How do you tell if a person likes you or not?

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Author: Seven Seven

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Once in the middle of the night three more received a call from the little sister Ke'er crying, his boyfriend behind his back and several girls at the same time ambiguous, never thought of his own so wholeheartedly loved the man, the original to himself is full of hypocrisy, this is the network is familiar with the "big pig's hoof", but also the so-called "big turnip".

In fact, more than Ke'er's boyfriend, in real life we can often find that men like this "big pig's trotter", whether they already have a girlfriend or another half, it is always difficult to feel satisfied inside, so they always want to contact and interact with different opposite sexes, always like to do things that "eat in the bowl and look at the pot", are not responsible enough for the other half they originally have, are not loyal and persistent enough to the feelings they originally have, always like to go around and stir up trouble, and are ambiguous with many opposite sexes.

But really in the world of emotions, not only the male friends of the flower heart exist, there are many people with the same flower heart in the female friends, and usually like this kind of "flower heart" women, and those "flower heart men" are the same, the heart is always difficult to feel satisfied, it is difficult to love a person wholeheartedly, unwilling to keep a love for a long time, and not willing to stay by the side of a person forever, always want to experience more differences, Always want to experience more of the colorful world of the opposite sex, always want to experience more different feelings.

And once a man encounters such a flowery woman, the more he pays to the woman, the more he loves the woman, and often in the end, the more vulnerable he is to emotional hurt, and the more likely he is to be abandoned by the other party. After all, human nature is very difficult to change, and it is very difficult for a woman like this to change, and it is difficult to achieve convergence.

Speaking of which, in the process of intersex interaction, what is each of us most afraid of encountering in our hearts? Nothing is the fear that he is obsessed with being let down by others, afraid that he will meet a "object" that is not a good person, but a flower heart, and then he loves but cannot, and he can never let go of the other party in his heart, so the whole person is tortured and miserable.

In fact, in the relationship, not only women will worry about being afraid of meeting the "man with the heart", but also men will also worry about being afraid of meeting the "woman with the heart of the flower", and in this kind of thing of the heart of the flower, many women look very virtuous and virtuous, very ladylike and simple, but in fact, they are ambiguous with several men at the same time.

Therefore, male friends should also learn how to distinguish whether a woman spends her heart, and if you want to judge whether a woman spends her heart, it is to see if she has these performances, usually women like this often have the following 4 very obvious performances.

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First: the overtures and gifts to friends of the opposite sex, all women who come and do not refuse;

Generally speaking, in real life, when a woman does not like a man, is not interested in men, and has no interest in men, even if men show kindness to themselves and give themselves gifts or surprises, women will often politely and politely reject each other, and will not casually accept gifts or surprises that they do not like men to send.

After all, for women, like is to like, dislike is not to like, the two are very different, it can be said that love and hate are very clear, but also worried about letting the other party misunderstand their feelings, more afraid that other people around them will misunderstand two people, damage their reputation.

And like those more flowery women, they will choose to accept all the overtures and flattery of all the friends of the opposite sex around them, and they will also be very happy to accept the gifts and surprises given to themselves by friends of the opposite sex, in the view of this flower-hearted woman, the more the opposite sex likes themselves, the more attractive they are, the more the opposite sex shows themselves, sending gifts and surprises to themselves, the more they have a sense of achievement in their hearts.

In the final analysis, the woman who spends her heart likes the feeling of being surrounded by a lot of the opposite sex, the feeling of being chased by a lot of the opposite sex, but they will not sincerely like which man emotionally, and at the same time, they will not really reject which man.

Second: very afraid of being lonely and lonely, always need someone to accompany their women;

You should know that in the feelings, those who often treat feelings more seriously and cautiously, treat men more exclusively, whether they are single or have a partner, no matter how lonely they are now, or how lonely they are, they will choose a person to bear silently, they can be alone, not afraid of loneliness.

