The love run-in period is a necessary stage for everyone to fall in love, and it is a time when the feelings of two people are easily contradictory. So how should couples survive the run-in period? Share 4 tips Let's take a look at it together!
The Cold War cannot be overnight
Two people can't spend the night with anger when they quarrel, and the Cold War hurts the feelings between couples the most. Two people will not sit down together to communicate well, just jealous of each other, but the consequences of suspicion will only hurt feelings, in the way of ignoring each other to express their anger, this is the cold violence in love, hurt feelings hurt people's hearts.
And once this cold war is formed, it will slowly become a subconscious habit, which will cause both of you to acquiesce in this way of handling, so that you will easily gradually alienate, the relationship will be easy to crack, so that the feelings of both sides will fade, so do not express your dissatisfaction and anger in this way.
Don't casually propose a breakup
Some girls like to force their boyfriends to obey in this way, of course, there are many boys who will treat their girlfriends in this way, which is a very undesirable method. You know, when you do this, the other person only wants to keep you because they love you, but it is a very wrong way to use love as your weapon to hurt the other party. Couples in the run-in period, it is easy to impulsively break up for this reason, if this ends a relationship, it is a pity.
We should trust each other, put the problem better in front of us to communicate together, face and solve it together, so that we can not only know each other's true thoughts more effectively, but also further promote feelings, and people who casually hang up the breakup will also easily lead to the other party's disgust feelings, so this way is very undesirable.
Both sides should have their own space for independence
Although two people are very romantic and sweet when they are together, there are always times when they are disgusted and tired, and sometimes they have to keep their own independent space, each with their own independent space, so that they will not let each other have so much pressure. Because everyone is an independent individual and needs a self-space to recharge from the time of charging, a good other should know more about the normal needs of such a need, whether it is a married couple, or you who are in love, you need to negotiate a self-space of your own. This will also be more effective in keeping more fresh for both of you.
To create romance once in a while
Some boys or will use the reasons of old husbands and wives to refuse romance, feelings will eventually return to plain, plain feelings like chicken ribs, if you feel that your feelings between each other are flat, changed by life is not as good as before, then make a travel plan, after the trip, you will find that the feelings of the two go further. No matter how long you have been together, it is necessary to create some surprises and some romance for each other appropriately.
Because life needs color, and the feelings between you also need some romance and surprises to fill, the life of the clouds and the breeze is good, but the rainbow sunset will also add a different experience to you, which is also very effective in adjusting the emotional life between you, so that you can enjoy the emotional supply brought by each other more, maybe a bouquet of flowers, a word, a small gift will bring different surprises to each other, so these are very necessary.
When there is a conflict and dispute between two people, no matter who is right and who is wrong, if you really love each other, you should not be defeated by this little thing. Two people must learn to tolerate each other, rather than thinking of breaking up as soon as there is a contradiction, and work together to get through the run-in period. If both parties love each other, they should not fight for right and wrong, and being with each other is the most important choice, rather than putting the feelings of both parties on the table for a simple thing, I hope that you will better have a love for yourself, and you also love the other half to accompany.