There is a friend who is very strange, obviously has high blood pressure, the doctor has warned him many times, but he still can't change the habit of loving pork liver, every time we go out to eat together, pork liver is our must..
I like this habit of my friend, because I love pork liver as much as he does, and as long as I am with him, I can satisfy my appetite.
Later, after learning that he had high blood pressure, I once advised him, after all, middle-aged people like us, if they do not regulate their eating habits, sooner or later there will be problems.
But no matter what I said, he was still unwilling to give up this hobby.
Later, we drank together, and after getting drunk, he told me that he loved pork liver because of his father.
Friends like me from the countryside, when I was a child, my family was poor, most of the pigs fed at home were sold, most of the meat left by my family was not easy to sell, as for the delicious parts of pork leg ribs, basically did not eat.
Of course, for these, friends do not like, the whole pig, his most rare is the pork liver. Her parents were distressed by her and kept the pork liver every year, although the pork liver was also very valuable.
Just when my friend was ten years old, the family suffered a change, someone named to buy pork liver, wait until the friend came home from school, found that the pork liver was sold, although it was a little uncomfortable, but he knew the difficulties of his parents and did not show it.
When he was thirty-five years old, his father was seriously ill and had been clamoring to buy pork liver to eat, but when the pork liver was ready, his father did not eat a bite, and he still picked it up for his friends there.
The father told his friend that although the friend had never said it, they all saw the performance of the friend that year, and the reason why they bought pork liver was to make up for the events of that year.
Screenshot of the TV series "Please Advise More for the Rest of Your Life"
Friends said that after many years, he had already forgotten almost everything about that year, but he didn't want his father to still remember it.
Shortly thereafter, my friend's father died, but the habit of eating pork liver remained.
I can understand my friend's mood, for us, pork liver is just a dish that can be used to satisfy our appetites, but for him, pork liver is his father's love for himself. Every time he ate pork liver, he could feel his father's presence.
The reason why I remembered this incident is because in the recently updated plot of "Please Teach More for the Rest of Your Life", Lin Jianguo, the father of Lin Zhi school, also did the same thing.
In the impression of Lin Zhixue, his father was autocratic, arbitrary and unreasonable, and it was not difficult for me to understand this.
Lin Jianguo loves his daughter very much, but he has always considered the problem from his own point of view, obviously for the sake of his daughter's good, but because of the lack of communication, every time they meet, the grandfather and son will pinch each other, and finally break up unhappily.
Lin Zhixue was stubborn, and Lin Jianguo's temper was not much better.
That time Gu Wei called him to go to the hospital for examination, he felt that his body was fine, and when he reached the hospital door, he ran away again, and finally Lin Zhi's school pretended to be ill, and he reluctantly put Lin Jianguo into the hospital.
Even when he arrived at the hospital, Lin Jianguo did not cooperate much, and he wanted to run out for three days.
At first, he didn't know about his illness, which we can understand, but then he overheard about his illness and ran away, causing the whole family to look for him everywhere.
If I hadn't chased the drama all the way and knew that Lin Jianguo was not a father, it was likely that I would have complained in the barrage.
After all, the whole family was worried about him, and he not only didn't cooperate, but he also did so many things.
When Lin Jianguo was found in the hospital, Lin Zhixue blew up on the spot.
The family tossed most of the night, and also took a Gu Wei, it is because Lin Jianguo did not say goodbye, in exchange for ourselves, maybe even more angry than Lin Zhixue.
The most infuriating thing is not only this, but the next day of surgery has been scheduled, the doctor told him not to eat at night, after being found by Lin Zhixue, he not only did not reflect on what he did wrong, but also asked his daughter to take himself to eat.
If it wasn't for Gu Wei's presence, it was estimated that the two of them would really fight.
There was a quarrel at the train station, and when they arrived at the fast food restaurant, the grandfather and son continued to quarrel. Obviously, it was Lin Jianguo who provoked it, but in the face of his daughter who was in a hurry to get on fire, Lin Jianguo still looked like a natural person, and no one could easily forgive him without taking God's perspective.
