What determines a child's fate, the answer is your temper. Maybe you will cough and be so dismissive of this tone, maybe you will be confused and think that I am making a mistake.
Well, now Matt teacher to expound this point of view, and let us experience and reflect together.
Li Meijin, a professor of juvenile delinquency psychology at the Public Security University, said in a speech, "Once the personality is formed, it is difficult to change, there is a critical period in the formation process, many parents often ignore this critical period, what is the result, verifies the famous saying, character determines fate." ”
How to understand it? In the process of children's growth, the way parents educate their children will determine the child's personality, in other words, it is the parents' temperament that educates their children, determines the child's attitude towards people, and ultimately affects the child's fate.
Then let's see what kind of temperamental parents will educate what kind of children.
First, grumpy parents raise children who will only use violence to solve problems.
Sometimes, Mr. Matt especially does not understand those road rage drivers, two people can fight for a little friction, turning a simple traffic accident into a criminal case.
There used to be a very hot Internet word that was "I have a violent temper." "It sounds like it's funny, but in family education, if the father or mother uses this kind of temper to raise the child, or the child learns from the parents is violence, and a person who will only use violence to solve the problem is too terrible."
Either the child becomes timid and cowardly, and such a child will not have much success when he grows up.
Gentle parents cultivate children with high emotional intelligence.
Speak softly, encounter things are not impatient, will not easily lose their temper, can control their emotions, such parents in the education of children, the choice of methods are mostly "free range", not really do not care, but rely on example, parents usually treat people and things in the way to become a child imitation model, so that children from a young age emotional intelligence is high.
Third, rude parents raise children who lack parenting.
Education and parenting have nothing to do with it, a person can have no education, but can not be uneducated, the same, highly educated people do not mean that they can raise educated children, seemingly polite, can quarrel, like a shrew, such parents have more knowledge, must be an education failure.
Fourth, gentle parents raise children who are eager to learn Kochi.
Saying that a person is very elegant, most of the meanings in the words refer to that this must be very cultured, very knowledgeable, such parents like to read, the general learning atmosphere at home is relatively strong, so, the same will affect the child, in such an atmosphere, not easy to learn is strange.
Fifth, easy-going parents raise cheerful and sunny children.
Easy-going not only represents a person's temper, but also represents an attitude towards life, with the encounter, contented and happy, such a person should be happy every day, such a parent with a large child full of sunshine every day, even when encountering difficulties and setbacks, will also use an optimistic attitude to face, cheerful children's luck is generally not bad.
Temper determines character, character determines destiny, not only determines your own destiny, but also affects the fate of the next generation, if you really don't believe it, you can look at your previous generation, what their personality has affected your education, or you can understand.
If you believe this, then you must also understand how to do it. Don't let your child lose in your bad temper.
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Take the words of the world-famous physicist Yang Zhenning:
If you want your child to learn mathematics well, the first step is to first understand the basic concepts of mathematics; secondly, the origin of its basic concepts, which requires parents to accompany their children to read more mathematical books and play some mathematical games in the process of tutoring their children's mathematical problems.
However, climbing the pinnacle of mathematics is not an easy task. Yang Zhenning, a world-famous physicist, said: "I also think mathematics is very boring, but when I saw Liu Xuanyu's math book, I was very surprised. Can you still learn math like this? ”
Yang Zhenning was the greatest physicist after Newton and Einstein. The math teacher he can recognize, Liu Xuanyu, can't be wrong.
Who is Liu Xuanyu?
Compared with mathematicians such as Hua Luogeng and Chen Jingrun, Liu Xuanyu is not well-known, because his energy is mainly in mathematics teaching and the preparation of primary and secondary school textbooks.
Liu Xuanyu wrote many mathematical books in his lifetime, the most famous of which are these three:
The first book is "Mr. Ma Talks About Mathematics", which mainly talks about how to use the graphical method to solve some of the four problems of arithmetic
The second book is "Mathematical Fun", which mainly talks about the mathematical problems encountered in daily life, we say that all things are mathematics, and learning mathematics through all things is the fastest.
The third book is The Garden of Mathematics, which is a bit more difficult, and it talks about the concepts of functions, continuums, induced functions, differentiation, integrals, and sums, as well as the basic principles of their operations. Although it is a little deep, the method of explanation is very good, and the sixth grade baby can still understand part of the content.
At the same time, take this book to the child, usually the child also tutors mathematics, sometimes feel that going to cram school is a bit boring. But when the child read this book, he found it very interesting, and he could also apply what he learned in the cram school.
I didn't feel tired after watching it for an hour! Parents: It's a rare good book!
For this set of classic mathematical science books compiled by Mr. Liu Xuanyu, parents also gave a high evaluation, parents said that "this series of books in general has a kind of follow-through temptation, from shallow to deep feeling, the language is particularly convincing"
It can be said that after reading this set of books, there is no need to worry about mathematics in elementary and junior high schools.
This set of classic mathematics series, the biggest benefit is to stimulate students' hidden enthusiasm and desire to learn, so that students love to learn mathematics, many parents said that "Mathematics Three Books" is a rare good book, can not be missed!