Text: Guardian of emotions
Use the simplest words to write about the warmth and cold of the world and heal the lonely heart.
As the saying goes, "The human heart is separated from the belly." ”
In this world, there are many people like this: the face is a set, the back is a set, without deep understanding of what a person's heart is thinking.
To be honest, if what a person does is not good for you, then your future path will experience many bumps.
Therefore, be careful when getting along with people, and if you can't praise you twice, you will feel that he appreciates you, regards you as a friend, and will treat you sincerely.
As long as you get a little closer and the contact is frequent, you have to observe carefully, you can't just look at the surface, you can't completely trust the other party when you can't read each other.
The person you think can be handed over may not be able to be paid, or maybe he is just a passer-by in life.
Looking at the wrong person, you can bring great harm to yourself, because such a person may use various means to use you to get more.
And you, you will lose a lot, may never be able to turn over.
As the saying goes, "Friends are in the fine, not in the many." This means being rational at all times, and not thinking that multiple friends can go one more way.
Some people you meet, the closer you are, the more unfavorable it is to you, and it is necessary to cut off in time to reduce losses.
No matter what you are going through, you have to understand that some people are not worthy of deep friendship, what they do will hurt you, and you should leave early.
Ungrateful, people who don't know how to be grateful
Whether it is between relatives or friends, as long as you want to have more intersection, you must treat it sincerely, do not play with each other's feelings, rather than play tricks behind your back.
When one person encounters something, someone needs to help, and the other person needs to take the initiative to appear, rather than ignoring it, when nothing happens.
Since they have deep friendships and become their own people, they should support each other, help each other at critical moments, and absolutely cannot watch each other's jokes, and then fall into the well.
You think of a person as a friend, you can give up something for him, but he can't do it, it seems extra selfish, then you don't treat him like this.
Not only have they not thanked you for your help, but they also want to hurt you, and it is clear that it is not worth your efforts to spend with him.
When you meet this kind of person, you don't have to think that he will correct it and become your friend, because you can't change such a person, and more contact will only waste time and energy.
There is no sense of responsibility, people who shirk responsibility
In fact, most of the people who appear next to you will not be your friends.
They may have met you once, had no communication, may have talked about something, and then slowly lost contact and forgot each other's names.
True friends are difficult to meet, rarely quarrel, have unchanged feelings for many years, and can meet very few at any time.
This shows that it is not possible to be friends with someone who you can contact a few more times, and to be present at the time when you are most helpless and help you solve difficult problems.
The people you meet always want to step back, leave their own affairs to others, try not to participate in other people's things, and like to find a lot of reasons, you have to pay attention.
He has no sense of responsibility and has never realized what his problem is, which shows that he cannot think from your point of view, and he will not consider your feelings.
Getting along with him often feels uncomfortable, which will delay many things and affect development, so if you break it early, you should not know it, and go your own way in the future.
There are two faces, bullying soft and afraid of hard people
There is a problem with character, absolutely can not be deep friendship, two people should keep a distance, like just know, have not said a few times, and have not worked together.
He has a lot of careful thinking, he does not treat all people equally, different people get along in different ways, and he shows that he will not respect everyone, which has been hated by many people.
Seeing the strong, liking to sneak and pat horses, seeing the weak, and wanting to step on the soles of their feet, then this way may provoke many people, and the next life will be difficult to walk.
When you want to truly become friends with a person, see what kind of person he really is, and if he is weak and afraid of hard, don't think about being friends with him.
Because of being caught in the weakness of such a person, your life is not so good, most of the time you are distracted, you can't progress at all, you can't achieve achievements.
summary:
It is impossible for everyone to be your friend, to go through the storm with you, and years later he will still be by your side, recalling what happened over the years.
You have to understand that it is rare for someone who can share the same frequency with you and treat you with sincerity, and cannot hurt you for their own benefit and push you into the abyss.
Most people don't want you to be well and are trying to get you back.
When dealing with people, you must think about these problems, know how to test people's hearts, but also know how to treat people who are sincere with you, and how to keep a distance from people who cannot be deeply friends.
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Author: A senior mentor who accompanies books, writes for fun, freelance writer, and helps countless people get out of emotional difficulties.