Recently, the sudden outbreak of new crown pneumonia has once again disrupted the rhythm of our lives, so that children have to press the pause button of offline learning. This sudden change is both a challenge and an opportunity, and parents should take the initiative to assume the main responsibility of family education and do a good job in logistical support, emotional guidance, safety management and other work. So, what do we do as parents?
Scientific epidemic prevention, vigilance awareness can not be reduced
Based on the current situation of repeated epidemics, we must not only maintain a scientific and rational attitude to objectively understand the epidemic, but also fully understand the complexity and arduousness of the epidemic prevention and control work, obtain information about the epidemic situation of the new coronavirus infection pneumonia from official channels, scientifically understand the nature, epidemic situation, clinical manifestations and harms of the epidemic, and do not pay too much attention to negative reports and do not believe rumors.
At the same time, parents should also continue to pay attention to their own and their children's health, report the itinerary trend in a timely manner, meticulously cooperate with schools and communities to implement epidemic prevention and control measures, and do a good job in joint prevention and control of the epidemic.
Positive emotions, improve psychological immunity
Parents' stable emotions are like a container that can contain the child's anxiety, sadness, aggression and helplessness into this safe space, and can promote the child's smooth transformation of these negative emotions and states. If the child is isolated at school or hotel, don't worry too much, I believe that the relevant staff can handle it properly, and at the same time, this is also to give the child a chance to live independently.
Of course, when the child has some negative emotions, parents can also not rush to help him solve, but silently support him around the child, leaving him a certain amount of time and space, so that he can fully perceive and experience the flow of emotions, try to channel emotions through reasonable and positive methods, and transform them into forward momentum.
Parents should learn to be a listener, chat more with their children, let the children take the initiative to express their ideas, and exercise their children's ability to "think independently". Whether the communication with the child is smooth is also the touchstone of the parents' family education ability.
Regular work and rest to ensure normal rhythm
Psychological research has shown that a lifestyle of 21 days may become a habit, and insisting on 90 days will become a stable habit and behavior, therefore, during the online teaching period, parents should continue to be a good guide for educating their children, encouraging and helping children maintain the rhythmic activities of the original normal school days.
As far as possible, let children participate in abiding by the rules of daily life (keep the usual diet and sleep, play, play, read, study at home regularly, and interact with friends and relatives through WeChat and telephone). Parents lead by example (wash their hands, disinfect, eat on time, sleep). Try to keep the daily routine as stable as possible. So as to cultivate good living habits and self-management skills, and constantly enhance the child's sense of certainty and self-efficacy.
Parent-child interaction, effective companionship
Parents may wish to take this time as a good time for parents and children to get along harmoniously, cherish the days when the family is together, strive to create a positive, healthy, happy and warm family growth environment, more companionship, more communication, more encouragement, more praise, and timely respect for the needs of children's independence and solitude, help children build an optimistic and positive attitude, and enhance resilience.
Pay attention to harmonious parent-child relationships. Find activities that interest your child, help each other, and interact with each other. Play, exercise, read, watch TV, listen to music, cook, learn with your child, be good at using the right communication methods, listen carefully to your child's expressions, respect your child's inner thoughts, and solve your child's confusion, emotions and wishes.
Of course, we can also use the Internet, television and other media resources to relive the wonderful moments of the Winter Olympic games and the Winter Paralympic Games with our children, learn the faith and spirit of athletes who are tenacious, tenacious and dedicated, and perceive the endless love, happiness and dreams brought by the Olympic Games.
Home and school are united in one heart, escorting youth
During this time, I hope that parents will closely cooperate with the school, maintain good and positive home-school communication, understand and support the various work requirements of the school, timely understand the strengths and weaknesses of the child's personalized development, grasp the growth rules of the child, and help the child grow up healthy and harmonious.
Finally, I sincerely hope that parents can make good use of this rare parent-child time to become their children's life planners, physical and mental guardians, habit-forming teachers and character forgingrs to help them achieve their best selves.
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