Although Feng Xiaoqin is not a very brilliant woman, in the play, she has many emotional experiences before and after.
And she gave birth to Feng Danian is one, Gu Lei is one, Zhan Xiang is one, did not expect to come out of a small Ding, these men all like Feng Xiaoqin, which shows that Feng Xiaoqin has her own charm.
In fact, when she first married Gu Lei, Feng Xiaoqin was not because she liked him much, she just wanted to stay in Shanghai and find a long-term meal ticket for herself.
Unexpectedly, Gu Lei suddenly died, her calculations failed, the house could not be bought, the man who raised herself was gone, not only that, she also had one more son to raise, this major change made her life into a dilemma.
Fortunately, she is strong and tenacious, not so easy to be defeated by life, in order to survive, she has to take care of her family, so that she will not sleep on the street, but also to work hard to make money, so that she is not looked down upon, all this is actually quite difficult.
Later, when she opened a nursing home with Zhan Xiang, she felt that she had found a career she loved, felt that her value had been reflected, and that people had become different.
Unexpectedly, at this time, Xiao Ding suddenly confessed to Feng Xiaoqin, and it was to send flowers and invite dinner, which not only made Feng Xiaoqin feel very surprised, but even Zhan Xiang was also very surprised, sighing that "wild lilies also have spring"!
Xiao Ding had pursued Feng Xixi before, but Feng Xixi liked Gu Xin in her heart, so she rejected him. This little Ding is also very interesting, the sister can not pursue and like the sister, but also said that looking for a wife is to find a feeling, completely disregarding Feng Xiaoqin and a son.
Needless to say, Xiao Ding and Feng Xiaoqin definitely did not play, although in Shi Yuan's view, this is another good opportunity for Feng Xiaoqin to change her fate and should be seized, but what Feng Xiaoqin is thinking at the moment is really not something that Shi Yuan can understand.
Feng Xiaoqin rejected Xiaoding's pursuit because she really had no feelings for Xiaoding, and going deeper, it also proved two things, Feng Xiaoqin, this woman, is still very not simple.
First, a change in values.
In the past, Feng Xiaoqin was a woman who had no ability to support herself and could only stay in Shanghai by marrying someone.
At that time, Feng Xiaoqin had no job, she circled around her husband's son, father-in-law and grandmother every day, the family's life chores occupied all her time and energy, saying that she was the hostess of the Gu family, in fact, she was the free nanny of the Gu family.
At that time, she ate and drank from the Gu family, lived in the Gu family's house, and did not have half a penny of income, but she still had to reach out to the Gu family to borrow money to buy a house.
The empty glove white wolf, where she came from, has always been a place where the audience feels incomprehensible.
However, since Gu Lei died, especially since she planned the nursing home with one hand and one foot, many of her concepts and ideas have been different.
In the past, she relied on Gu Lei, and now, she relies on herself;
In the past, she forced Gu Lei to become excellent, and now, she forced herself to become stronger;
In the past, she hoped that the Gu family would lend her money to buy a house, but now, she plans to earn money to buy a house herself.
All this shows that her values have been completely different, and she has changed from the previous sniffles to today's self-reliance.
Since she has the ability to support herself and her son, what need does she have to grievance herself and marry a little Ding who is similar to Gu Lei?
In Feng Xiaoqin's own words, 10 years ago she married a man, handed over her whole life to him, married a man 10 years later, and handed over her whole life to him.
Feng Xiaoqin said quite reasonable, before the young, no ability, can only rely on marriage to change their fate, now she has the ability and opportunity to start a business, but also to prove their value, she really does not need to go the old way, and then rely on men, rely on their own incense?
Therefore, rejecting Xiaoding is an important step in the successful change of Feng Xiaoqin's values, and it is not simple that her thinking can have such a big leap in a short period of time.
Second, the heart belongs.
As for the second reason why she rejected Xiaoding, perhaps the audience also knows it, that is, in the process of getting along with Zhan Xiang, she has slowly developed feelings for him, and Zhan Xiang is the same.
This feeling is not so obvious, but very hidden, when nothing happens, they may not know that this is like, both of them are not willing to face this emotion.
Zhan Xiang's admiration for Gu Qingyu seemed a little humble, and his inner attachment was the same as Gu Qingyu's attachment to Shi Yuan, very sincere, but not necessarily appropriate.
On the contrary, Feng Xiaoqin and Zhan Xiang's education level is similar, and they may be more suitable.
Moreover, the way the two of them get along is also quite interesting, the boss is not like the boss, and the employee is not like the employee.
Zhan Xiang is a rich boss, most people dare not shout at him, and in the face of Feng Xiaoqin's number of falls, he does not refute much, allowing himself to be suppressed, this is not a thing to drop a thing.
Feng Xiaoqin is not willing to accept Xiaoding's pursuit, there is definitely an element of liking Zhan Xiang in it, and when Zhan Xiang sees that Feng Xiaoqin has someone to send flowers and someone to chase, in addition to being surprised, in fact, his heart is also a bit not tasteful, and the expression cannot deceive people.
Do you like Feng Xiaoqin and Zhan Xiang coming together? Can a long-term relationship really dissolve Zhan Xiang's attachment to unrequited love for many years? Let's wait and see!