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The couple has been married for more than 10 years, has a son, the husband is currently unemployed at home, there is no job, the wife works alone, the money earned to maintain the family life, but also to support the cost of raising a son alone, the pressure is quite large.
Because the husband has long expected no work at home, the wife is now angry when she sees her husband, sometimes the son's homework is not completed, the wife will spread this gas to the son, not long ago, because the son did not complete the homework, the wife threw the chopsticks on the son's head in anger, and the sharp part after the chopsticks were broken scratched the son's head, and the child's head shed a lot of blood.
At that time, the wife also panicked, so she asked her husband to get gauze and wipes to wipe, the couple wiped the blood on the son's head while teaching the son to obey, the child lay on the side of the sofa crying, the result of wiping, the wife suddenly two slaps to the son's face.
The husband was particularly angry when he saw this scene, his own child had been injured, and he also beat him, and in pain, the husband also did something to his wife, and beat his wife's eyes to a circle of blue and swollen.
The wife told the mediator: "The conflict in our family was mainly caused by my husband's not working, he is not only not working now, the credit card is always overdrafted, and I have paid him several times." ”
The mediator saw the dark blue on his wife's face and asked, "Is this your husband's beating?" ”
The wife nodded: "I came back from work that night and asked my son if his homework was completed?" My son said that the classwork was completed, and the homework at home did not move, I said what are you doing at home? Then I got angry, I threw chopsticks on my son's head, at that time my son's head was bleeding, when my husband wiped the blood for my son, the more I thought about it, the more angry I became, I said that he was a big man, and he didn't go out to work, and he didn't care about the children, what was the use, so he quarreled, and then my husband did something to me. ”
After understanding the basic situation, the wife returned home with the mediator, the husband was not in a good mood, he told the mediator, "A lot of contradictions are accumulated over time, that day she came home from work, the mood may not be very good, the child is not obedient, did not complete the homework, she threw the chopsticks on the son's head, the son's head bled, and then she may also realize that she was heavy, let me take gauze and wipes to clean the wound for the son, when I treated the wound for the son, she slapped the son twice. At that time, my heart was on fire. ”
"As a man, I don't make much money financially, which makes me feel very guilty, and as a result, she quarreled with me in front of her son, saying that I didn't have a job, and I didn't respect me at all, and then I beat her in a hurry." 」
The two sides explained the ins and outs clearly, and the husband and wife expressed their respective pains. The husband believes that after more than ten years of marriage, he has been living under the pressure of his wife, who not only does not respect himself, but also does not respect his parents.
Husband: "My mother had a car accident some time ago, cerebral hemorrhage in the intensive care unit for more than ten days, let her go to serve my mother, she went to see once, my parents have anything to be sorry for her?" ”
Referring to this matter, the wife is also full of grievances: "Since the birth of my son, basically I have brought up with one hand, my husband and in-laws rarely help with children, and now he has no job, the pressure is on me, I am really tired to support this family alone." ”
Mediation here, the wife proposed to be separated from the husband for a period of time, both sides adjusted, calm down, but the husband's mood fluctuated greatly, "calm down, calm down, why say separate?" It's not about to get a divorce! ”
After a few hours of mediation, the husband promised that the mediator would find a job before the next month, whether the job was satisfactory or not, at least first to solve the problem of food and clothing, the wife made a request, that is, no matter what happened in the future, the husband could no longer beat himself, the husband made a commitment in front of the camera, and the couple finally untied the knot.
A few days after the end of the mediation, the mediator made a return visit, the father of the man said that the son is now driving a taxi, and the relationship with the daughter-in-law has eased, the woman said that she and the son are getting along very well now, every night after returning home from work to check the completion of the son's homework, if not completed, make up for it, the family will go out for a walk after dinner.
The husband at the mediation scene said a sentence that made me feel creepy, "You let your son take off his clothes in front of the camera and see what's going on!" ”
It turns out that not only the wife will beat the son, the husband will sometimes beat the son, although it will be painful after the beating, but the beating is the beating, I can only say that the son born in this family is very pitiful, and has become the punching bag of the parents.
Why would a mediator ask her husband to go out and find a job? Because the father is the son's role model, if the son knows that the father works hard for him to study, he may also change his personality and become more obedient.
The wife's heart is actually a small woman, she does not want to suppress her husband, form a relationship like a leader and a subordinate, nor does she want to order her husband, she just hopes that her husband can become the pillar of the family.
I think the life of husband and wife is actually quite realistic, the party with poor ability must obey the party with strong ability, the husband goes out to find a job, no matter how much income, at least at home to have the confidence to talk to the wife, not necessarily not a good thing.
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