As the saying goes: the bride price is not reasonable.
The bride price is the gift given by the man in order to marry the daughter of the woman's family, which is a custom that has existed since ancient times and exists throughout the country.
I have not seen any family that marries a daughter without a bride price, which is not good to say.
The reason why the bride price is not reasonable is because from ancient times to the present, there have been many controversies about the bride price.
Some people think that the woman must have a bride price, not to mention how much, anyway, it must be, which is also a test of the man's attitude and attention.
Some people also think that the woman should not ask for a bride price, which is to add a burden to the man's family, after all, in order to handle the marriage, the man's family has already paid a lot.
Because the contradictions caused by this bride price also abound.
Today I want to talk about a story about the bride price that happened in Hebei.
Xiaoqing and her boyfriend met on the campus of the university, and coincidentally, the two were actually from the same city. With this prerequisite, the relationship between the two people instantly took a big step forward.
At the same time, the two fellow villagers also take care of each other in the university in a foreign country, relying on each other, and gradually, the two came together.
The relationship between Xiaoqing and her boyfriend has always been very good, this is not just graduated, the two want to enter the palace of marriage. The two families are also very supportive of this marriage, mainly because the two families are not far away, and it is convenient to move around in the future.
So Xiao Qing's boyfriend Xiao Jun brought his mother to Xiao Qing's house and prepared to discuss the marriage between the two. At first, the two families talked well, and the dinner table was full of laughter and laughter, but when it came to the issue of the bride price, the atmosphere suddenly froze.
Because Xiao Qing's mother opened her mouth for 100,000 yuan, Xiao Jun's mother's face instantly cooled down.
Seeing that the situation was not quite right, Xiao Qing quickly hit the round field and said, "Mom, this is all negotiable, right?" ”
But Xiaoqing's mother said that there was no need to discuss.
Xiao Jun's mother was angry, and Xiao Jun's mother said, "If you say 100,000 words, you can marry a daughter-in-law in the city, and you are still looking for what you do in the countryside." ”
After saying that, Xiao Jun's mother left breathlessly.
Afterwards, Xiao Jun also complained to Xiao Qing, saying: "You also know that my family is an ordinary family. And I just graduated, where did the 100,000 come from. ”
Xiao Qing said a little guiltily: "Don't be angry, I still have fifty thousand here, I will give it to you, you take another fifty thousand at home, can you?" ”
However, Xiao Jun still felt a little too much, and in his heart, ten thousand and one yuan was normal.
So Xiaoqing found her mother and began to complain, Xiaoqing said: "Why do you want so much money, whether you are marrying your daughter or selling your daughter." ”
Xiao Qing's mother did not speak, but took out a bank card from her pocket and said: "Here are two hundred thousand, which I have saved over the years, as your dowry, the reason why I want one hundred thousand is just to see how much they value it." The password is your birthday, whether you marry or not, you decide. ”
It turned out that Xiaoqing misunderstood her mother, and she shed tears of remorse.
If I had to say, this Xiao Qing couldn't marry Xiao Jun. The dowry of 100,000 is not much at all, they are not willing to pay, can you still hope that they will be good to you in the future?
As the saying goes: compare heart to heart.
You look at your mother's attitude, and then look at xiaojun's mother's attitude, carefully compare it, and you will understand it all.
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