01
I have seen such a sentence: "Learn not to face, life is much better." ”
Do you feel the same way? If a person dies to face the guilt, if you think backwards, you will find that the mood is much better, and when interacting with people, you don't care about the high and low levels, and you can even do whatever you want.
In fact, the really powerful people want faces, and they will find ways to "earn face" for themselves.
Those who have no money, no power, and are still poor, even if they throw both sides on the ground, will not live a happy life. Really don't be seduced by "chicken soup" anymore.
02
Make money fiercely, and have "confidence" on your face.
The face of adults is given by money. If you are too poor to open the pot, then everywhere you go, you will be looked down upon.
One of my cousins, in his forties, still lives in a mud-brick house in a mountain nest and hasn't found a girlfriend. Every New Year's Day, when relatives gathered, he sat carefully in the corner, afraid that everyone would laugh at him.
Once, his aunt introduced him to the object. The other person is a divorced woman with children.
After they met, my cousin's face was immediately red to the base of his neck. Because although the woman is divorced, she dresses very foreignly and does not match the image of her cousin.
In December last year, I suddenly received news that my cousin was living in a new house. Even more gratifying, he was about to get married.
As the saying goes, "Plant a plane tree and attract a phoenix." ”
If a person does not make money fiercely, but instead relies on eating in other people's homes every day and bragging about himself everywhere, he will really lose face.
People with backbones will find ways to "paste gold" on their faces.
In this life, only money can relieve worries.
03
Compete for high positions, there is a "brilliance" on the face.
People go high, water flows low.
If a person is satisfied with the status quo and always breaks the can, it becomes a second-rate person who does not have a face.
In the workplace, employees who do not want to be leaders are not good employees; in the business world, bosses who do not want to be big and strong are not really men.
In "The Surprise of the First Shooting", there is a man named Zhang Youqian, who is full of poetry and books, but his family is very poor. My father lived by helping local officials write paperwork.
Zhang Youqian's neighbor has a daughter, Luo Xixi. They grew up together, read together, and were considered green plum bamboo horses.
In order to promote the fate, the Zhang family invited the matchmaker to go to the Luo family to say goodbye. The Luo family insisted: "If Zhang Youqian can go to high school in one fell swoop, he will agree to this marriage." ”
Suddenly, after three or four years, Zhang Youqian ushered in an opportunity for a scientific expedition. At the same time, the Luo family married a wealthy merchant surnamed Xin and received a dowry.
Just a few months before Luo Xixi's marriage, the official family released the list, and Zhang Youqian won the third place. Under the witness of Taishou, the Luo family returned the dowry to the Xin family, and finally promoted the affair between the Zhang and Luo families.
A man, if he has been doing nothing all his life, let alone looked down upon by outsiders, even his parents and lovers will be disgusted. If a woman has not been seeking progress, she may also be swept out of the house by her in-laws.
People who can mix better and better will not stay in a certain place all the time, but insist on going up. Even if there is no way to become a high-ranking official, at least they will find a way to jump ship to a unit with better treatment, which is considered "high".
04
Learn to be grateful with a "temperature" on your face.
The Northern Qi Law writes about the "Ten Grave Sins": rebellion, great rebellion, rebellion, surrender, rebellion, disobedience, dishonesty, disrespect, filial piety, injustice, and civil strife.
Not filial piety to parents and doing great rebellious things are felonies.
In real society, a person who does not filial piety to his parents, although he has not been severely attacked, his reputation will be very bad, and he will not go well in anything he does.
A friend of mine, who is a supervisor in a factory, earns more than 20,000 yuan a month. At the end of the month, he gave his parents in the countryside two hundred dollars.
Once, the factory organized senior management to volunteer and go to the countryside to help the lonely elderly.
The friend took out the list of visits and looked at them. Unexpectedly, his parents were also on the list. Suddenly, he was ashamed and embarrassed, and his face had no place to put it.
Why do many people, go to the mahjong hall, lose thousands of dollars, it doesn't matter, give their parents a hundred or two hundred dollars, but they are grumpy? Why give good feelings to outsiders, but give emotions to parents?
To be a human being, you cannot put the cart before the horse. Grateful to those who have helped themselves, so that they can live with confidence.
Accepted the help, but not grateful, like a thief, to be a thief with a weak heart.
No matter how difficult life is, as long as you help other people's ideas, you will definitely be able to do it. People who don't have a penny can also help sweep the streets, lift up the elderly who have fallen, and make a phone call to greet relatives in the distance. Helping people, the face is warm, like a spring breeze.
05
Tear up the face, there is "justice" on the face.
There is a line in the TV series "Please Answer 1988": "People really become stronger, not because they guard their self-esteem, but when they put aside their self-esteem." ”
Truly powerful people, with great wisdom that can flex and stretch, no matter what the present situation is, they will not lose the aura.
When encountering a villain, when he turns his face, the villain will be afraid and dare not approach; when he encounters the opportunity to make money, hide his face, bury his head in hard work, and the money will go into his pocket.
If a person tears his face in order to start a business and maintain social justice, then he will be sought after.
Whether a person has a face or not is not a good look, but whether he has education in his bones, whether he has guided the positive energy of society, and whether he has made a career.
People at different levels have different views on "face". The higher the status, the more able to lower the posture; the more money people, the more they know how to "get rich in a muffled voice"; the more wisdom people, the more they will ask others for advice.
Those who cling to their faces and turn their faces at every turn are actually poor in their hearts, just by making unreasonable trouble, so that others can notice themselves.
Tearing your face is actually the wisdom of being a human being, and you need to know it as soon as possible.
06
There is a saying that goes: "Don't lose for the sake of face." ”
Many people treat face as a fig leaf, do very cheap things for face, and do not see through the value of face, nor do they know that face is based on the foundation of the inside.
From now on, control your face in your own hands, find your own way in a mixed society, and live as a clear stream.
Author: Cloth coarse food.
Follow my words and go into your heart.
The illustrations in this article come from the Internet.