and achieve higher achievements in the future.
Have a sweet word to say to you
In the face of some of the child's "quirks" that are different from ordinary people, parents should think more about the deep reasons, rather than just rudely correcting, because sometimes some quirks may be what makes the child different, which will help him become more "outstanding" and achieve better results in the future.
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