Guo Degang once said a very philosophical sentence in life: He understands one thing when he is three years old, and he cannot understand this thing before he has experienced it until he is ninety-five.
In fact, life is like this, and so are feelings. There are some things that can only be understood if you have experienced them yourself.
Men often talk about love many times to understand these 4 things:
Thing #1: Women like pugs but won't accept men like that
Many women like pugs because the dog is cute and surrounds her all day.
But, a man who surrounds a woman all day, centered on her, has no hobbies of his own, no career of his own, or even his own posture. Well, this woman will not fall in love with this man.
Thing 2: Women say "don't bother me myself", "Don't buy gifts", which is all a lie
One day it rains, you call her and say, "Or I'll pick you up," and she'll say, "Don't bother, I can do it myself." In fact, what she said is not really okay, what she wants is that you have come downstairs to her company.
On Valentine's Day or Tanabata, you ask her " what gift do you want, I'll buy it for you " , and she'll definitely say " What gift to buy , no need to" If you really don't buy it, she will always remember it.
You know, there's no harm without contrast. She may not really want you to break the bank, but the circle of friends on Valentine's Day or Tanabata, believe me, she will be very disappointed without gifts.
Thing 3: When women stop clinging to you, it's not far from you
No matter how big the grinning woman, when she falls in love with a man, she will become gentle. That's because she loves, has cat sex, becomes spoiled, loves dependence, and even loves to cling to people.
If one day, you find that she who was once clingy to people is no longer clinging to you, she has changed, she no longer looks for you for the first time when she encounters something, she does not bother you when you go to work, and she no longer wants you to accompany.
Well, she's not far away from you, because she has no love for you anymore.
Thing 4: Women can spit on their shortcomings, you don't go along with them
When a woman spits out , "Oh, I've been fat again lately", she actually wants you to say "Talk nonsense, come and hug me", and then say "Which is fat, no". Instead of expecting you to say, "Well, it's time to lose weight."
Women generally have electronic scales, fat or not fat she has a number in mind. When she complains that she is fat, just ask for a comfort, comfort her that you will not dislike her fat, that's all.
Maybe you haven't disliked her in your heart at all, but if you say the phrase "you are really fat", you have already expressed disgust in her heart.
There are some things that can only be understood if you have experienced them yourself. The above 4 things, I believe many men feel the same.
As the saying goes, a woman's heart, a needle under the sea. This is not false at all, many men chase women or get along with women when they are young, and they are certainly not less entangled.
Women are naturally sensual and more sensitive, and shallow men or straight men really can't figure it out. But if you can understand women, women will be conquered.
Some men are born with women, while some men only understand after many times in love. In fact, experiencing it is a kind of harvest!