More and more women are choosing caesarean sections for fear of a vaginal birth.
If the mother-to-be asks sugar mother, is there anything worse in the delivery room than having a baby? Sugar Mom sincerely suggests: "There may be"!
Some of the mothers recalled their own childbirth experience and couldn't help but shiver. In fact, they can't remember what kind of pain it is during finger opening and childbirth, but they are deeply impressed by the scene in the delivery room, and even leave a psychological shadow.
The pregnant woman with the second child insisted on caesarean section, saying that there was a psychological shadow on what the doctor said
When sugar mother brushed the circle of friends, she saw that Xiaoling, the second pregnant mother, had some "fear of birth". She said that she would never forget what the doctor said, leaving a "psychological shadow".
Xiaoling's first child was a normal birth, and there was a doctor in charge of delivery in the delivery room, and there were several interns standing next to her. Just as she was trying to cooperate, the doctor said: "A few of you come and see", and then the interns gathered around and stared at Xiao Lingshengwa.
Xiao Ling belongs to a more timid and shy personality, and the doctor's move scared her to force. Originally full of courage and confidence to have a smooth delivery, unexpectedly, the doctor's words scared her to want to "caesarean section".
After asking the intern to recuse himself, he struggled to complete the task of having a baby. Until now, Xiaoling remembered the doctor's words, and she would still be reflexively nervous.
There is not only one mother who is frightened by the doctor, Xiaoling, but it may just be the words blurted out by the doctor in the delivery room, which will leave a shadow on the psychology of the mother.
When giving birth to a baby, you may be frightened by these words, and the pregnant mother is mentally prepared
In fact, when a woman gives birth, the doctor is very careful to speak, because they must ensure that the mother's mood is stable in order to make the delivery smooth. But childbirth is a complicated process, when encountering problems, the doctor does not have time to think too much, blurted out some words, the doctor feels nothing, but the mother feels terrible.
1) It's time to "prepare the skin"
Sugar Mom's girlfriend once described her mood when preparing the skin, and she felt like a pig that had been "shaved" on the board, embarrassed and scared.
Even if I had anticipated this situation before going to the hospital, I would still feel uncomfortable when I heard the doctor say the word "skin preparation" in the delivery room. Feeling scared but unable to refuse, as embarrassing as meeting a male doctor.
2) Defecating, which was great
Some people may ask, shouldn't it be happy to be exaggerated? Not really! Many pregnant women, when they hear this from the doctor, are eager to find a seam to drill into.
Where is defecation worthy of praise? Not only will it affect its own image, but it will also worry about provoking doctors to dislike it. The baby didn't want to be born, just wanted to escape as soon as possible.
3) Give her oxygen
During the normal delivery process, the mother may not feel uncomfortable, but the doctor suddenly said to the midwife next to her: "Give her oxygen."
As soon as this sentence is said, it will make the atmosphere in the delivery room suddenly become tense, so that the mother mistakenly thinks that she and the baby are in danger, and if there is a family to accompany the birth, it may be more panicked, in fact, the truth is not so terrible.
4) You need to cut laterally
According to statistics, about 80% of pregnant women in China. It is not possible to avoid experiencing lateral incision, and if it is a first-time woman, the lateral incision rate is higher.
Expectant mothers who want to give birth smoothly, the biggest wish is that they can "no tears and no side cuts", but this probability is relatively small, and they cannot hold a fluke mentality.
Sugar mother understands the mother's mood very well, after all, it is a knife edge, and even stronger pregnant women will be afraid. Therefore, expectant mothers should be mentally prepared so that they will not collapse in the delivery room.
You don't have to leave a psychological shadow because the doctor blurted out the words
Expectant mothers who are still pregnant, seeing the above words, are they starting to be afraid? Sugar Mom tip, don't worry at all, because the doctor said these words, it is helpful for us to give birth.
The matter of skin preparation, both vaginal delivery and caesarean section can not be avoided: the purpose of skin preparation is to reduce the breeding of bacteria, facilitate doctors to observe the birth canal of women, and make childbirth smoother and safer. Therefore, expectant mothers who are still pregnant should be mentally prepared not to change the way of childbirth because of this condition.
When the baby comes out, the doctor will not be angry: the mother's bowel movements during the normal birth are normal, the doctor has become accustomed to it, and more importantly, there is a stool that proves that the mother's force is correct, and the delivery process will be smoother.
Expectant mothers should not have psychological burdens, and when they arrive at the delivery room, they should not exert force because they are afraid of defecation, otherwise they will drag down the delivery speed, and they and the baby are dangerous.
Lateral incision is to prevent the woman from tearing: even if there is no lateral incision, there is a probability that a tear will occur during the normal delivery, and the expectant mother should know a truth.
The lateral cut is smaller and more regular than the torn wound, but it will reduce the harm to the woman, so there is no need to resist.
Oxygen inhalation does not mean that the situation is critical: if it is only to give oxygen to the mother, on the one hand, it is to see that the mother consumes a lot of physical strength and energy, and oxygen is conducive to restoring physical strength, and it is also to deliver more oxygen to the fetus. Expectant mothers are mentally prepared to hear the doctor in the delivery room say "oxygen" don't be afraid.
Don't want to leave a psychological shadow in the delivery room, you can do this
During childbirth, the mother's emotions will affect her own feelings and the progress of childbirth, do not want to leave a psychological shadow, in addition to the above doctors may say, be mentally prepared, but also remember to do so.
First of all, physical discomfort must be said in time. Don't be reckless in the delivery room, some physical problems doctors can't see with the naked eye.
For example, if the feeling of falling in the stomach is particularly strong, the vision becomes blurred or there is a feeling of nausea, etc., it is necessary to give feedback to the doctor in time so that it can be solved.
Otherwise, when the situation becomes more serious, the mother and the baby are in danger, and the process of treatment is more likely to leave a psychological shadow.
Second, you can let your family accompany the birth. A person in the delivery room struggles alone, and the family is accompanied by the heart, and will not be easily frightened by various emergencies.
However, the family should pay attention to not asking too many irrelevant things to avoid distracting the doctor and affecting the progress of childbirth.
Candy Mother's Heart:
Childbirth is a special memory of women's lives, and expectant mothers should prepare more to make this memory more warm and beautiful.
【Today's topic】Which sentence did you remember from the doctor? Have you left a psychological shadow?