Because this kind of single-minded woman, do not want to trouble people they do not like, afraid that their behavior will be misunderstood by the other party, do not want to disturb other friends around, the heart is more powerful and content, they will feel that people always have to experience loneliness, always feel that they are usually lonely and lonely, lonely and lonely to become accustomed, there is no big deal, anyway, it is good to stay alone.

On the contrary, those women who treat feelings are different, they are very afraid of loneliness, do not want to stay alone, always need someone to accompany themselves, even if it is only a day, half a day, or even just a few minutes, they still can't stand it, they will also find ways to find someone to accompany themselves.

If this man is not free, then he will find another man, if this man does not care about himself, then he will find another man, anyway, the woman who spends her heart, does not care which man accompanies her next to her, as long as there is someone around her to accompany her, as long as she does not feel lonely and lonely in her heart.

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Third: women who have very few same-sex friends but many friends of the opposite sex;

Those women who spend their hearts, often in real life, do not like to play with same-sex friends, do not like to contact with same-sex friends, but have close contact with friends of the opposite sex, that is, there are very few same-sex friends in the circle of friends, but there are many friends of the opposite sex, and most of the contacts in the address book are the contact information of friends of the opposite sex.

Because those women with a more stable and reliable personality, usually like to play with same-sex friends in their daily lives, and also like to interact with same-sex friends, but they will have less contact with friends of the opposite sex, and even maintain a proper distance, they will only go closer to the opposite sex they like, and will come closer.

Women who can treat emotional flowers will not like same-sex friends, and will also reject same-sex friends, feeling that it is a waste of their time and energy to interact with same-sex friends and play with same-sex friends.

Therefore, it often leads to the fact that there are no same-sex friends in a woman's circle of friends, but she always likes to have close contact with many friends of the opposite sex, and always likes to be overactive in the circle of the opposite sex. Especially in ordinary life, whenever this kind of flower-hearted woman is free, women are always easy to be stuck in the opposite sex pile, especially enthusiastic about friends of the opposite sex, especially open to friends of the opposite sex, and always look for various opportunities around to meet more friends of the opposite sex.

Usually women like this kind of flower, whether it is a social software address book in the mobile phone, or a chat history, are basically all heterosexual friends, or heterosexual friends account for the majority.

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Fourth: a woman who treats feelings as a child's play and always holds a playful attitude;

Those women who spend their hearts may be very good at hiding themselves, on the surface may look very well-behaved, harmless to people and animals, the attitude towards feelings is very serious and single-minded, will not treat feelings casually, will not cheat on someone's feelings, and will not treat feelings as a child's play, always holding a playful attitude.

However, in fact, it is just the disguise of the flower heart women, under their innocent and simple, harmless expressions, often do not take a man's feelings seriously, but also hide a heart that does not believe in love, whenever there is a person of the opposite sex around to confess love to themselves, say "like themselves", want to be with themselves.

They often do not care, they will also scorn, and even trample on men's sincerity, feeling that men's love for themselves is fake, not worth believing in themselves, and even less worthy of their own trust.

Because in the heart of a woman with a heart, feelings are just child's play, never need to be too serious, there is no need to take it seriously, as long as you have fun, there is no need to be real with men, there is no need to talk to men about it, to put it bluntly, there is no future after two people, and there is no need to rise to say that two people will accompany each other for a lifetime, never separated.

Tennyson once wrote such a sentence: As long as men and women truly love each other, even if they do not become dependents in the end, they are still sweet.

All in all, in the relationship, those women who spend their hearts for people and treat their feelings, their attitude towards feelings is never serious, and they are never willing to love a person and take a feeling seriously.

At the same time, he is also very afraid of loneliness and loneliness, always needs someone to accompany him, and will not refuse any friends of the opposite sex around him to show his kindness, and will only treat feelings as a child's play with an attitude of play. So men should know that most women like this are born like this, they will not change because of you, and they will not easily accept the good.

If a man is unfortunate enough to meet, it is best to know how to discern and not to be too careless. Because when you meet a woman who treats feelings with affection, if you are serious and serious, it means "losing".

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