As the saying goes, "a soldier who does not want to be a general is not a good soldier", and some people have derived another sentence from this, "A woman who does not want to be a general is not a good woman.".
However, there are only so many generals, not every soldier can eventually become a general, and although many soldiers have the ideal of being a general in their hearts, they can also recognize the reality and stick to their posts.
But many women do not have the consciousness of the general's wife, 1,000 people crossed the canoe bridge, there is a lucky one who passed, they all feel that they will be the one who will go to the end, but they rarely think about what kind of life they should go to when they fall halfway.
Recently, a beautiful woman posted a photo of her boyfriend in a short video, and the result was ridiculed by a group of female netizens, not knowing that the real lack of vision is herself.
The beauty of the boyfriend photo with light makeup, looks very beautiful, even if there is no makeup, the plain face should not be too bad, in this era of face to paste a layer of foundation, the girl is definitely a beauty.
If you make up thick and colorful, it is not much worse than those who go to the hospital to "decorate", and such a beautiful woman does not fish, takes the initiative to make her boyfriend public, and has defeated many women of the same age.
I thought that such a beautiful woman should be looking for a big handsome guy, or like in that kind of romance drama, the male protagonist is a rich man's brother, and he is young and promising in his own business.
However, in fact, this beautiful woman's boyfriend is a mediocre boy, looking at the photo is no different from that of an ordinary high school student, thin and tall and a little black.
Many netizens said that the two look a bit like lovers, but like brothers and sisters, if the girl puts on makeup to maturity, saying that the two are mother and son, it is estimated that no one doubts.
In fact, the above comments are still relatively objective, just to explain their own views, but some girlfriends' comments are very extreme.
Some female netizens said that the beautiful woman is also playing with the boy, after all, the boy looks too ugly, and the two stand together at all.
There are also people who think that the boy's family may be very rich, this beautiful woman is looking at the money in the man's family, and some people are even more blunt to accuse this beautiful woman of being blind.
It is hard to imagine that everyone is a stranger who has never met, and someone would speculate with such malice on others, or even blatantly denigrate others.
Many male netizens are also ridiculing, more male netizens are envious of this buddy, but many female netizens who are also women, make crazy accusations and insults against this beautiful woman, and even attack the boyfriend of the beautiful woman.
The personality of the beautiful woman is also very good, and did not spray with these female netizens, but re-sent a video, with their own practical actions to hit the face of many female netizens.
Beauty said that the photo she posted before was a photo of her boyfriend just chasing herself, and it looked really ugly at that time, and even felt like a high school student.
Then the beauty posted another photo, this is a photo of the boyfriend and himself after a period of love, the person seems to be still that person, but the temperament has undergone earth-shaking changes, there is still the taste of the male protagonist of the urban romance drama.
Beauty said that in fact, many boys who look ordinary on the outside just did not spend time to dress themselves, if you want to find a good boy and have a good relationship, then the first step is to have a correct love value.
Now many girls' requirements for boys are rich and handsome, which is actually unrealistic, to learn to recognize reality, but also to learn to see themselves.
Girls should put the point of affection for boys on: real respect for women, strong learning ability, good hands-on ability, and ability to keep promises.
Have a clear plan and goal for their own life, have requirements for their personal life, are not restricted and manipulated by the original family, and are willing to take all the growth of the woman and other personal qualities.
Instead of putting it on: handsome, having a few dollars in hand, being tolerant of oneself without a bottom line, providing yourself with a nanny-style emotional value experience, opening your mouth to talk, eating, drinking and having fun and other characteristics.
Now why many girls can't find a partner, and even slowly become an older leftover woman, some people say that they don't want to get married, and it is good to live alone.
Of course, there are such people, but there are a few people who really don't want to get married, and many people want to have a beautiful love in their hearts, but because they are too selfish, they don't want to pay and just want to pick the fruits of victory, they can't see themselves clearly, and finally they leave themselves behind.
Whether she is really like this, or in order to suck powder, but such a beautiful beauty of sanguanzheng is really like a beacon in this impetuous era.
Do you know why the ancients said that marrying a wife is not virtuous and ruining three generations?
Because a good woman can really make a good man, and vice versa, beautiful love is a two-way street, and the person who really loves you will make you more excellent.