"When you were a kid, you loved to eat this... Aren't you still writing in your wish to go to a KDJ with your dad? ”
"When you were in the third grade of elementary school, your teacher asked you to write a hundred things you wanted to do with your father, and you drew a little flower on it..."
The memories pulled away, suddenly they couldn't hold back, at this moment Lin Zhi school was already in the third year, but his daughter's wish more than ten years ago, Lin Jianguo still remembered so clearly.
When he first entered the fast food restaurant, Lin Jianguo said that he did not like to eat these things, and the reason why he came here was actually to accompany his daughter to fulfill his wishes.
Later, we learned that the reason why Lin Jianguo sneaked out was also for his daughter, who wrote a hundred wishes that year, but when she moved, she forgot to bring them back, and he went home this time to get back the paper and then help her complete all her wishes.
"I knew I was cancer, and I heard it all. In fact, if you don't hear it, it's pretty much the same. Your own body, yourself clear. The operation is not easy to say, there is a lot of uncertainty. ”
Only then did I understand that in fact, Lin Jianguo knew everything, and the reason why he did not debunk it was also to cooperate with his daughter's acting.
"School, Dad has been too busy with work over the years, has not been able to accompany you to complete your wishes, in the blink of an eye you look, now do not know what you like to eat." 」
Hearing this, Lin Zhixue couldn't help it, because she didn't expect that that old-fashioned, domineering father actually had such a soft side.
What is fatal is that his father is for himself, but he still scolds him in public. Self-blame, guilt, worry... All the negative emotions rushed into her heart together, but fortunately Gu Wei was present and lent her a shoulder.
When he returned, Lin Zhixue held his father's hand tightly and leaned on his shoulder. Although Lin Jianguo didn't say anything, we could see from his squirming lips that he had actually been looking forward to this day for a long time.
Although it is not known when the grandfather and son began to separate, but over the years, the tip of the father and daughter needles to Mai Mang has long formed a vicious circle - Lin Zhixue desperately wants to escape the control of his father, in order to pull his daughter back to his side, Lin Jianguo's desire to control is getting stronger and stronger, and Lin Zhixue wants to stay away more.
It is not difficult to imagine that after making such a scene, Lin Jianguo and Lin Zhixue will truly reconcile, no matter what contradictions there will be between father and daughter in the future, as long as they think of what happened today, they will put aside those differences and find the best way to deal with them.
Not only that, along the way, it has always been Gu Wei who accompanied Lin Zhixue, and also paved the way for the sweet love between the two later.
When I was a child, I once heard a story, and the content of the story could not be remembered clearly, but the last sentence of the story, even after many years, was still fresh in my memory - the mother's heart was on the child's body, and the child's heart was on the stone.
The love between parents and children has never been reciprocal—
Most parents give all their energy to their children after having children, but as children grow up, they have their own lives, have their own other half, have their own children, and the weight of parents in their hearts will become lighter and lighter.
When the child grows up and leaves home, most of the time, the parents are recalling the events of the child's childhood.
Many things, the child has completely forgotten, but in the hearts of the parents, everything seems to happen yesterday. So they want to do whatever they can to make up for what they owe to their children.
Even if the child already has a child, in their eyes, it is still the little one who chases after himself for snacks and toys, but he does not want to change his preferences after many years.
Every time I went back to my hometown, my father always loved to pull me to chat, talk about my body, and talk about the troubles of my childhood.
Many times, if it wasn't for my father mentioning it, I would have forgotten that I used to be so rebellious and so naughty.
At first, I didn't understand my father's nagging, and when I had children, I realized that for most parents, everything related to children is the most precious memory of their lives.
Suddenly I understood why for so many years, it had always been my mother's cooking that was most in line with my taste, because in this world, only she knows what I like to eat.
I'm just ashamed that, for so many years, I never knew what my parents liked.
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