For parents, yelling may only be a matter of 1 minute, but for children, the harm can last a lifetime.
Dr. Montessori said that every character defect is caused by some kind of mistreatment experienced in early childhood.
Psychology also believes that any kind of mental illness, tracing back to the source, is a childhood trauma.
Children who have long lived under the "roar" education are like the little penguin in the classic German picture book "The Mother Who Yells All The Time".
It is frightened by the roar of its parents, and its heart is full of fear and insecurity, although it wants to open its mouth to express its voice and needs, but it is worried that no one will listen.
Over time, you can only avoid harm by "not talking".
Those children who do not speak after being yelled at are prone to form these kinds of personalities:
Indecisive and unconfident;
Cowardly, unsinkable;
Withdrawn personality, not good at communicating and handling interpersonal relationships.
More importantly, these children are generally insecure, have an instinctive rejection of family affection, and do not know how to get along with their families in the parent-child relationship.